Age differences between Tops and Bottoms, Does it make it more exciting to you?

I started getting spanked as a young adult around age 20. The man who spanked me, at that time was 49. I told him of my boyhood spankings and as a favor to me, gave me a spanking. He really took to spanking me. This guy was a straight man, but he loved my reactions. These were very firm, but not overly hard or severe spankings. Sometimes he used the paddle, but they were all, bare bottom, while he was in a suit, with me over his knee....I found out later as he spanked me for about 8 years that he loved the control, and then carried the sexual excitement to the bedroom with his girlfriend. She never knew about me.

Thing is I loved the age difference. As I got older the first spanking I gave to a younger man was when I was 30 and he was 18. It was hot. But the best spankings I ever got were from a retired English Professor, a widower who had this thing about paddling students. He never did, and we corresponded. I was a confirmed top by then and just turned 40. But to be spanked by a 75 year old professor who boasted being 6 foot 8 inches...I had to take...His spankings were the best. I was upended. and controlled. The man owned me. His age and experience gave him the sureness that I could only hope of having as a top. Wow...those were the best spankings I ever had!

I was spanked by women until i received a brochure from studio 7 (similar to manshandfilms.com) and it turned me on. have been spanked by many men know all in their 50's or 60's older is a must over the knee hand spankings., bare bottom----bruner

Are you still getting spanked by men? This is fascinating!

I was first spanked by a man 15yrs. ago he was over 6 ft tall 240# and had very large hands. this is something i always look for now in a spanker. he was wearing trousers and a white shirt and necktie he rolled up his sleeves and took me right across his big broad lap and gave me a hand spanking that i still remember. it excites me now to think about it. bruner

The mindset of disciplinary spanking is parental, so an age difference validates it. That is especially in spanking relationships in which the top doesn't have sex with the bottom.

I like spanking a younger guy.

Doctor H makes a good point here in that in M/M spanking where the top is older, and does not have sex with the bottom, just spanking it is more "parental" in nature, and I think can pack an entire different level of excitement, sexual excitement. I've had this experience where I used to spank a straight young man, and he wanted to sex. Now, I could caress his bottom, even absent mindedly stroke the back of his nuts...but there was no masturbation, no sex....

I had an off and on spanking thing with a man about 20 years younger than me for several years. We would spank each other, I was bottom probably a little more than top. All our spankings were naked, both of us. Sometimes after right after a spanking, we would switch, so the spanker would then immediately be spanked. It was a rush to be spanked by someone that much younger than me.

I have had many spankings from younger and older.. but prefer older.. When I have a feeling of Dad giving it to me I like it best.... I will take from any man and have met Daddy's younger than myself but a genuine Dad who had plenty of experience is best in my mind.

Both my wife and mother-in-law strip me before putting me over their knees, my wife is 59 and mil is 85 and she still spanks harder than my wife can. Both are GREAT !

I love spanking Curious's bottom when we get together. Age spread suits us both. I'm 20 years older than she is.

All of my spankers so far have been significantly older. I like the age difference because it gives it a more parental feel. I'm definitely open to being spanked by someone my age as well though.

Growing up at Home I received Bare Ass Naked SPANKINGS on a regular basis from MOM!! She also gave me ENEMAS sometimes after the SPANKING for extra PUNISHMENT/HUMILIATION!! Gave/Received BOTH with Women over the next several Years and Loved IT!! Then in my Early 40's I discovered I was BISEXUAL and to present date I have had a FEW SELECT Experiences with like minded Bi-Males involving SPANKINGS/ENEMAS and SEX!! Role Playing is also a Favorite Both as a DOM and or SUB(like both)with Select Bi-Guy's!! Would love to find a Bi-Guy with Mutual Desires/Fantasies to Share/Explore Any? All? of our Interests?? If you are out there please let me Know??

Growing up at Home I received Bare Ass Naked SPANKINGS on a regular basis from MOM!! She also gave me ENEMAS sometimes after the SPANKING for extra PUNISHMENT/HUMILIATION!!

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It's no big deal as a new member of course, everyone has to get the lay of the land and fit in. So welcome and have fun and share you thoughts and experiences.

As I have posted before, I am spanked by my wife and with her blessings, see a professional dom twice a year. My dom of seven years is older than me and is genuine, she has a degree in psychology, and her sessions are more about authority and control. I think these young doms with no experience are a waste of time.

I was lucky to have a female friend spank my male bottom