Home Invasion

Anyone interested in talking about home invasions leading to bondage, etc. I would love to chat with you.

Moderator's note: She is thinking fantasy, not reality (see #3).

Wow. That's a heavy subject. A true home invasion in and of itself would completely freak me out, probably for a long time. Bondage would make it that much worse for me since I don't like the thought of it in general. To each his (or her) own, though, and if that's your fantasy, then that's fine.

Welcome to the forum, Jessica.

Everybody, be nice when you answer her, even if you don't like/agree with her idea.

I'm not talking about a true home invasion. I would think that would freak anyone out. I'm just interested in the discussion of it or a possible role play where there is a form of control over what happens. I don't think for a second that a real home invasion is anything to take lightly or to laugh at.

Definitely a heavy subject Chester. I have no problem with the bondage side (of course with someone you trust), but the home invasion would definitely do a number on me. I was chatting with a guy who would bring up that scene every now and then, it really creeped me out, I had to stop talking to him.

But that's the beauty of this place, everyone has their own fetishes and it's accepted. Welcome Jessica.

Several years ago we were victim of a burglary , we never see the thieves who visited the house when we were sleeping .

I heard voices in the house ... I go looking who it was , a policeman , I was naked in the stairs ... , no reaction because naked ,

just surprise from the policeman with a gun in hand ....

During a very long time I live it like a rape , they reached my intimity all or stuff was on the ground ....

I think this would involve some violence .

Strong subject

I apologize to anyone that I offended.

No need to apologize. Yes it is a difficiult subject, but . . . . .If people who trust each other work out the details in advance including safe words and perimeters for the behavior, I see no problem with it. It is not something I would spring on someone, even someone I "knew" quite well. Be safe and communicate.

A fantasy/role play between consenting adults is okay as far as the parties involved set the boundaries of play. This type of fantasy role play is similar to those who wish to do a rape scenario. It isn't for everyone. Do not judge those who have an interest in such activities FOR FUN.

When doing this set up what is acceptable between all parties (what can and can not be done be very thorough), have safe words in place (just in case it goes farther than you are comfortable), maybe do a walk through (but do not do the exact set up planned).

I may fantasize about being over powered and such, but I don't think I could emotionally handle doing so in a play scenario. It is just not in my nature to give up complete control.

I wonder what others have hidden in their fantasy mind.

If i may suggest,could it be a home far away,and the invading couple(?) people you know,and discussed the subject fantasy with them and they were willing to participate?

Does this version satisfies you?You shall be forced to suffer a lot of course,as they will discover your personal toys and e mails in zity lets say.Do not apologize please,and another version is to be kidnapped during vacation,with a group.Please answer, kisses and hugs.

Nicol, that is sort of what I had in mind. I like the idea of the vacation kidnapping. Could have a lot of fun with that one.

Jessica, that shows the importance of thinking through your idea and putting it as completely as possible when you post. It makes a big difference to know you already had a scenario in mind rather than the general idea of having someone break into your house and tie you up in reality. I would not have realized it was fantasy had I not looked at your profile.

I chose not to remove the thread last night because I thought it still might go somewhere, and I was going to keep an eye on it to be sure members played nice.

I've been thinking about it, and wondering what the appeal is, not simply to your question, but those who fantasize about any violence directed at them. I haven't thought as far as rape. I don't want that even in a fantasy. But I've thought about what it would be like to have my partner take me as he wants, whether or not it's what I want or when I want it. No violent force, but firmness, pushing force if necessary. "This is what we're doing." I would be okay I think because we would have my safe word in place, and would know I could trust him to back off or stop if it became too much in any way.

I think it comes in part from my sub-ness, the desire and need to relinquish control. That's why Miss Stress wavers in her position on the matter - She is Dominant. I think the other part of it comes from having had a partner who had zero interest in sex. I wanted him to take charge, to show me he desired me. To take an interest, initiate, and unless I had a real reason not to participate, to take me on occasion. To show me his leadership, that I could follow. But he was (is) even more sub than I am, and I think he hates it. That's another thread, though, or a blog, perhaps.

What do y'all think? WHY do we fantasize about this sort of thing? FANTASY and PLAY, not reality, so don't even go there in telling us how horrible it is. That's not the topic. You can start a different thread about that if you want.

I find the fantasy of abduction, confinement, and 'training' absolutely fascinating!!! I'm not sure why I like it, but I've fantasized about it as long as I can remember. Stories about someone being committed against their will, or kidnapped and held prisoner just excite me beyond belief! Maybe it's because of the high level of control someone would have over me, or maybe it's because I crave that level of surrender so badly that I try to find ways to make it happen in my mind. To be abducted, bound, caged, and 'tortured' and used is something I fantasize about very often. I also look for stories where this topic is incorporated, and OMG do they turn me on! (The kidnap & confinement scene in V for Vendetta? *swoons*)

I know for a fact that if it happened in real life, I would completely freak out, but yes, I too have contemplated setting up a 'scene' to fulfill this fantasy. It would take a lot of work, and several very close friends, but I do think it would be possible. For my scene though, it could not happen on vacation or my family would completely freak. I would have to ok it with 'hubby' first, and then make up the cover story for the rest of the family before we could even start to plan the scene. As you can see though, I have thought about it quite a bit. *wink*

Thanks for bringing up this topic! Karma for you for your bravery to post this!

soumise

I read of a couple that would do a "rape" scene every so many months. It was a consensual "scene". The wife would know it was going to happen on a specific day (she was instructed to wear clothes that would not be missed ie: they would probably be torn, ripped, or cut off). Other than that she just had to go about her day until she was "taken". Then the husband did what he needed to fulfill the idea of her being "raped". After care was well thought out and given afterwards.

A well planned "scene" could be fulfilling for those parties involved. Safe, Sane, and consensual! Talk and talk and talk some more so there is not much that comes as a surprise.

I had a girl friend (not girlfriend) once that confessed to me over several drinks that she had a "rape" fantasy. NOT the real, violent type, but more of a "wouldn't take no" scene. I thought it made perfect sense to me - that she had a fantasy like she described - but that it had no connectivity to actually "wanting" to be raped in reality. She had every recognition that it would be confined to a fantasy, but she wanted it to play out under very strictly controlled parameters. I don't know if she ever got her fantasy, as she never ever mentioned it again.

Our minds are not only wide, but deep. There are things "floating around" in them that aren't really very cut and dry.

This isn't too far away from the rather common "Abducted by Aliens" type of fantasy it seems to me. I used to think about this one a lot. Abducted and taken aboard a spaceship, stripped, restrained, then thoroughly examined. Anal with a speculum, then of course the anal probe, urethra with a scope, then forced to orgasm and my semen retained on the spaceship for whatever purpose they had for it.

I've come close to role playing it out before with a pretty kinky gf, though we never actually did it. Sigh...

Invasions in South Africa are all too common, and it's not a subject any of us would fantasize about except in pure terror. Violent robbery with rape often involves the murder of a man/men and the gang rape of the woman/women. No, not funny here.

Johnny