Finally found an enemate

I've been seeking someone to give me enemas for years. Hadn't had one by another's hand since my ex wife ten yes ago. I ran into a friend id had sex with last winter. He is a young man and very hot. (yes I am bi). I was @ his place, ready to leave when he ordered me to the bathroom and pulled out a Fleet enema extra.

He ordered me to strip and bend over the tub. He squeezed the bottle into me and made me give head while holding it. It was hard and so was I. We did more but I'm typing on android which I dislike doing. I need A keyboard

Congratulations, Equitube! I'm so glad you found someone who shares your passion for enemas. I hope you have many wonderful times together and that you'll tell us about them here so we can read about it and dream.

(Bisexual AND submissive! Too hot!)

Dianne

Yes equitube, congratulations on finally hooking-up with a enemate! Sounds like a good time to be had by both in the future-enjoy to the fullest!!!!

This guy is not really a klismo, he answered my ad on Craigslist (the first action I've had there in years besides endless emails), he's 22, fit, hot and kinky. He seems to like being dominant over mature gents. Fine with me, I haven't had anything that young on my ass (besides an old pair of jeans ;-P ) for quite a bit.

The cool thing is we've become decent friends. Outside of the bedroom (or bathroom, or back yard - wow) he seems to enjoy and actually listen to the advice of 40 some well worn years. He's a really decent kid that could go far once he grows up. I"m still waiting to do that myself.

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Equitube

Forty years ago I owned two recording studios in Detroit. She was gorgeous and my secretary. Long red hair, petite with a great figure. Every producer who came through the studio's door was in love with her. I was also, but I was a married guy so I did my best to maintain a professional relationship. Still, we became very close friends and have stayed in touch over the years.

Recently both of our situations have been that there is a possibility for us to, at last, be together. Our conversations have become very personal and she has become aware of my enema fetish. After doing some basic research on the subject she has become very excited to become my giver. Her ideas on giving have become so creative and sensual that I know I'm about to have all my fantasies regarding enemas fulfilled way beyond anything I could ever have imagined in the past. This coming week she is also moving to Michigan from another state and by next week we will be together for the first time in many years. I think we are both a little nervous about how things will go with us but I have a feeling we are going to blow each other's minds.

Well it seems that all good things come to those who wait and I glad for you . Hope that all works out for you and your emate , good luck and happy enemas

Thanks Jimmy. This coming Wednesday is our first big day. If I'm never heard from again you will know I died happy.

Let us know how things go for you Ralpht.

I'm still looking for the right one with a bag and nozzle in the Des Moines area

Ralpht have fun and I'm lmao at that last comment .

Have you guys met again for full bag enemas and assplay?

Will

My ex thought that enemas were the weirdest thing in the world. I wonder how many (percentage) of women might be interested in enemas. For me I have had no luck.

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Isn't it great to find someone with similar interests. I too am Bi and found an enemate through ZB and we hit it off right away. Unfortunately he is a "Snowbird" and has since gone back North but the experience was fantastic. Good Luck in the future.

I don't know why I got so lucky, but she is someone I have loved for years, but circumstances took us in different directions through life. We stayed in touch over the years and recently found ourselves living a couple of miles apart.

To date she hasn't let me give her an enema, but that hasn't stopped her from administering to me. And boy does she do that. She is extremely turned on by giving to me, and she really knows what turns me on. She is very close to trying it with me herself, which I assured her would be a very small enema just to get her used to me giving. She does self administer a small cleanse for our anal play and admits to liking the sensation.

So you guys and gals out there there flying solo and wishing for a partner. Hang in there. It will happen.

Im glad you found an emate wish i could

I could imagine a scene like that except I want a douche nozzle , I submit.

Atta boy! On the lookout for an emate myself!

Looking for E-mate in springhill , fl

I also finally found a wonderful enemate who I met here on Zity. She is a beautiful, mature and very sexy woman who has given me the most thorough and erotic enemas I have ever had in my 68 years. I bring my own equipment, but she knows exactly how much soap to use in my 4 quart clear silicone bag, and which nozzle to use according to the state of my colon and how horny I am at the time. She gives me the most delicious enemas with my head down and my ass facing up towards her on her special "enema quilt" which she puts directly in front of the bathroom door.

But before we even get to the enemas, she helps to get some of the more solid stuff in my rectum and sigmoid colon out by inserting three glycerin suppositories very deeply into my my ass and holding them in there with her finger until they begin to melt a little bit. This ritual is preceded by her teasing my anus with her gloved finger....so delicious..and it feels so good! After my penis becomes erect and beings to throb, she implants the three suppos, We sit and wait for them to work and talk about literature and music. It usually takes between 30 minutes and an hour for me to feel enough of an urge to go to the toilet and have a very satisfying bowel movement.

Then....she prepares the first 4 quart SSE using warm water and two capfuls of a very gentle baby wash mixed in. Then I hold the bag up very high and she bleeds the hose (I have both a plastic clamp and inline roller flow valve) and I carry the very heavy filled enema bag and hang it on one of the heavy duty hooks she has on the back of the open bathroom door. She usually uses one of my 6 inch long black, thick torpedo nozzles for my first enema. I assume the position with her standing behind my ass, and she begins to lubricate my anus..both inside and out...but with some wonderfully erotic teasing to start. She uses Crisco as the lube which works very, very well. something about that stuff makes me more horny than I already am. Then once she gets the entire nozzle into my anxiously waiting ass, she opens the clamp and we are off to the the races. I can easily hold 4 quarts with little or no cramping, even though she varies the speed of the flow. While she is so lovingly filling my ass with that wonderful warm soapy water, she gets down on her knees behind me, and runs her hand under my abdomen to see how full I am getting. But then comes the most glorious part of her amazing enemas. She gently strokes my cock and balls, while I am holding these 4 quarts of warm, soapy water, which always produces some pre-cum that drips down onto the enema quilt. Once the enema is complete, she clicks off the hose, and I hold the enema in for as long as I can...which is usually five to ten minutes. When I tell her that I am about to lose the enema, she has me stand up, take the enema bag in my right hand, and sit on the toilet with the hose coming on in front of my between my legs. Then she gently pulls the nozzle out of my bulging ass, and it all gushes out into the toilet. She stays with me while I expel, rubbing my tummy and telling me that it will all be OK. It usually takes me about 15 minutes to get most of that first enema out, and we take a break.

After I feel that I have completely expelled the first enema. we do one or two clear 4 quart rinses, but now using my silicone double balloon rectal catheter. I get down on the quilt, she lubes up the first deflated balloon with a lot of Crisco (pie crusts anyone?), pre-lubes my ass again (so heavenly), and gently inserts the nozzle until the first balloon completely disappears into my ass. Then she inflates both bulbs, and are once again off to the races. Since the inflated balloon inside my rectum causes so much pressure, I feel the need to expel almost immediately, and tell her that I have to go "now". But she sternly tells me that I will have to take the entire enema and will have to hold it all in until she tells me that it is OK to expel. OMG! By the time half of the enema is in me, I am pleading with her to stop and let me go to the toilet. So many cramps! But she insists that I will have to take the whole thing whether I like it or not. So that is what happens. By the time those 4 quarts are inside my colon, I feel like I am about to burst, and the urge to defecate is so strong that my anal muscles are going into spasm. I stand up, pick up the empty enema bag from the door hook, and carry it while I again sit on the toilet with the hose and two air pumps dangling down in front of the toilet bowl. She then reaches underneath my right leg, and deflates the inner balloon...and it is shot out of my ass like a Howitzer. She then again rubs my tummy while I am expelling with a lot of heavy cramping, telling me that it I have been a good boy and that it will all be over soon. After I am finished and wipe myself on the toilet, I stand up, bend over, and she lovingly wipes my entire ass area with baby wipes..while also massaging my cock and balls again. We usually wait about an hour to allow all remaining water and waste to come up (I usually have four or five additional explosions which are probably aided by the original three suppos she had given me). Then, she gets naked, (she always cleans herself out very well before I show up) and we get into bed where I begin licking and sucking on her ripe nipples, and slowly work my way down between her legs to her beautiful bush and begin to use my very well trained tongue to bring her to a huge screaming climax. And while she is still moaning from this huge orgasm, I gently insert the lubed dildo into her beautiful and gorgeous ass, pushing it in as far as it will go. Then I repeat what I did before with my tongue (and reinforced with a finger in her vagina), but this time while playing with that dildo, and she has an even more explosive orgasm. After she comes down to earth again, it is my turn. She lubes up one of the larger dildos with lots of Crisco, and gently pushes it into my anxiously waiting ass, and then begins to suck my cock....and gives me the most amazing and explosive blow job I've ever had all the while fucking my ass with this huge dildo. After this, we are both exhausted and just lie in each other's arms for an hour or two. I have waited for over 50 years to find such an amazing, kind, gentle, beautiful, sexy, erotic and loving enemate. I am in heaven.

@bearinthewoods...A wonderful descriptive...wonderful cluey Lady & no doubt erotically charged enemate...heavenly huh ! 😄 ...Karma bump & like,for such a story.... ty for sharing.

Thank you, Mr. Aussie. I feel very lucky. I've been waiting over 50 years for this to happen and i am a new man

That is wonderful! Your are a most fortunate man.

A friend gave me my first at boarding school, it was a wonderful experience.

I found a special enemate, too without even looking! We met here on Zity quite some time ago and we developed a great friendship. We had so much in common and so many of the same sexual interests. I'd been into enemas since I was very young and yet he managed to turn me onto things I'd never had an interest in. There was something very special about him and I found myself falling for him hard and fast. He was so different from anyone I'd ever known and the fact that we had this common interest, enemas and anal erotica, it made it all so interesting and fun! The friendship quickly took a turn towards a romantic relationship. We found ourselves unable to deny that we had something. I loved every second of it. We talked constantly! I got to know him on a level that most people don't get to know each in other in such a short amount of time. I was able to predict his reactions and what he'd say to things before he'd do it. I just felt like I really had him figured out. When I finally saw what he looked like I was shocked because he was so my type! I couldn't get enough of him! He was so perfect!!! I was falling, falling, falling.....

When we finally had an opportunity to meet, we went for it. From the minute I laid eyes on him and hugged him, I knew. When I felt his arms around me, I knew it was where I wanted to be....forever. I knew he was my dream man! This was no fantasy for me. This was the real deal. I had fallen head over heels in love with this man. He was everything I thought he was and more! OMG! It was amazing....For me anyway. I knew that what I had felt for him all along in all of our Zity conversations and video chats was real. All along I kept trying to convince myself I wasn't falling in love. It couldn't be. I was telling myself I was just getting caught up in something but when I couldn't eat and could't sleep and couldn't function day after day after day, I could no longer deny it. I fell in love with him.

When I met him there was no doubt it was real and our time together was magical....for me. I couldn't wait to get my hands on him and when I did it was pure bliss! Finally being able to hug him and kiss him and touch him. It was a dream come true but when we got to play around with enemas and experience what we'd talked about for months, it was like nothing else I'd experienced before. That type of intimacy. OMG! Being able to share in enemas with someone you love and feel so deeply about....It's so incredible! I can't begin to tell you how much I loved giving him erotic enemas. Nobody has ever turned me on more in my life. Nobody has ever effected me like he did. I walked around for over a year with butterflies.

We had this great relationship for nearly a year and a half. I just kept falling deeper and deeper and after spending the most incredible week with him, I was in so deep. I would have moved heaven and earth to be with him. I would have done anything for him. I would have moved anywhere on this earth to be with him and I told him many times that I'd live in a grass hut with him. I didn't care if he was rich or poor. Fat or skinny. Bald or not. I just loved him! I'd never fallen for anyone like this or felt this way for anyone in my life before! The enema/anal thing definitely heightened the experience for me but I just fell in love with him for who he was. Well....who I thought he was anyway. It's funny because I've always been such a good judge of character. I've always been able to figure people out so easily. In this case, apparently I was wrong. I guess I thought I meant a little more to him than I did even though I knew I had stronger feelings than he did.

I sure as heck didn't expect to find myself falling in love with a stranger on line! That happened to other people but surely it wasn't going to happen to me! I'm not naive. I'm a very sensible, level headed woman! I wasn't looking for anyone but when he sent me that first email, I knew that there was something to it. I can't explain it. I just had this feeling that he came into my life for a reason and when I read that message, I knew. It was followed by a premonition that we'd meet. I know. I sound whacky but I do get premonitions and that premonition was right.

Sadly, my story doesn't have a happy ending. Something happened and it all came to a screeching halt and it was over. It was so good while it lasted. It seemed like we had this amazing, deep connection and for me, the real life enema experience just cemented it all. Although he said at the time that it was amazing and felt so right to him, etc, he eventually told me in his own nice way that I really didn't mean much to him after all and he pretty much just used me for attention. :_( It was devastating. He crushed me. It was like he stabbed me in the heart and then ripped it out and stomped on it and crushed it! Sounds dramatic. I know. LOL! He really did hurt me though. He left a huge gaping void in my life. A huge painful void. It made me question everything that happened and wonder about it's authenticity. I am not one to go around meeting strangers I meet on line!! This was a very unusual thing for me to do! So out of character. I wasn't looking for anyone in fact, I rarely even answer my zity messages but there was something that just struck me about him from the first letter he wrote me. I thought he was the most beautiful man inside and out. Now I wonder if I ever really knew him at all. I really couldn't have met a more perfect enemate. The things we could have enjoyed together for years and years to come.....ahhhhh.....We could have been so incredible together BUT..... I guess that's life. We all have to experience heartbreak at some point and unfortunately, it was my time.

I can't say that it was a completely bad experience. I learned a lot about myself through the experience. I was never a gullible person or super trusting but it will take me a long time to learn to trust anyone again. I guess I fell into that...."if it seems to good to be true....." category.

I also knew that I don't want to fall in love ever again because it hurts way too much.

I feel very bad for you and wished this hadn't happened to you. Some people, men I think more so than women, don't have the ability to feel love or even geniune affection. I DO know about you're saying that it hurts too much. Hope you can find someone though to just play with, keeping you're emotional distance. Playing can still be fun. Good luck.

@ MsBottomzUp^^^After reading your story one can only feel sympathy for the situation endured...Many would feel & understand that fragility experienced when treated in such a manner....But one must also not only continue to believe in themselves,but also have faith in the future that lay ahead....Sure I grant you those things many enjoy....those individual tastes come quirks...kinks /bents whatever...can be the catalyst for "unbridled" adventure...that could lead to catastrophe....Never just give up & throw in the towel so to speak,for if you do defeat becomes a bitter pill to swallow ...It's about finding balance...true understanding...establishing complete honesty between partners.. communicating at every level....creating mutual harmony...keeping that heart & mind open ....dare again to take a chance....step where angels fear to tread ....but at all times keep eyes wide open.....to believe good things can /will happen .....There are many many genuinely decent trustworthy people in this world we all share ....seek & ye shall find.....Happiness is what we make it !.... May the beauty of true intimacy find you !!.....All the very best wish's MsBottomzUp.. 🌹

Don't throw in the towel yet. Take a few months to unwind and level out then slowly go looking again. Don't expect Mr. Wonderful, look for Mr. Good.

MsBottomzUp. My deepest and most sincere sympathy. I cannot imagine what you are going through. Please, go out in life and find something that appeals to you; hiking, skydiving, scuba diving, charity organizations, religion - anything that you enjoy and can enjoy deeply to help take your mind off what you have just been through. Good luck and I hope the healing process is short.

Rain, Steven S, The Australian and Diamond,

Thank you for responding to my post! I never expected to get so many messages and see the responses I did. I didn't expect a thing! I guess I just really got caught up in the moment and when I started writing I let it all flow....and flow...and flow! LOL! After I clicked "send" I felt guilty for writing it all. LOL! It's a bad habit of mine. When I feel passionate about something I can't seem to stop!

I do appreciate everyone's input and great advice and encouragement. Thanks so much!

Congrats to everyone who finds playmates. Either here or otherwise. It gives the rest of us hope that we too shall find what were looking for. Thanx for sharing. Its a celebration!