Caught by wife wearing diapers

My wife knows I wear diapers, she does not approve, she will not let me wear a diaper to bed.

Last night we were getting ready for bed, when my wife told me to sleep in the spare room until she is asleep, as my snoring keeps her awake.

I took too much time down stairs putting my diaper on. When I got upstairs, she asked why I did not kiss her good night? what took you so long down stairs, pull your pants down, so I can see if you have a diaper on!

I was ordered to take if off at once. Most of the time I put my diaper on at 3:00 when I get up & need to pee, I get into a diaper very quickly & get back into bed.

My wife would rather have me in diaper then me getting her and the bed wet

My wife knows and doesn't care. However, if she did I'd probably still wear them whenever I want to, anyway.

I've never understood being in a relationship where my partner doesn't approve of my kinks. Maybe its just me but my happiness means everything to me and I would sacrifice that for anyone.

I am not married but a good friend found out she brought it up for a while now she has not said a thing for some time and yes being married means give a little and take a little

I have been wearing diaper's when my wife was out and started wearing a pad when going out for a long drive( she knows about the pads but not the diaper's) but the other evening she said does the pad take a full bladder load? I said no, she the said that she a load of pads, and pull ups etc up in a draw if i wanted to help my self. She then went do to say she did not have any hang ups me using them...

Hmmm,\

I am just the opposite in that my wife knows about the diapers but not the pads. I think tonight may be a good start to wearing both to bed.

My wife dosent mind as she knows about my accidents.

I can only hope for this but I'm not married. Bummer!

Before I had to wear diapers for medical reasons my wife has found my used diapers under our bed. I have had to cover up fast a few times, but I am sure it was obvious that I had on a diaper. She just seems not to notice and prefers to ignore that I like and use diapers, which works for me. I now wear cloth diapers to bed every night and wear depend pull-ups every day. I make sure both are well soaked, so she is use to my peed in diapers around all the time.

It sounds like you two need to sit down and talk through everything.

When my wife asks me if I am wearing a diaper, I always answer no. If I told the truth, she would make me take it off, It would not be a problem if my diaper was about to leak, but I am always asked when I want to stay in my wet diaper for a few more hours, I hate lying to my wife & have asked her not to ask me this question, but to order me to pull down my pants!

Mine are so thick and bulky that my wife doesn't need to ask--she can just look at me and tell!

Lying is never good. I won't go into the whys and wherefores on that, but maybe you can suggest that your wife spank you, if you tell her you are not wearing a diaper, and she discovers you are. She might still insist you remove your diaper, but at least you both still might have some fun with it. You can also ask her to spank you on your diaper, and then you will comply with taking it off for doing so.

Oh, and don't forget. Ask her, if you can wear your diapers, then there might be something you can do for her in exchange. That could be anything from taking out the trash, to some sexual favor.

I hope you can come to some arrangement, good luck !

YEA! It happened! First she asked me, then said show me that you are not. (I was not) Now that I know she will ask me to drop my pants to show her, I will tell her the truth! even if it means that I will be told to take my diaper off.

This morning sweetie asked me to get back into bed, @ 7:00, I got up at 5:30, & I had put on my diaper at that time..

when I got back into bed, she asked me, & I had to tell her the truth. I was then ordered to take my diaper off, clean up, then get back into bed! Boo Hoo, my diaper was nowhere close to leaking!

I wanted to stay in my diaper!!!

But it was worth it!

While I can't condone lying to a loved one, I couldn't see being with someone that didn't tolerate my kinks or at least ignored them.

No chance of getting her to play along?

Not while we are in bed.

Ha... my wife knows about my kink but does not approve and wants nothing to do with it.

I tried to lead her up to it gently but didn't get anywhere much. When it came to the nitty gritty she didn't want to know.

So... on the sofa at night to wear or during the day at home alone.

My wife knew of my diapers before we got married. I tried to go a month without my diapers and figured that would tell me if I could leave them behind when we got married. That lasted about two weeks before I was going crazy. I realized I had to confess my secret. So the next time I saw her we went to my place where we were alone. After about five minutes of stuttering and finally breaking down and crying I got it out. I wore diapers for fun. She looked at me funny and then said so? That's the big secret? I doesn't bother me at all.

Over the years it's caused a lot of friction, mainly my fault but we now get along fairly well with my diapers. I'm wet every morning and the days she's not working I get changed into dry diapers by her. So I guess I can say I never got caught by my wife......

My story is somewhat different never had trouble about diapers.Then in my 50,s would wet the bed and pants so we discussed but really not much was returned to diapers so as to keep her dry.She knows every night I,am diapered she is somewhat controlling when we go out of town must pack extra ones she has hinted is like traveling with a small child.Thanks for letting me vent.

Im not into Diapers ,but I love wearing adult size babies plastic pants , I must admit if you are using the diaper to crap into them ect , then I would fully understand any wife who did kick off at her husband ,boyfreind . It like coming home in ordinary clothes going to the pub ,then finishing off with a ruby murrey then "following through , whats the difference to that or a diaper ? . On your own in your own bed -may-be to some

My wife would rather me pee the bed then wear a diaper. She is embarrass when I wear one. I don't understand why it's only to bed.

To update all my previous posts, I finally told her after asking me again " Are you wearing a diaper?" My answer was " Of course just like any other day" She has not asked again, but I do wish she would demand to check my diaper!

My wife absolutely knows I wear diapers and has known from the day I started wearing. However, she believes I suffer some incontinence when, in fact, I do not. I simply like wearing them and peeing in them. If she knew that, I'm certain she would think I've lost all common sense. She has no issues with me wearing; but, certainly doesn't share my interest in them. This past fall she was ill with bronchitis and was having bad coughing spells causing her to have stress incontinence beyond what her Poise panty liners could handle. I convinced her to wear my diapers for a few days and complimented her on how sexy I thought she looked in them. But, it was to no avail. She only wore them for 2 or 3 days and had no more interest in them. Bottom line is I love pee and diapers and she doesn't; so, I will continue to enjoy wetting myself daily. At least I don't have to worry about hiding my fetish.

Since my wife became aware of my many bedwetting accidents, it was first of all herself who suggested that I wear a diaper, at first I objected and protested energetically, then she told me it's the diapers or the spare bedroom with a plastic mattress. So I chose the diapers. My wife would rather see me at diapers than wet the bed, every night we prepare for the bed. First she’s going to order me to pee the toilet and while she’s going to take care of my cloth diapers and my plastic pants, she'll make sure I have enough layer thickness so I don't have a leak. Sometimes I put on my diapers myself, after madam makes me drop my pajama pants so that she can quickly see if I have pinned my diaper and covered with my plastic pants correctly for the bed! Madam is use to seeing pee in my diapers, because she will ask me to tell her if I am wet in the mornings and during the day to change and put back in a dry diaper. Since I wear diapers, I like and use my diapers and not to worry about it anymore and the why I have to go wear it.

Wife keeps me diapered but wish she would take more direction and change me ect