New to this

Hi I'm Mary and I'm interested in finding out how to best explore anal play with other objects not just my own fingers?

Well first you should obviously start small. Don't use an object that could be dangerous or end up 'lost' in your rectum. With time you can move up to bigger and better toys. Just discover what works best for you.

Make sure that whatever you insert, you can retrieve.

Make sure whatever you retrieve you wash, if you want to use it again. You sure have a lot of other kink interests as well as this one.

Don't skimp on the lube , just use loads of the stuff . If you are embarrassed about buying over the counter or online there are many other options like vaseline , margarine , butter (Guernsey) and olive oil to name just a few . Also , make lots of time available when you're sure that you're not going to be interrupted , relax and enjoy every moment .

Just look around and you'll find lots of things. Look for things that have the shape of a penis. The handles of kitchen or bathroom items such as toilet bowl brushes, or potato mashers, or even your father's hand tools such as screwdrivers with rounded handles. I always put a condom over the handle with lots of lubrication before slowly sliding it up my bum. Start with small handles and work up to larger thicker handles. Have fun.

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I think the replies you already have cover most of. Go slow, lots of lube, don't use anything you can lose up there. A couple things I'll add. Stay away from glass items, especially hollow stuff like bottles & jars, but any glass can chip & hurt you. Vegetables are great, they come in all sizes, they are cheap, they are disposable. Keep some condoms around to put over things, makes cleanup easier. There is a huge variety of toys out there, many are very affordable and they are often more comfortable and easier to clean than found objects. On lube, stay away from lubes with nonoxynol-9 for anal play (or for anything else really), and use caution with things like soap or toothpaste, they burn a bit (some people like it that way). Have fun.

Hi Mary,

Any luck so far with exploring?

Purchase dildos in different sizes. Not butt plugs. Rub coconut oil all over it, and insert fingers into your ass. your asshole. Get in front of a mirror, and slowly insert the dildo in your ass. Fuck yourself, until it starts to feel good. Rub it, or vibrate your clit, at the same time. You’ll have an explosive orgasm. Work up to larger sizes. Try and take a large one. The pain is even pleasurable. Always on all fours, with your ass in the air. Enjoy!!!

Mary, the OP, is no longer with us!!!

Do not use a the handle of a toilet brush or you could get an infection