Am I at my limit already?

I have been playing with my ass for a while and I had gotten to where I could take 1.5 inches easily. I am trying to go bigger but one of the toys I tried I cannot get to go in. it feels like I am hitting bone on just about all sides whenever I get to about 2 inches. I have tried using toys that have one narrower dimension and one larger but it still has the same problem.

is the opening in my hips actually that small or am I doing something wrong?

Your limit will growth (enlarge) with the time . Take your pleasures with your acustomized / prefered size .

With the time , experiences your feelings will decrease , to maintain the level it will be time to choice one size bigger .

After 45 years fantasies , I have a nice collection of anal toys , IF 45 years ago I slided my largest toy from now inside me my ass would be destroyed !

This hole is made of skin , muscle and lot of nerves , exercising progressively is the only rule

Listen to your body , go mature , this is going slow - sensual - safe .

Arthur is spot on here , from my own experience it is prudent to take things real slow . The difference between 1.5" and 2" is quite a large step , i can go from 2" to 2 1/4" in a session no problem at all and work my way up to my max of just under 2 3/4" . I must stress that i don't insert more than 7-8" . If my max was 2 1/2" i wouldn't even consider a jump to 3" without many months of 'training' , don't rush things , if you still get a buzz out of 1.5" there is no point in hurting yourself by forcing things up there if your not ready for . Respect your ass . P.S Buckets of lube !

I agree with arthur and salty, slow, steady progress. I started with random household objects about 20 years ago, and progressed to a point now where I can take on 4 inch objects pretty easily. I've arrived at a place where I want to go bigger, but cannot find toys that I like, so I've tooled up and am now making my own high quality silicone toys. Unless you are a very small person, I expect you have many more years of stretching to go. This is not something that will happen in months, especially after 1 or 1.5 inches, it can be slow going. I recommend softer toys, silicone or pvc, whatever, as long as it is not rigid. I find that it is very tough to take a 3.5" solid object, the angle must be absolutely perfect, whereas I can go past 4" with something even a little flexible.

Make sure you understand your anatomy, how your tailbone interacts with everything and gets in the way, etc.

Also, lube, and lots of it. Enjoy.

I have been able to expand my limits over a long period of time.I can now take 3" diameter without trouble. I just play with my largest toy until it gets easy,then slightly increase size. Bad idea to rush it or take a big increase at once. Also I still start with a couple of the smaller toys to get me open and relaxed for the big one.

I enjoy max ....at 1.5 to 2 inches

Cannot agree more with the 'time' factor. I have been enjoying anal eroticism for a good 20 years and it just takes time to work your way to larger sizes. I think I have hit my limit at 3 inches, I just cannot go past it no matter how much lube I use and how much 'playing' I do; I also noticed that you need to be consistent with your 'anal play' as sometimes I go months without any 'exercise' and then I find myself struggling with 2 1/2 inches.

All responses are spot on, my wife started fingering my asshole when we were dating 25 years ago. That led to very small toys, then bigger toys, then dildos, then butt plugs, then bigger dildos, then blow-up plugs, then huge dildos, then her fist. I think I max out at 3" and it took 25 years to get there! Lot of fun along the way though.

I can say out of my experience that I second with all the great advise given. It takes time to get used to this stretching up. When I started to buy toys my eyes where more horny then my butt could handle, so I ended up with toys hat would not fit no matter what I tried. So by buying some smaller toys that went in easy, I finally managed to get to the next size without any problem, and so on and on and on... now I am not where I want to be yet, but getting closer in the process. My goal is to get a fist, human fist, I do have the doc Johnson toy fist. 😃

Keep up the good work, and practice with what you already have and can handle... Shop around for a slightly bigger one, that's how we all end up with large collections. 😃

Actually my "old big toys" back then now seem small and I can insert them without even looking at them so to speak.

Have fun poking around.

If the problem is not a width issue with object you are trying to insert- just an angle problem then I would suggest laying on your back and try inserting the toy that way. Or stand and insert the toy to play with different angles. You probably have more inside room if you penetrate on the angle that aims at your belly button.

If it is width issue, then you will have to go slowly to expand your anus over a period of many months using gradually larger and larger toys to stretch your anus and sphincter muscles. There are several threads that provide excellent coaching on how to do this here at Zity.

Keep in mind you can get plenty of pleasure from a dildo that doesn't max you out width wise. I know its kinky hot to be able to put larger and large toys up your ass but don't miss the opportunity to enjoy what fits easily right now.

Good luck.