Best way to introduce your mate to fisting?

My sub & gf and I have talked about fisting and she always says to me no its going to hurt, im too tight, etc.. I have friends whose signification others enjoy the experience immensly. What are some ways that I could work her into fisting? What are the best and worst lubes,etc etc. I really want to experience this with her but I want it to be enjoyable for both of us! Any help would be appreciated!!!

I just want to say not everyone can be fisted.

I have had two children each weighing 7 1/2 pounds at birth, and I have only been fisted by women with small hands. I fist my husband regularly and he takes me to my elbows, yet he cannot fist me because his hands are too large-like about a 14 ring size and 8 1/2 glove size and I don't care if he pours a quart of astroglide over me, it's just not happening.

good lubes--Astroglide, Probe, liquid silk

Yeah she is rather tight, and her pubic bone, i swear is misplaced because its right there! if i have sex with her a certain way I literally cant last more than 20 seconds lol! the bone rubs on my bone and yeah lol. We are going to try it and just go from there!!

I fisted my ex several times and it was always easier the hornier she was. The same was true for when she fisted me. Horny but relaxed and take your time. It took 5 years for both of us to work up tk it.

Wow, I'm not sure it's something I would take on.... I would be worried about damaging the muscles and then having medical complications. I guess perhaps start with vaginal fisting first and go from there.... It's certainly something I've thought about but haven't experienced as of yet... Good luck - with working her up to it....

I have fisted several women. Some were already "broken in". But one I had to gradually stretch open. We used those long eggplants (aubergine). Inserted one, then a second. This was fairly easy. The third took a little time and a lot of lube, but she finally took it. It helps to rub her clit as you're doing this. I let he adjust to being filled and stretched, then removed the eggplants and slowly twisted my open hand into her. Rubbing her clit constantly. Once inside I made a fist and slowly fisted her. She must have cum at least 4 times, and was dripping and oozing like crazy.

I love being fisted. The feeling is immense. A good lube is a must. I started by letting someone use 3 then 4 fingers on me. Then their thumb grouped together with fingers. Each time he got a bit deeper. Then he pushed past his knuckes. There was pain for a second and then immense pleasure. I gushed all over his hand. It helps for them to be turned on and rub their clit. My current partner does it every so often but he doesn't really like it. He has given me permission to find someone with big hands who loves it as much as I do.

Lord Zeromus do you have big or small hands?

The smaller, the easyer to achieve succes.

If her pubic bones are small, this should make things really difficult or even not possible.

About convincing her, that is what i think:

That is not much about convincing her, first of all you should know how to make her cum a lot with your fingers, then you should gently insert more fingers gradualy, start with two then add more fingers as the resintance decreases. Use your two hands, one finger from each, and them more fingers from each hand and strech her gently.

All this is about her pleasure, she needs to have a good experience, never forget the clit.

After you can insert four fingers easily you should force your knuckles, no thumb yet, after the knuckles you can work the five fingers togheter.

Streching should be pleasurable to her, it's easyer to convince her about fisting after some good and messy sessions .

If you can convince her, inflatable toys could help but they should be used with care cause they can injury her. Gradualy larger dildos can help a lot too.

Dont insist about fisting her yet, play with your fingers, make her cum many times that way, and maybe the fingering can become fisting.

This is a process that take months to achieve, and even If you have really big hands and she have a narrow pelvic bone that makes impossible for fisting, you should strech her good and gently just because it's pleasurable If it's done the right way. It's all about making her having a good time.

Good luck.

P.s. :When she have room for it insert thingers while fucking her to, and alternate fucking and fingering. Dont forget to play with your thingers around her cervix too.

Let her fist you first. Simple solutions to simple problems.

Susie is right some hands are just not made for fisting