Sexual arousal around monthly period

My wife got real horny a day or two before her period started and wanted as much sex as possible along with two or three good enemas. It became our time of the month to give each other a good clean out.

When I was on the pill, my libido went way down and I did not lubricate as much. We had to use KY or the like so we could do it without pain. I only desired sex during the first few days after my period.

I have not noticed much difference in my libido related to my menstrual cycle when pill hormones are not messing with me. I begin to feel ready for sex within 8 to 12 hours after intercourse. It is very subtle but the feeling is there and I am easily aroused and lubricate with a minimum of stimulation from my husband. By the second day, I am very horny and I often begin to have a strong desire for sex. I have to wear a panty liner to absorb the goo. We very seldom go 3 days without fucking. If for some reason we go that long, I use my vibrator.

During my period my desire goes up slightly.

The week before went as follows , sex, food ,nap repeat! Or sex, nap repeat. The week of don't touch me for two days then we can resume fun time. Since I had uterus removed and left my ovaries I still go through the cycle, but no period!! So I still have that horny week, haven't hit menopause all the way.

I'm a horny little thing pretty much all of the time anyway, but I do seem to be even worse a few days before my period, and the first couple of days into it. I get even wetter than usual, even quicker - and cum harder. My heart seems a little thumpier around that time too - but not sure if there's a medical reason for that, or if I'm just imagining it (perhaps I need a doctor to help verify that...?)

My wife is often more aroused during her periods. If she not in pain, she wants more sex and gets more pleasure and easier orgasms.

The day before my period I am usually uber horny. During my period I am not normally horny at all, although on a couple occasions I have been turned on During but these times are VERY rare. And are a compliment to whom I might have been chatting to the second day after my period I usually start to feel my “ normal” levels of hornyness

My finest sexual times were during my periods. I miss those days and have many great memories. He would mark the days on a calendar as he monitored my cycle. I liked wearing the belt and Modess-Kotex pad combination. I did not like tampons.

Gwen: I've always enjoyed reading your accounts. Thanks for sharing.

As I said earlier my husband and I enjoyed menstrual sex and he would look forward to when I'd get my time of the month even to the point where he would track my cycle. Like so many others I was not only really horny a couple of days before as well as those days when I was on, but the sex was also a great antidote for PMS. I have to admit that I never liked the belts and pads era and was grateful to switch to tampons early on. The only thing that I liked even better was when our daughter introduced me to the menstrual cup, but that might be a story for a different time. As for liking to feel a bit naughty there still are times when I'll wear a skirt with no undies. Also a pushup bra plus a garter belt with stockings is a way to assuredly get my husband's motor running. The rule here, though, is don't ever stop being a tease and keep the fun going.

@GyneDollI: liked wearing the belt and Modess-Kotex pad combination.

Great to read of a woman who likes this! I find the look of a gal wearing the belt with a clean pad very sexy.

It is different for every woman, but I always felt very horny during my period. I tended to masturbate more. Luckily, I had partners as an adult, who enjoyed sex regardless of my menstruation. Period sex/orgasm in general is the best way to get rid if cramps. I no longer get a period due to having a hormonal IUD, but I have fond memories.

In the past yes, when periods were nothing but a memory as they are now lol. Sex was great, but always with a condom, otherwise well …….

My first wife was always really horny at period time. She was such a highly sexed little lady anyway, but menstruation really got her going. We’d have vaginal, anal and oral sex (red wings) much more frequently, and she would orgasm easily and often at this time. She said it helped with her cramps and sore breasts (I’d suck them harder than usual when she was cumming) 💦

I don’t get them anymore but when I did my horniness did increase immediately after. For that week my ability to orgasm also became easier - actually even though I am post menopausal I’ve noticed that I still have ‘phantom periods’ where I am subject to migraines etc. my horniness cycle also follows

Just leading up to her period my wife often felt discomfort and didnt like her nipples touched but during and immediately after she was very horny.

Hormones have always had a DEFINITE effect on my sex drive! Had a hysterectomy but when I had a period it was a factor.

Just after a period (or during the period) was a perfect time to get to fucking. The chance of getting pregnant was lower just in case the condom broke (which did happen a few times in our lives).

As one who thinks sexual desire is much about nature trying to trick us in procreation. It seems arousal during menses to be a mistake.

As one who thinks sexual desire is much about nature trying to trick us in procreation. It seems arousal during menses to be a mistake.

One does not need to be sexually aroused to procreate. Being sexually aroused is more about interest in being, or wanting to be, fucked than about wanting to get pregnant.

My ex wife loved period sex, and really loved to make me do oral. Her first period after we started serious dating, she said "time to earn your red wings" and made me go down on her. I eventually got into it... Became a regular thing for us... And I had to clean up the mess, of course...

I've been extremely horny days leading up to my period, and now I'm on it and I'm really horny but hate having sex on my period. My emotions could also be heightened due to a recent doctor play session and still have a high from it 😁

There is a lot of research/general medical information on this subject. Bottom line seems to be that there is a greater degree of "horniness" just after (or is it before!!??!!) a lady's period. Who really knows...other than your wife, partner, regular lay, whomever...??? My first wife got particularly randy just before her period. Other ladies I have been with would hump a lamp post just AFTER!! Who knows...like I said...other than the lady who's being done (or doing!!??) The thing is, guys should take note and take advantage of the opportunity to give your lady the greatest pleasure when she needs/wants it!! Big plus for both parties!!!

@Shygirl33 - Question: why do you "hate" having sex during your period? Do you not like the experience, or is it that you think/feel your partner might be put off by it? Have you asked about your partner's feelings/thoughts? Just askin".

Question: why do you "hate" having sex during your period? Do you not like the experience, or is it that you think/feel your partner might be put off by it? Have you asked about your partner's feelings/thoughts? Just askin". No, I do not enjoy the experience it's very messy and it makes me feel, for a lack of a better word, icky. Yes, I have discussed this with my husband and he understands. He also knows if he really wants to have sex we can still have sex but I just prefer not to overall. Hate was a strong word I just mean I don't really prefer it.

It seems all women are different. Which is what makes the world go round they say. I have certainly encountered varied female responses over the years to this topic.

My ex wife had many qualities but in 20 years together I don’t ever recall her saying she was horny, “up for it” or aside from the very rare event, initiating sex. This was regardless of the time of the month! Needless to say if I initiated anything at the time of her period that suggestion was batted out of the park. Which I understood and accepted but taken with her other behaviour was increasingly hard to enjoy. Her favourite phrase was “I suppose you want a handjob” which hardly was the best sales pitch.