Pushing Limits... In the mind.

I have always been a solo player with Enemas, but I wonder what it would be like to have someone pushing my limits and taking control.

A little more volume. A little longer retention. A few more fillings. Taking away the sense of control. Perhaps some restraints and exploration of other parts of the body to take my mind off the discomfort. Afterwards a little attention being given to stretching me, just a little wider, pushing until a plug I thought beyond my capacity slips in. Then a little attention on other parts, stretching me there as well - taking me through orgasm after orgasm relentlessly as I clamp down on the plug.

But I'm still playing solo, and the idea of someone stretching me remains but an idle fantasy...

Efetish, I feel that you should seek out a companion who will administer your enemas. The companion can increase the size or make the solution more stimulating without letting you know until it is too late. The may also be willing to restrain you for an enema if they can learn to release you rapidly if the need occurs, (and the need will occur!)

If you find someone you are comfortable with, have a long talk about your needs and desires and your comfort limits. Be sure that the companion will not seek to gain enjoyment at your expense. Discuss the equipment you wish to experiment with and how you want it used, don't leave it totally up to your companion until you become very comfortable and trusting of this person.

If you have done all this you should be able to have many exciting play sessions with your companion, and they may want to try the experience of receiving as well as giving.

It's not always possible to find a partner - sometimes that SUX!

I totally identify with your needs about having that partner that can help you push those limits. I too am currently only self admin. Having trust issues in general but specifically in relationships it can be difficult to find that someone to entrust that sort of control.

It just isn't the same, doing things on your own versus having someone else control it. It's when you think you can't take anymore, to have them nudge you past what you think are your limits, to enourage and push you... the control is just so intimate

I think there is nothing more intimate than giving or being given an enema. It takes trust and giving up control of your most private bodily functions. A partner will push your limits in ways you can't imagine until you do it.

I’ve always had a strong urge to be dominated in my enema play, but until recently I’ve had to make do with playing solo. A little self bondage and a double balloon nozzle was about the limit.

Nearly a year ago I met a girl who has also become my Mistress as well as my girlfriend. We’ve had a lot of kinky fun but enemas have never really come up until this weekend where she has told me they will soon be part of our ‘games’. I have to say I am a little nervous about this but very excited at the same time. Having someone else in control is a massive turn on so I await the enema fun with some real anticipation.

Rubbermark,

I’ve always had a strong urge to be dominated in my enema play, but until recently I’ve had to make do with playing solo. A little self bondage and a double balloon nozzle was about the limit.

Nearly a year ago I met a girl who has also become my Mistress as well as my girlfriend. We’ve had a lot of kinky fun but enemas have never really come up until this weekend where she has told me they will soon be part of our ‘games’. I have to say I am a little nervous about this but very excited at the same time. Having someone else in control is a massive turn on so I await the enema fun with some real anticipation.

Me, too. I had an ex wife who loved dressing me in snug latex and sneakers and giving me pretty large enemas before forcing me to be restrained and hold it while she did sexual things to me and demanded I reciprocate while I was very full. When I do solo enemas now it almost always with a fantasy Domme doing the same things to me that she did, which is extremely arousing and submissive while I'm taking and holding the enemas. If I were you I'd really be looking forward to having your new Mistress administering them to you, especially if she likes being Domme. Good luck, and send us some new descriptions of what she makes you do.

Eric

When my enema daddy came to town he used a big douche syringe holding 13 ozs. I lay across his lap and he have me 13 insertions so i gat a little more than a gallon of warm water and doc bronnerd castile soap. Man was i clean before the rinse he gave with a big pumpkin bag