Spankings how often

How many times do you get spanked during the week and at what time of the day?

What position are u in, under pants down or up, what implement is used, hand , hairbrush etc? Why do you get a spanking, punishment or fore play? Do you get your mouth washed out with soap before hand and have to keep it in your mouth while being spanked? Is the spanking followed by am enema? Questions....questions!

My wife spanks me any time after about 8;00 PM.

About 1 time a week, sometimes not for 2-3 weeks.

If I have not been spanked in 2-3 weeks, I can't help provoking her to see how far I can go before I get spanked. Always with a bath brush! I love it when she tells me that I am getting a spanking, not because of my behavior, but because she wants to & because she can!!!

Your wife should spank you more often to make sure you're kept in line.

YES! I should be spanked more often!

She spanks me with a bath brush, bare, most of the time standing, holding my thigh, so I cant move away. I wish she would put me over her left leg, pin my legs with her right leg, & hold my right arm behind my back. Then give me a spanking that I would not EVER forget!!!

I used to get spanked once or twice a week. Ever since my wife went vanilla on me several years ago, now its a do it to myself project when ever she leaves me alone for a few minutes or longer if she goes shopping.

Some times, sadly, I have to ask for it.

My ideal is a weekly punishment spanking, with correction during the week as needed...

If i have any demerits, Friday evening at 8PM is reckoning time for me. I get 10 smacks for each demerit with that awful Laser Stinger paddle from my husband. It's usually with me going over his lap, naked from the waist down. -Gabrielle

I'm the spanker 95% of the time.

But I get a monthly blistering (last Saturday of the month). Usually followed by a big soapy retention enema, but occasionally followed by a good old fashioned pegging (in which case, the spanking is done plugged).

My wife spanks me when she feels I deserve it. I have been spanked 2-3 times in a week and have also gone over a month without a spanking. It's always nude and either over her knees or on the bed with my butt up in the air. Most times she uses a wooden paddle but I have also been administered a leather belt strapping.

For me, spankings should be administered at the end of each week depending on how well I obeyed my Daddy or Mommy dom, how well I took care of myself (like bathing, eating, or taking meds), or just to make sure I'm going to be good the following week. They would be over the knee with bare hand if just for reminder on my bare bottom or with a paddle on a diapered one if for punishment to show me who the baby is and who the Daddy/Mommy is.

I am spanked whenever I miss behave. Mistress says it has to be bare butt. Most times its followed by so many lines saying "i will not..." And the corner but she recently stopped the corner and does clothes pins on my nipples. Last time clothes pins was on nipples before I was spanked.

As an adult, my husband spanks me a couple times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. It does light up some fires when desired!! lol Denise

Growing up, I was also spanked (sometimes paddled) a 4-5 times a month! Denise

Growing up I was spanked regularly, more as a learning/guidance tool than for actual punishment. It was a deliberate, patient ritual, and I felt relieved when it was completed.

Not nearly enough. No soap, as my husband isn't super dominant. I get a swat here and there. Sometimes as foreplay. Sometimes after he has finished. Most of the time with his hand and more playfully. It has never been enough. I always want more and generally want it harder. My enema time is solo but would certainly enjoy receiving that too!

There is no set time for us. My boyfriend spanks me if I have misbehaved or done something wrong. Sometimes for minor transgressions, it's a quick swat or two on the butt.

He also gives me bare-bottom corner time once in a while. He knows it embarrasses me a lot.

Sometimes it's that particular look asking me to behave or else I know what's coming. That look has been sent my way while we are in public too. Makes me behave immediately.

Bare bottom spankings should be given when needed., for either punishment or if someone needs stress relief.

Then there is the good boy or good girl spanking to make them feel they are loved and to stay well behaved.

I never thought I would make a post about liking spankings but my wife “cured” me a month ago, She said she wanted to play , so after my shower she did. She had me bend over the bed, and she pulled down on my balls. Gave me a slight ache but also got me hard. She then said, “ relax your bottom, I am going to spank you”. She slapped each cheek in alternate strokes increasing the pain. My ass got red with heat. She then said, “ stay there”. As I stayed bent over , she put on a glove with KY gel and rubbed my cheeks. Felt cool. She then said , “ relax, I’m going to massage your prostate”. Applying more gel to finger, up it went all the way in my rectum and then curled down to rub prostate. I began dripping fluid from urethra. She pulled her finger out , took glove off and spanked me again. Next she put 2 gloves on , lubed both. She inserted her left index finger back into my rectum, reached under and milked my cock with right until I ejaculated. Pressed on prostate as I did. Still not finished, she lightly spanked me again for “ ejaculating”.

Have to say, felt good to be dominated,!

At least once per week but sometimes two or three times. Sometimes we have a discipline day when I am spanked several times during the day.

My girlfriend gives me a weekly maintenance spanking on Saturdays either in the morning before the day starts or right before were both ready for bed. She spanks me with a ping pong paddle on the bare for 5 minutes and then its done.

In addition to that im able to get punishment spanking whenever even on maintenance spanking days which is a hand warm up followed by the paddle and then 5 or 10 with the cane.

On average, twice a week.

In a previous posting here, I mentioned that I get paddled on friday evenings for any demerits. With the COVID thing, I put myself over my husband's lap to have my daily temp taken, while we watch TV. I like to shower early in the evenings and put on my pajamas first. Then, I lie over his lap to have my temperature taken- rectally, of course. After my temp, it's usual hand spanking time. And after that........!!! lol! -Gabi

I get a maintenance spanking every Sunday evening and then spanked as and when my wife sees fit. During her period I get spanked every evening to remove any anguish she may be feeling.

During January we do a Spankuary month where I get spanked every day for the whole month.

@Zoe I actually get it as we are complex individuals and our brains are not wired alike and we also change, evolve over time. Our journey through life is individual to each of us and if we are fortunate to find someone to to share that journey, becomes even better.

@Zoe I wasn't trying to imply that at all, too often people like to pigeon hole people instead of just enjoying the diversity of people and what they like. I know that this community gives us the freedom to define who we are and what we like within common sense health and safety.

I used to get spanked about a couple of times a month on average when I was a kid. Now as an adult I just get spanked for pleasure whenever I can.