A method of edging I’ve found that always seems to be met with extreme appreciation is, I straddle a guy’s hips, facing toward his feet. After I slowly slide down his engorged phallus I start to lift my melons slowly up and down, using my knees and thighs. I reach down to both stroke and tickle his scrotum, and to be aware of when it starts to pull up tight which indicates he’s about ready to climax. From experience I pretty well know the symptoms of imminent orgasm, so that’s when I drop clear down to his base and squeeze my sphincters together hard. I just stay there for a few minutes, undulating my round but firm male buttocks, feeling his pubes scouring into my crack. I do this over and over again, each time letting him get a little closer to nutting but keeping him firmly under my control (I forgot to mention that I generally like to tie his wrists to the headboard or otherwise restrain him from knocking me aside and finishing himself off alone).
Sometimes instead of pinching off his flow of semen at the base I glide up his shaft and use my anal ring to clamp around the ridge of his glans. This works as well or the same, and if I lean forward and put my hands on the mattress between his legs, the combination of tugging at his cock-head with my anal lips as I lunge forward and back, and writhing my buttocks in a circular motion can actually cause him to moan piteously for release.
The more I edge him the further up inside I know I will feel the impact and burn of his breeding fluid when he finally inseminates me.
At last, when I sense we’ve both been driven to the point of near senselessness by the protracted edging, milking, undulating and stretching, I really go for it. I conjure up every trick I know to make the ejaculation pleasurable for him, then use my Kegel-powered muscles to trigger a testosterone-powered nuclear blast. It’s something I know is sublime for both of us - for him because he always says so once he’s stopped yelling, gasping, shrieking, and groaning. And for me because what can be more awesome for a Gay dude than to know his well-cared-for butt has just been splattered with the DNA-laced semen of an Alpha stud, for him to absorb, or if he prefers, to let gurgle and ooze slowly out onto the still-turgid member of his partner, slime-ing his cock, scrotum, balls, pubes and taint with his own load of jism?