Edging

I find edging both horrible and awesome. I find it frustrating, but makes my orgasms 10x stronger

I would think it the most natural reaction to be for people to wish to prolong the pleasure of sex play for as long as possible. An orgasm may be intense, but it does not last long, some dozen or so seconds?. And then desire is sated and nothing feels sexually urgent anymore.

I would think it the most natural reaction to be for people to wish to prolong the pleasure of sex play for as long as possible. An orgasm may be intense, but it does not last long, some dozen or so seconds?. And then desire is sated and nothing feels sexually urgent anymore.

True for most guys....but remember, girls got the multi-orgasm gift! 😄

I would think it the most natural reaction to be for people to wish to prolong the pleasure of sex play for as long as possible. An orgasm may be intense, but it does not last long, some dozen or so seconds?. And then desire is sated and nothing feels sexually urgent anymore.

Exactly. So I really do enjoy prolonged edging, specially in the midst of my other kinks like being dressed in sneakers and rubber and being restrained for taking a large enema. Eventually I do succumb and have to have the orgasm, but the whole long lead up time being edged while being stimulated by the kink items is exciting and delightful. Usually the longer the better.

My 2nd ex-wife was very good and very enthusiastic about doing this. She would dress me in those same kink outfits above and give me 1-2 enemas on top of each other, making me do various submissive tasks and intermittently edging me until she finally had me give her PIV and orgasms. This would go on for anywhere from 2-3 hours to occasionally overnight.

Eric

This happens a lot to me. My wife uses a vibrator on my cock and balls. I tell her when I am ready to cum. Most of the time she stops and says we are done. I love it. The orgasm control was all my idea and she plays along. This would not be happening if I didn't ask for it in the first place. I think she enjoys it

I love doing that to My woman. Hearing her beg for a release. Hearing her moan when I stop just before her orgasm. And when I decide to let her cum ...... o wow

I find this enjoyable as well. Plus it is just another way to learn limits and how to push those limits as well. Also it is an exercise in learning for myself. How quickly to i pick up on my partner/sub/victim's signals. What are they telling me with their body on how they are responding to my attention.

Plus is this a scene, or is this just fun. And while I have, God only knows, so many devices to help achieve the ultimate goal. Allowing them to finally orgasm I use my fingers. Whether stimulating their clit or with a solid penetration. Or if male that slow stroke and perhaps me sucking it out of them.

This is just a pure sexual high for me.

Faith

I'm a cuckold locked in a cb6000 24/7. If I behave when my wife comes home from a date and is satisfied, she will unlock me and let me jerk off as she tells me about her date. But I I have miss behaved , or if her lover did not bring her to orgasum , she will unlock me and let me jerk off, but then stop me when she sees I'm near cumming, and locks me back in without cumming. . It is very frustrating to say the least......toni

Yes I love edging but I've not tried it for too long yet

I have had this done to me several times. Needless to say, it elevates your heart rate, and you feel every sensation in greater detail, with the only objective is being allowed to orgasm. Once the orgasm is permitted, whether that be hours or even days, it produces tons of cum, a sensation that cannot be fully described, and just a huge relief. You never want to do it again but then again you do.

I have someone here that tells me to try that....maybe when we have time I will try it.

I dont know what to expect, will be a new thing for me.

😃

Za

Even at my age I find myself cumming much quicker than I like. Edging has always been difficult for that reason. During one of my recent encounters I was restrained while he put a metal cock cage over my dick.It did the trick as much of the eroticism was my body trying to grow out of the cage yet there could be no cock play. Nipple play is my turn on and even that could not get me erect and to shoot. As so many have described, frustrating yet exciting. I have since purchased a silicone cage which is a bit easier to put on and very comfortable for longer play but the metal cage is the real thing as it captures the real spirit of submission and restraint.

I enjoy edging whether done by myself or with others. Both giving and receiving in this activity is exciting. The hardest part is trying to edge yourself. The key is finding ways to stop right before you are about to explode. But if you can do this over several hours, then when you finally reach that moment you shoot your ejaculate everywhere.

Tantric massage incorporates “edging” where one is drawn close to orgasm and then brought back down. The concept is to incorporate the whole body into the eroticsim. Some Lingham massage articles specifically calls it out as a form of edging.

As a play doctor, edging is absolutely part of my examination routine, for male or female patients. Restraints are mandatory, of course. With female patients, I usually stimulate them to orgasm once, so I can observe their specific responses and signals, which makes the subsequent edging all the more torturous. And of course, being edged elevates the heart rate, which means I have to use my nice, cold stethoscope to monitor it, especially during the cooldown phases…

This is my absolute favorite thing to do to my husband. Works best when he is firmly restrained (as at some point he will do anything to ejaculate). I find that with a finger on his prostate, I can judge fairly well the ‘point of no return’ as his prostate hardens considerably just before ejaculation. I also love what I think are called ‘abandoned orgasms’ where if I've gone too far and he starts to ejaculate I just stop all stimulation and let it happen. His penis will wiggle this way and that and he will hump the air trying to get satisfaction. Of course shortly thereafter, the head of his penis is extraordinarily sensitive and if I stimulate him, he practically goes insane.

Isn't this about 50% of what BDSM is about? So yes! Many times and for extended periods. Tied up, rubber suited, vibrated to the edge of the peak. Breath control is a part of it sometimes, anal play, enema play, fun with recreational (sometimes medical) substances - all are a part of the ultimate edge experience.

My fondest memory was a with close friend, about 15 years my senior and who is also a pro Dom/Mistress. While plugged fully, tied down wearing a thick neoprene compression suit (basically a wetsuit that is too small) and solidly erect due to a large dose of vitamin V… She tormented my balls and cock for about 2 hours - stretching, clips, pumping, suction, hot, cold, etc. and then commenced to sound me with a long silicone sound and deeply suck me with her mouth for a hour and a half. Holy shit, when I finally came, I literally blacked out! It was painful, intense, joyous and voluminous - like the biggest orgasm I have had ever! I couldn't walk for a while…

She is a true expert and can hold me right at the literal razor's edge for hours. Alas though, she has stopped playing (largely due to age) and her extensive dungeon is just sitting…

I often edge myself, sometimes with the help of some porn that is made for it (red light/green light). I like it a lot and would like to try getting edged by someone else. Let me know if you like to be my “edger”.

I'd love to have this done to me. On occasion Sir will tell me to play with myself (and vibrator) for a certain length of time before I'm allowed to orgasm.

OMG I love being edged, the torture always ends with an extremely intense orgasm!

My interests and intrigues vary and change throughout time, and so, as it is, I've currently been wondering and formulating play ideas of how to incorporate this edging into future play. Part of my kink is having my doctor understand my needs and one who pays particular attention to my bodily responses. As such, they in turn know how to control my responses and, by submitting to them, they control when and how I orgasm, as well as the intensity. It would certainly take the right setting and adequate synergy but it's what some of my fantasies are made of....this edging. In my own times of play and masturbation, I've attempted this edging...I find it so stimulating...forcing myself (even myself!) to not cum...at least not yet. How I love the gradual build up! The anticipation is everything! Torturous...maybe...but oh so hot, knowing that I will end with this perfectly built up and volcanic climax that my dreams are made of 🫦🫦

Some extreme edging and orgasms when applied by my wife. Never been able to recreate it solo.

I love all forms of edging. I have been tied down, teased, edged, ruined multiple times and begging for release over a 2 hour period. Some weeks I will edge multiple times daily, that final release is incredible.

I love being teased and denied over and over...

Hands cuffed behind my back....vibrating butt plugged...nipple clamps with weights...2-3inch cock gag in place...sitting on edge of chair with clothespins on balls as Domme kisses and caresses me laughing and degrading me verbally as I suffer for Her enjoyment...over and over as she stops as I am about to cum...walks away...comes back again...and doesn't over and..as I beg for mercy and release!!!

Edging is often presented as a way to increase your erotic stamina. As a guy, I admire female sexual response. The nearest I can get is a long session of self edging, which may or may not include an enema or possibly breathplay. Here is one of my favorite edging mistresses: https://www.xvideos.com/mistress_bjqueen . Happy edging, everyone!!

Some of the memorable edging and orgasm experiences of my life were, bizarrely, brought about by, at the time, my following a lifestyle of detachment and celibacy and "yogic" diet all woven into a community and belief system. If you can believe it, I actually attempted celibacy during my twenties. I was living in Japan at the time, btw.

The way it worked out was like this: I'd be out and about, noticing the beautifully dressed women. I knew I was building up sexual energy when **one glance** at an attractive woman would send a kind of electrical current through my equipment, like a pump priming, building up pressure, not an erection, but a definite charging. The glances would add up! Being in a big city means riding the trains and the subways. Rush hour sometimes puts you in close quarters with nubile fresh smelling maidens. I'd feel a frisson of excitement if, for example, her boob happened into my elbow, or I'd feel her bump against me. If you've seen any groping videos, that's the daily situation for many frustrated men who consume this porn. Well, my inner excitement would start to burn, and I could tell that a few days hence, plus or minus, I would cum, whether I wanted or not! I vividly remember a pair of permanent press brown pants, I had, some synthetic, with a shiny satiny material for what was a generously large pocket liner.

I'd be walking, and literally every step the friction of the material had me on the edge of cumming. More and more desperate for stimulation, I ended up taking the stairs up to my 6th floor apartment, the extra movement with each step finally taking me over the edge. My knees buckled and I creamed in my pants. Then, after a while, the buildup would start again. I think on average, one cycle took about three weeks.

This odd situation continued until I decided the celibacy and all the other baggage wasn't helping me, and that I was actually enjoying this involuntary, inevitable edging to orgasm. This ended in a period of rabbit-like coupling when I finally hooked up with the woman who eventually became my wife.