Time Spent Thinking or Fantasizing about your Fetishes

Hello,

Just curious how much time you spend out of an average day thinking about your fetishes. I find it has increased lately as I have embraced my fetishes and realize I am not strange.....that its actually normal. I go through almost obsessive periods where its hard for me to get my work done to times when it takes a major back seat in my mind.

Just curious if you will share....thanks!!

James

For me, it definitely comes in waves. Some days, I might think about it for only five or ten minutes before I go to sleep or when I'm in a particularly boring situation. Other times, it seems to consume my day. I just CANNOT get my mind off of it, and I think it's worse when you don't have a partner to engage in medical play with as standard sexual activity doesn't seem to curb the desire. It can be quite distracting, to the point that I can't seem to get certain things done that need to be done. I'm grateful for my recent stumbling across this site as the discussions and fantastic stories people have submitted help to get me through the "obsessive periods!"

Normally I don't think about it at all when I'm out or studying or working but when I'm by myself, I tend to read about it, seek out people to talk to, read forums etc. and sometimes get that "brain orgasm" phase that can last for hours. It's actually quite disruptive when it happens, I can't do anything else till it ends or I'm snapped out of it by a phone call, a visit by someone or it ends on it's own.

I also used to "write" a novel in my mind before going to sleep which I continued from where I left off the next time. But it eventually got boring and too repetitive so I stopped doing it.

>>>>>I also used to "write" a novel in my mind before going to sleep which I continued from where I left off the next time

>>>>>I also used to "write" a novel in my mind before going to sleep which I continued from where I left off the next time

I do that too. In fact, that's how I've "written" most of the stories that I've posted here.

>>>>>I also used to "write" a novel in my mind before going to sleep which I continued from where I left off the next time

I do something very similar myself... though I have never thought about it as a 'novel', just a continually developing fantasy. The story I am (all too slowly at the moment) posting in MedFet is broadly based on that fantasy. I say in the intro 'based on one of my fantasies'. What I should have said is 'based on a selection of episodes from my long running fantasy series'.

In addition to this practice I find that the fantasy intrudes at various times throughout the day - some days more than others. Indeed on some days it is hard to get out of my fantasy world/get it out of my head. FrozenRuby, I love the way you put it...

....sometimes get that "brain orgasm" phase that can last for hours. It's actually quite disruptive when it happens, I can't do anything else till it ends or I'm snapped out of it by a phone call, a visit by someone or it ends on it's own.

this is exactly how it feels to me, and just like for you, when it happens it often takes some kind of external interruption (phone/doorbell etc) to end it.

Thanks for the interesting question. I think about my fetishes in "waves" as well. Some days or weeks I can hardly think of anything else and I will spend hours at a time on the Net playing around and being active. At other times, I am just too busy and days and often weeks can fly by before I have the time or the desire to check out any fetish areas. Part of it is the time of year, as I would much rather be outside exercising in the sun than inside on the computer. At other times when the weather is not as nice, I want to be indoors with a nice warm fire and my fetishes.

Lady Teddy, who loves a nice warm fire or a sunny day outside

Checking this website twice daily always engenders thoughts of my fetish for several hours. Furthermore, as my fetish is buttock injections, the sight of an attractive girl in tight trousers makes me visualise her shapely bottom being injected and a suitably mini-skirted girl makes me imagine bending over her shapely thighs for my own shots back there.

Almost no time at all, but when something piques my interest, I delve into it completely. Like Lady Teddy, I tend to go in spurts. There have been times when I spent a week writing up experiences from my past. And then, there have been weeks when I hardly think of it at all.

Occasionally I have frequent, intense bouts of desire - specifically, being examined - but then it seems to go away, sometimes for weeks before it comes back. It comes and goes in waves, and I sometimes wonder if it is linked in any way to my (non-medfet) sex life, and how satisfied (or not satisfied) I might be at the time.

I don't spend much time thinking about it, but when I want to masturbate, it is usually medical experiences that I think about. I generally masturbate once or twice daily.

As my fetishes are an integral part of my life, they are always present in my consciousness.

I'm very much like you James. There are times when it's so intense it's all I think of. Then other times it lays dormant for seemingly infinite lengths of time. It's in this time I wonder if I've lost interest and lost my fetish. Which leads onto another thread aptly named in this forum. I would link it but I'm on an iPhone 😢

Only when im out of school or had a rough day studying does it ever come up for me. When im bored or can't focus then it sometimes comes up if im not on youtube or something

Like many others here, I often let my mind wander to my medfet fantasies - like when mowing the lawn or other boring task - but never to the point where it interferes with normal day-to-day activities. It is usually brief but often gives me an idea for a scenario to share with my wife who is also into medfet. She likes me to initiate the fantasy but she enjoys being the subject of it.

Way too much

Every time I'm on this site. Obviously becuase of my medfet it's not uncommon for me to think about it a lot before exams or just being at the doctor, unless I'm there because I feel very ill where that is probably the last thing I think about. Maybe whenever something regarding it comes up in media, but that isn't very often. I am on Quora sometimes where I can find stuff that applies to medfet or public nudity.

Like anything else in life, the time I spend thinking about or participating in my various fantasies and fetishes tends to wax and wane based on what else may be going on in my life.

From a med fet perspective, the thoughts are more or less always present in the back of my mind. They tend to come to the forefront when my significant other or I have medical appointments scheduled, or sometimes just if I'm feeling particularly kinky.

My husband and I spend way more time performing our fetishes than fantasizing about them.

I think about and fantasize about my fetishes/proclivities/desires as often as life permits. I think it's healthy to have an active fantasy life...or put another way, a very active imagination about that which you desire and enjoy.

I'm retired due to disability, so I likely average 15h/day on the www. It's my window to the world, and medfet (or my main one, which is protective masks on a patient) is a massive part of my world. I enjoy that via pics I see on Instagram, Pink Toxins, or news stories about a young female transplant patient or other who is immunocompromised (or, in a few cases, cross country runners who are the only girls at their school running in masks due to asthma). Also, YouTube is good for videos to fetishize.