Butt plug recommendation

I got this one right now

http://www.amazon.com/Lav-Jelly-Double-Dong-Inch/dp/B000BOO4OI/ref=sr_1_1?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1376896116&sr=1-1&keywords=dildo

and i use ID velvet, got it from a local store they said it was good

i been using this for a while and ive made continues progress with it till i got to about 9in where i seem theres the sigmoid (im not terribly knowledged on terms), feels like its a bit to small a passage and so it gets kinda tight there, uncomfortable and anything past that band is, not working, thought it maybe work over in time but doesn't seem so, i use enema before also when trying get there, not exactly sure on the thickness sense it doesn't say but think its 1.5, the people at my local store didnt have any advice but im assuming i need a different toy to do anything in that depth comfortably, so looking for good recommendation, decently long doesn't have be exactly 18, the similar clearish look like the one i have, just something about skin type ones i dont like, and im sure about smooth ones, im use to the textured feel but i never tried smooth one. thanks for any advice, is appreciated

Well, you need to re-angle the dildo because at that distance inside, you need to try pushing up from a more posterior to anterior position.

You basically need to just slowly but firmly PUSH and it will pop past your obstruction, which isn't really an obstruction, it's just a bend in the colon you aren't used to.

Once you're cleaned out in that area, any lube will do. Trust me, I know! Not to vaunt, but I am a deep anal/colonic insertion queen!

Lots of ube and try twisting and turning as you go . I have had same problem and find that the tip isn't symmetrical so it makes a difference on the insertion.

After a few trys you will learn the shape of your insides and know when to twist or turn to get to the proper depth. Have fun!

Cirno,

First, you are working with a toy that I would suggest is much too wide for a beginner. You can get things that are 1" or even 1/2". Think like http://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/depth-probe/, the 1"x15" would be a great place to start. Another option might be something like http://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/slink/.

Second, you need to understand your anatomy. If you don't, you are just pushing and pushing and not getting anywhere. The turn from your rectum into your sigmoid is a pretty tight turn, and doing what you can to relax and straighten out the turn is critical. I tend to lay on my left side, with my left leg straight and my right leg bent. I also arch my back and twist my hips somewhat to ease the angle. The correct angle must be achieved to even get your toy close to its target. You go in your butt, but then you really need to turn and head toward your spine for 6-8 inches following your tailbone to get to the junction with the sigmoid, and then it turns sharply to your left side. At maybe 12-16 inches, it will turn up your left side into your descending colon. I've never been able to get past my splenic flexure into my transverse colon, so you are on your own past there.

Third, you have to get cleaned out or you are going to be trying to pack a wall of feces back up your colon, which isn't healthy or comfortable. You said you used an enema, but generally, the little bulb enemas aren't going to get very far up into your colon. I generally find that I need to put 3 or 4 half gallon enemas up and expel them before i feel like my colon is empty and ready to accept something foreign. Then I prefer to sit for an hour or two, have a stiff drink, let my colon soak up any remaining water, urinate, and then I play.

Fourth, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube. To give you an understanding, I buy lube in gallon jugs. Standard ID glide is my preference. If you shop around, you can generally get a gallon for less than $50 on the net. Generally I expect to need roughly 1 gallon per year. Think of it as a gradual process, first use your toys to get lots of lube into your rectum, its okay if there is too much, the more the merrier, and the less likely you will hurt yourself. The farther up you go, the more lube you need, keep removing the toy, putting more lube in your ass and on the toy, using the toy as a piston to push more lube up there.

Fifth, be careful please. Noone wants to be the sucker in the emergency room trying to lie about how they got an 18" double dong lost up their bum. For the record, if that happens to you, don't even bother lying, the ER people darn well know what happened and they don't have time for you to be embarrassed. If you feel pain, slow down or stop. If you see a bit of blood or red mucous, stop for a few days. If you see more than a little blood, go to the hospital and be frank with them, you are protected by privilege, so they cant tell anyone. Don't try to force anything, if you puncture your rectum or colon, your life will suck for quite a while.

Sixth, and you got this one right already, ask for insight and/or help if you are unsure but still want to continue. Many of the people on this board are extremely experienced and can offer huge insight. One thing I would recommend is watching videos of other people that can do this, namely porn stars like: HotKinkyJo, Amber Rayne, Roxy Raye, or the legion of gay men that post similar videos. If you are looking for experienced help, I'm sure whether you prefer boys or girls, you'll find volunteers are legion on this forum.

I would reccomend siliconenozzles.com.They have some of the softest bendable "snakes" I had ever imagined.You can ,presently, get any length any softness largest as of now is 1.6" diameter...they have a 2" one in the making.They can be made solid or hollow 1/4" hole for enemas.Be ready to spend some money and wait awhile though.I think another option is a buttplug kinda rention style.

JMAK had good advise,if your not a little streched already don't just jump into it...that being said aside from the silicone nozzles the slink from squarepeg toys is pretty awesome,its 21" long tapered so it doesn't double back,and has a buttplug tapered section at the end,its not for beginners either but its flexible enough to gradually stretch if you take it slow and learn your limitations.(that was Clint Eastwood ....not me)

Hi all,

So I've got a medium sized plug that fits great with respect to width, but the length sometimes seems too long as it can be uncomfortable to sit down. Does anyone have a recommendation ona plug that might be wide but short? II'd love the width of a large size because width isn't an issue, but shorter in length. Any good ones that you'd buy again that fits this description? Thanks!

You ask some recommendation, but you don't say what kind of medium plug you are using and they are numerous differents shapes. How much more you ask precisely a question how much more the accuracy of the answers will be "sharp".

Have you tried to wear your "anonymous" plug after shooting some lube in your rectum, remember your ass must be slippy but your rectum too, and this is certainly mandatory for a beginner.

Inflatable buttplug is highly recommended. I use it all the time especially when I go out to the store. The pump is attached to my belt and when I feel like it's deflating I pump it up. The amount of lube also plays an important part of keeping the buttplug inside you. Good luck.

Sometimes we are using this inflatable plug http://www.medicaltoys.com/anal-play.htm it is a XL size at the bottom, but a S size at the top, the trip from top to bottom is very intense, but so large that I think it is impossible to wear it for a long time, or outside while fully inserted and gently inflated.

@ lelanisub like arthur said it will be hard for anyone to give you a recommendation not knowing what you already have, so therefore I am going to tell you what I would tell anyone trying to wear a butt plug out and about for the first time.

The first thing you will need is a lubricant launcher ; http://www.amazon.com/Naruekrit-Lubricant-Launcher-Blue/dp/B00EYC9QPK/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1413050141&sr=8-2&keywords=lube+shooter.

The second thing is a Njoy pure plug medium butt plug ; http://www.amazon.com/Njoy-NJ-005-Pure-Medium/dp/B0014L6EAE.

Take the tube and fill it with a silicone or oil base lubricant, ( not water base ). Slowly push the tube in to your rectum as fare as comfortable. slowly pull the tube out at the same time you are pushing on the launcher to lube your hole rectum. I fine for my self this will give me up to 24 hours of wear time for my plug with out re-lubing, providing that I do not have to defecate.

Now take your plug and lube it up and pop that baby in. You may all so wish to start with 15 mins at a time and slowly working your way up to hours on end just remember there is no rush, just pure enjoyment.

Happy plugging !

Start small and build up. A retention harness is also helpful.

A nice medium size please.

I suggest checking out the Large Red Boy butt plug by Doc Johnson. It has just about the same width as standard large sized plugs yet is a bit shorter, making it a lot more comfortable, in my opinion, for wearing while sitting.