Slave to be

Hi everyone!

I'm going to be a willing slave very soon but need tips on how to be a great slave to my Master. We have been talking to each other for about 3 years online, he has transformed me into a pain slut and he's a very lenient master and honestly i don't like that so if someone could tell me how to tell him to be more strict it would mean a lot

Slaves/past slaves/masters/dominants/submissives, feel free to answer and anyone else 😃

I hope your master knows how to be a master because I see a lot of pain and hurt feelings if neither of you know what you are doing.

Online anything has little bearing on reality. Be careful.

Yes, he knows what he's doing he has been a past master to another slave before i came along, thank you for your reply

Even in D's relationships that strive for a 24/7 TPE kind of thing, there are moments when two people meet each other as equals. Slaves have needs that they hope to have met in the relationship and Masters have similar needs. Unfortunately neither are usually mind readers. That means that open honest communication with you partner about what you hope to experience in the relationship is a MUST. Sorry bout that, I know its a pain in the ass (no pun intended) and bears some risk, but it is much less painful than having the relationship hit the rocks, and that alternative is the only one there is if communication is not clear and honest. Risk a little rejection or face certain devastation. Let's see which shall I choose. DUHHHH!

VERY FEW people can carry on a 24/7 master slave relationship.

As Doug stated, there are many times where you need to be on equal footing--children, finances, health care, taking care of family members and more. As a 20 something year old, you see the fun aspects, but as you mature, there is a lot more to living that requires both of you to be equals, at least when your not "enrole".

It's one thing to have a D/s relationship in the bedroom and on specified days or even for weeks at a time, it's another for it to be 24/7/365, especially with a family. Furthermore, a 24/7/365 with a family will probably not be so good for the child who is the same sex as the submissive parent and may cause the child of the same sex as the dominant parent to feel self-entitled.

I can't say much from personal experience about living in a D/s house because my husband and I switch.

Maybe MissStress can chime in here.

Thank you for.your replies!