Real life Dominant women who spank their men

I often wonder if there are many ladies out there, not counting professional Doms, who enjoy giving the men in their lives a good punishment spanking. It seems to me that many women are happy enough to receive a spanking but that few are willing to take the dominant role. I am not referring to a playful session as a prelude to sex but rather a scenario where the male is punished for some actual wrong-doing or spanked in order to improve his attitude or teach him new ways.

Would any care to share their experience, real life preferably.

You need to get out more. I know many dominant women who incorporate corporal punishment in their relationships.

Based on my experience there are actually more Dominant women than men active in BDSM. Especially middle aged and older. There are a lot of Pros but also many who practice Domination as a way of life. As jds4med said, you need to get out more.....

The women does not have to be dominate. I have been in relationships and in a marriage where once you have established the relationship if you propose that they spank you they will. And, as time goes by get more and more into it. Yes, some women are turned off by the idea of spanking their husband or giving him an enema, but many will do it , some just plain like it and some just to please their husband.

My wife spanks me both as discipline & foreplay.

If I have not been spanked in a while,I provoke the punishment spankings, she decides on when I am to be spanked as a prelude to sex.

She has also told me, when I have been a good boy, I am going to spank you because I want to & because I can!

I often wonder if there are many ladies out there, not counting professional days Doms, who enjoy giving the men in their lives a good punishment spanking.

I know one or two women who enjoy giving the men in their lives a good spanking for pleasure, not punishment. They pretend it's punishment for roleplay, but really it's all for pleasure.

I have been spanking my husband for almost 35 years. That includes our engagement.

Spanking was a mutual passion between my last boyfriend and me. It added an element of excitement and pleasure to our foreplay. The exchange of physical sensations heightened our arousal and deepened our connection. It was a consensual and enjoyable aspect of our intimate relationship, enhancing our intimacy and creating a unique bond between us. The shared enjoyment of this playful act brought us closer together and added an exhilarating dynamic to our physical interactions.

I would think that if both partners are willing that sound, punishment spanking might be included in a marriage as a way to deal with issues and to clear the air. It would certainly be better than arguing constantly, verbally fighting or especially holding in any animosity. I suppose an agree upon set of rules would be in order and that the spankings would truly have to be punitive ini nature...and equally applicable to both of the partners.

My wife certainly does. Don’t see that ever changing.