Ladies, do you like playing with a man's ass?

Do any women out there love the male asshole as much as I love it touched, licked and fingered by you?

Give me two minutes to loosen you up and I'll be in up to my elbows.

LOL@Susie. Only two minutes? How about a little foreplay first? Though to be honest, when Mike and I play, it doesn't take long until I'm wrist-deep in him.

To answer your question woohoo69, God, yes! I absolutely love it! There is nothing I like better than an man who is open for anal adventures. The exit-only set is so boring. Thankfully, I get to explore my anal fantasies and desires with Mike. Unfortunately, I don't see him as often as I'd like. But at least I enjoy him when he's here.

So do you have a female partner in your life who indulges or is your bottom living vicariously through fantasy these days?

Btw, nice to have you here.

Dianne

YES YES YES!!! Nothing, and I mean NOTHING makes me dripping wet like playing w a guy's ass. And yes the 'exit only' group is very boring, and won't be around long.... 😃

YES I love to insert things (enemas, plugs, ect.) that make them uncomfortable and submissive. However I CAN NOT stand for mine to be played with. BIG turn off for me. Weird huh.

LOVE IT! That's one of my favorite things to do! My husband has loved it and been very receptive from the first time I surprised him by inserting my finger in him during one of our first love making sessions. He was hooked from the beginning. It's a little bit kinky but yet so natural at the same time and so erotic. It's something that we do often and do in several type of scenarios from just ordinary fun sex to more of a BDSM session with toys and spankings. We are both anal erotic and enjoy giving and receiving.

When I first tried it I was kind of nervous because it was new to me but then I learned to love it... Luckily my man enjoys it and even lets me use my toys on him... I like it because its something we can both share in the sense that we both know what it feels like...

I love playing with a man’s ass. It is hard to find a guy that will let you. I think they have a phobia that if they like their ass played with that they are gay. It is a turn on for me. I have the power and control over him. I can be a control freak at times. Working a finger, 2, 3, and then 4 inside, or a vibrater inside. I want to get a prostate massager to stimulate them. Maybe the fingers are just as good. I also want to slip in suppositories to see how he does. Where are the guys in California that love a woman to do this to them.

@Greeneyedmate4you You will be inundated with messages now. I am always talking to men in CA who are looking for someone such as yourself. You may find yourself wrist-deep in someone soon.

If a man enjoys having his ass played with then, Yes, I do. I admire men who are open and confident enough to accept their need for anal stimulation. While we all have our preferences, some men seem to have a phobia about anal play and consider it unnatural or even an indicator of them having gay tendencies - which of course is silly. It's an enjoyable act and if you feel the need for it then do it just for the sheer pleasure it can provide.

Communication is the key in situations like these. Get her to understand that you would like yours played with for the same reasons she likes hers played with, and just keep building it on up from there. It's a good placeto start anyway.

Good Luck,

Mashie

There is nothing hotter than a man that enjoys having a/his woman play with his asshole. What really annoys me are those guys that want to spend time playing in your ass but tells you that their asshole is off limits because it is a no exit zone. I love rimming him before I start using my fingers and then advancing on to toys in his ass. Watching his ass flare open with each larger size toy is one of my favorite things to watch, but watching him wiggling and pushing back onto a dildo is HOT! 😘

I think you mean Exit Only not a No Exit Zone. Though the latter does explain a few politicians I know. 😃

But yeah, the exit only guys aren't any fun. If only they'd stop all the macho bs and give in to the pleasure.

Would some of you ladies pleeease have a talk with my lady,,LOL

Isn't that why god gave men assholes with on-buttons, so we can play with them??

I remember the first time that I incorporated prostate massage with a blow job. I worked for a group of Urologists in a large, north Texas city. It was Valentine's Day and one of the docs, asked me what I planned to give for my husband for his Valentine's gift. I told him that since we all had been busy working that I had to stop and find something on my way home. This doctor who was not much older than myself, said very calmly, " Do you and him both a favor. When he gets home tonight, start going down on him, long and slow. After he is really enjoying himself, insert a lubricated finger slowly in his ass and find his prostate. Then rub it gently until he goes Nova from his prostate being massaged." Well, needless to say, the Urologist shocked me because he was always very professional in all ways during the times we worked together. But, I just laughed and said I might give it a try.

Long story short, I did exactly what he said to do, starting that night after our son was put to bed. I loved giving him blowjobs, but I was nervous about putting my finger (or two) in his ass because he was a bit of a prude about anything having to do with his ass. He actually let me do it with no argument and when I began stroking his prostate with two fingers, I soon discovered the meaning of Nova in regard to this. He gasped in a deep breath, made a tight moaning sound and told me under no circumstance , please, not to stop doing what I was doing. It took about a minute and a half until his body became totally rigid and and the sound he made was unlike anything I had ever heard from a human. His fingers latched on to the sheets and he came until I thought would drown because I could not swallow fast enough! I discovered the true meaning of power at that moment. I continued to use this technique with him and he always loved it. That was Feb. 1985.

We divorced many years ago ago and I remarried in 2000. I still do it to this day. I loved introducing my high school sweetie/now husband to this little pleasure and he is as much of a fan of it as my ex was. I still love doing it and tell as many women about this way of doing a good BJ for the men in their lives as often as I can. Taught a couple of guys that were friends about it over the years during my single time and they loved it also. It's one of the nicest and best things a woman can give to the man in her life and and it shows him how much he is adored. Nothing says "I love you" more.

Having read the book "Everything You Wanted to Know About Sex...But Were Afraid to Ask" waay back in the 70s, I remembered the section of the book about giving males pleasure and how the prostate was a well guarded secret. When I met the man of my dreams not long afterwards, we began to experiment and I quickly found the key to taking him over the moon and back. Such a simple thing...but one fraught with such a foolish stigma by those who are less than adventuresome.

I applaud men who are secure enough in their own sexuality to allow themselves the pleasure of anal penetration. There's nothing "taboo" about enjoying the feelings that come from our bodies. As for a giver, it's a lot of fun, too!

Deb

I'm in a horny sort of mood, so let me be more detailed....When it comes to asses, Doc's ass in particular where do I begin as to what I like to do to it. Hummmm, lets see.

Well, first of all, I like to bare it. I like to see it in it's full glory. Whether he pulls his own pants down, or I pull them down for him, either way it's all good. Personally I love watching him pull his own pants down so I can sit back and enjoy the view. In my opinion Doc has a very sexy ass. He is Italian with that Italian complexion, hello yummy! Once pants are down all the fun begins. Depending on my plans for his ass, depends on what happens next naturally.

Oh the fun I have had with it over the past almost 6 years now. Since he is willing to be my sub, he allows me to do whatever I want to do to it, with it, and for it. He is impeccably clean all the time so there has never been a time when I haven't been able to just go full force or I mean go on with my plans without having to stop and do a little housekeeping so to speak, lol.

When we used to play that is I would start him off with a rectal temp, then a good amount of finger play to help him get relaxed. I would keep playing in him until I could easily get 3 fingers in him comfortably. I would also play with his front for a bit as I was doing so which seemed to help the process quite nicely. Then next would come a few good enemas, usually 2-3 depending on the return of the first two.

After he was all cleaned up from the enemas, may the fun begin, hehehe. Depending on my mood often times he would find himself over my lap or tied in 4 point restraints over the wedge. Where he would get a stern lecture while I was spanking his ass and making it a nice red color. I used to spank him with my hands. He says he isn't a pain slut, but he sure can handle a pretty hard spanking. I have broken many blood vessels in my hands while spanking his ass, so while I, well, when we were dating that is, still spanked him with my hands some, I usually resorted to our leather paddle.

With his ass on fire from a good spanking next would come the shots. Nothing quite like an alcohol prep pad over already burning skin, hehehe. Feel the burn baby, feel the burn. Often I would then put in a butt plug, and a good sized one too. I used to have one from Doc Johnsons I believe that looked like a real penis. It was a pretty good size. He never liked the idea of that plug because it looked too much like a real penis, so naturally, that's the one I used on him the most, lol. After all, he's tied down, what's he going to do, stop me or something? Yes, I know I'm so freaking bad. With his plug in place I would often lay on top of him and grind into him. Sometimes I would even put my vibe on top of his plug and ride him until I came. The nice thing about that was he could feel the vibes through the plug and with me riding him it would keep his penis hard because my movements were causing his penis to rub back and forth on the wedge or bed as well.

When I was done coming I would remove his plug, wipe him down a bit and again go at him with my tongue and fingers. I loved to bite his ass too, one of my favorites actually. This is when I started to really play with his prostate, applying pressure to it, massaging it, making him moan, almost begging me to fuck him in the ass, to take him, which absolutely I plan on doing, lol.

Next usually comes another round of spanking, just because I want to. See, by doing pleasurable things to him like the comfort of a rectal temp, an enema while stroking his penis a bit, then causing some pain as in spanking and biting, then going back to spanking causes him an interesting mix of feelings. Going from relaxed to tense, back to relaxed and then tensed again really heightens his desires and makes him really excited, so that when he does cum he comes harder than a man would who does so just through normal vanilla sex, or so I would guess. I don't have a penis so I can't be sure about this, but it makes sense psychologically speaking.

Next I untie him and turn him over. His fanny is still stinging from the previous spanking, so his bottom rubbing on the blankets is a nice reminder of who's really in charge. At this point I make him watch me put our feeldoe in. He knows I'm getting ready to fuck that sexy ass of his. This makes him slightly nervous, not to mention very excited. I lube up my fingers then and play in his ass some more because I had just spanked him, he needs to get relaxed back there again so that I can take him comfortably.

When I feel he is ready I slowly stroke his penis a bit and massage his balls. My favorite position to take him in is with him on his back and his legs up over my shoulders. This position allows me to take his ass with the feeldoe, keeps his legs up and out of the way. It also keeps both my hands free so that I can play with his nipples, and it allows me to be able to look into his eyes as I take him. Also, I can lean down and suck and bite his nipples as well as kiss him when and where I want to. Not to mention, with both my hands free I can stroke his dick and squeeze his balls. I ride him until one or both of us start to get tired, then as I take his ass a little bit faster, and a little bit harder and deeper I make him cum.

Trust me when I tell you, there is nothing hardly on this planet more fun than playing with, in, or to a mans ass, especially when he's ready and willing!!!!!!!!!

Mashie

Wow, Mashie! What a wonderful, wonderful, wonderful time you describe!

@Mashie: I recall that you wrote a wonderful recount of the time you met "playdoc" . . . did you ever get into a situation where you "reciprocated" and were able to do ass play with him?

What I'd really like to do would be to spread you on a gyno exam chair and then feed you that 36" colon snake inch by S L O W inch up into your intestines. Then s l o w l y pull it halfway out, then shove it back into your belly over n over.

You should mark it with white paint every inch and number it so you can see just how deep it can go.

Mashie,

Your posts are always interesting and go to the heart of the subject. My bet is that females like it and alot of males are afraid to admit they also like it. I think it a great feeling.

Not something that has ever appealed to me.

Absolutely! Some men do not enjoy - can't figure that one out. But if I have a willing partner I take my time. Love to hear a man moan when I'm penetrating and playing with his ass.

I am a dominant type so when my partner first suggested she do a prostate massage and an enema I had some misgivings (no doubt as a result of the macho BS growing that boys don't cry and men don't have their ass penetrated unless they are gay). WRONG! She did both and it blew my mind and ever since .luv all forms of it.

My lover does this for me and all I can say is that I've never felt such pleasurable sensations. She massages my prostate while sucking my cock. Indescribable pleasure.

I like touching and fingering 😃 but not licking

Oh, yes 😃 . Honestly I am more interested about the bottom than any other part of my partner body. But this not mean that I neglect the rest of his body, because not only my pleasures are important.

Definitely! Would love to turn a guy on by playing with his ass. Hearing him moan with pleasure is an erotic turn on for me as well.

First an enema to make sure it is clean! Fingering and massaging the prostate, licking, and maybe some anal beads.

I do enjoy playing with my man's ass. I learned quickly how to make him cum using whatever means I have at my fingertips at the time; fingers, plugs, thermometer, dildos, etc. It is his favorite thing to do and I am more than happy to pleasure him....