Wives- Can you help me?

So lately I have noticed a huge change in Jeff. He has been spanking me so much more and I mean it's what I agreed to but he's been noticing a lot. I have been very sick and that is not changing a thing for him like it used to. So something is going on. I do know that he has noticed my behavior. Should I put a stop to it? He is also getting a bit aggressive. He's been slapping my face more often than I'm used to so that's worrying me too. Help please!

If you have to ask for advice like this, you already know the answer to your question. You might want to contact authorities or seek counseling.

I would NEVER EVER contact authorities.

That will destroy a relationship that could otherwise be fixed.

He either needs to be set straight in your relationship or you should get a divorce.

Calling the police will only make your marriage if it works out have a perpetual sore point or if you get a divorce it will only make it more bitter and vindictive.

Keep the fucking police out of it.

FINALLY, I have read all your other posts. As of yesterday, YOU LIKE BEING SPANKED.

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edit: and you have deleted about ten of your posts in the last several hours

Yes I do like spanking. But not the way he is spanking me right now.

Then grow a pair of balls and take control of your relationship, your household, and most importantly, your man, the way a smart woman should. If you can't do that, then get out. There is no pitty for the woman who makes a choice to stay with an ass instead of leave. Figure out what you want to do and then do it. It is that simple.

Mashie

I may not be a wife, but one thing I can suggest to help:

You must see the difference between the pleasure that spanking brings - and the pain of physical violence.

Once this is clear in your mind, act accordingly.

Pleasure is a boon - violence is a crime

Good luck!

Should I put a stop to it? He is also getting a bit aggressive. He's been slapping my face more often than I'm used to so that's worrying me too. Help please!

I assume the first thing you have done is sit down and talk to him and ask him to stop and that the rules of the game have changed. If he is not agreeable to your requests, then walk away, get out, get help from a battered women's shelter or counselor. I stand firm on the belief that the last resort is to call the cops. It could mean saving yourself from ending up in the hospital or disfigured or dead.

And I, too, did notice that you removed approximately seven postings about how much you enjoy spanking and other similar activities since posting this.

I fear this will not really help you, but make you more concerned... My husband only slaps my face if he is really angry and the spanking after that is to be severe. But if your husband does it more and more often and you don't know the reason than something is going on.

Ask him if you can. I usually know the reason why he does it and know i deserve it. Think about if you know his reason and otherwise ask him!

I'm a guy who loves all aspects of spanking, etc. but NO Woman should be treated like that.That is not what a man does, that's bullying. Join a Martial arts school and get some balls. Don't let anyone mistreat you, you're too good for that.

I can't say what to do in this case, since I only have a small picture of your relationship. But fundamentally, any activity like spanking should only happen with mutual consent. You have every right to set the terms for how you are to be spanked, or withdraw permission at any time for any reason or no reason at all. The fact that you have withdrawn posts you made about how you enjoy spanking certainly says a lot about how you feel about it now. The fact that you've given consent to spanking in the past does not mean you must continue to do so.