Confused about my feelings

Hello there,

Sorry in advance for the ramble, just hoping i can get some insight from more experienced people.

In the past couples years i have explored my little side in age play. My ex was a Daddy Dom so with him i was both submissive and a little girl. Diapers were never part of our play and it was honestly just something i didnt think of as my "little" age is past diapers already. However, i also know i am into humilation play, and lately i keep thinking it would be fun to be forced to be even smaller, to the point of having to wear diapers. i think it would not be so much the wearing of the diaper that excites me, but rather the feeling of embarrassment of being forced to be a baby. For those who have a diaper fetish is it about the actual wearing or is it even the feelings of embarrassment and humiliation? Those who wear are they into ageplay as well, or is it more a materialistic fetish of the diaper and not the emotions? i cannot tell if what i am feeling is the start of a diaper fetish or if it's just my humilation interest.

Any kind opinions or thoughts are welcomed. Thank you!

Would it matter if it was the start of a diaper fetish? I have a bunch of mixed emotions when it comes to my fetishes. Be it the humiliation or the comfort; Do you think of diapers as more then just a humiliation method? I love being forced into diapers and use them. I see it as a good way to control a sub as it brings them mentally back to those innocent times. They don't need to think or worry just do as they are told by their dom. Love is more controlling then fear. I know many dominates like to control by fear and as that might work fine I think they'd get a better reaction if they were loved. It all depends on the person and what they feel towards the various kinks/fetishes. I like this topic as it really makes me think and I would like to help you to better understand this.

I'm young so all that I'm saying is only based on what I know so far and I'm sorry if that is not enough to help you.

Honestly, I think the answers will vary from person to person. I think some people probably enjoy them for the physical feeling but I suspect far more enjoy them for the mental aspects which may vary. Some people, like you, may simply enjoy the humiliating aspect of being treated like a baby, others want to go back to a time when they felt safe and loved. It's really going to be different for everyone. Also, for many it's probably going to be a mix of those reasons rather than a single one.

You said you can't tell if what you are feeling is the start of a diaper fetish or if it's just your interest in humiliation. Those are not mutually exclusive. It may very well be that your interest in humiliation may lead to a diaper fetish. My suggestion would be to give it a try. You may or may not like it. If you do like it, you may as well enjoy it regardless of the reason why.

Thank you both for your responses. It makes sense that it is a mix of things. For i know when im in my little mode it is to go back to simpler times or to just feel like im not in charge, but the diapers or other activities may add a more humiliating aspect and making me even more vulnerable and out of control, which is what i am guessing is probably my main interest in them 😃 i look forward to exploring it more!

Hi Lily, I kinda just wanted to weigh in on this subject, and add my bit. I would mostly echo what Babyboy and Kinwm have already eluded to. Wearing and using diapers is very much something different for everyone who does so. There are lots of common grounds, and threads, but everyone has there own story. We all do come together with some sort of affection or interest in diapers though.

I would say, if you want to explore, go for it! See where it takes you. Rely on your feelings to explore. Don't be afraid to try something, and try it a few times. I think if you are a Little, and wanting to expand on that, and add some diaper wearing humiliation to your Little experience, it's got to be good!

Maybe you can keep us posted on what you try? And I'm sure, if you have more questions, you can post them, and get more advice. Good luck, enjoy, and love those diapers.

Very good question. I think the answer will be different for each wearer. My personal situation is that I like to be humiliated. Many who like humiliation get it by being beaten or punished, but diapering is such a sweet and gentle way of doing it.

I am the male, the bread winner and in control in normal life. I am responsible for paying all the bills. I am my wifes stronger partner and do all the heavy duty things. But one evening, after my bath, I am reduced to being a helpless little baby girl, powdered and diapered and dressed in a pretty lace dress. The gentleness is awesome as is the embarrassment. I find it very arousing, but we dont do it all of the time.

To add my 2 cents, I think the humiliation side and the physical sensation side are the two extremes on this line. Sort of like sexuality, it's not so much black and white as it is many shades of grey. That being said, I've never been much into being humiliated; the idea just doesn't appeal to me. I can understand it, and I could probably enjoy humiliating someone else given their permission, but I don't think I would be able to enjoy this fetish if I were being humiliated while wearing a diaper. I'm also not very interested in the ageplay side. For me, the idea of being an adult while simultaneously wearing a diaper is what specifically appeals to me, as well as the physical sensations associated with the practice. That being said, I could probably enjoy being made to feel younger, but it's not what drew me to this fetish. Hope all of this helps! As you can see from the other answers I think the main idea is that we're all a little bit different 😃

When my wife had me return to diapers due to wetting accidents caused by diabetic didn't want to but to save peace and keep things dry and after a while they feel really secure don't have the humiliation that was there at first.I don't have much male ego left now.

Humiliation comes from mixing adult values and norms with the actions of little ones. Little ones, babies or toddlers, feel no humiliation when they soil their diapers. It is only later after they have learned "big girl" and "big boy" behavior that embarrassment and humiliation come in in/when they have an accident.

I suspect from what you're saying that you are into humiliation. The diapers sound like an escalation of the humiliation scene to me. Only you would know for sure. Does the idea of a diaper in a room all by yourself not being involved with another person sound exciting? If not then it's just window dressing for your desire to experience humiliation. Incorporating diaper play into bdsm might bring about a desire to wear diapers, but I suspect that you would have already discovered them if they were the center of your interests.

I have alot of these same question. What intrigues me, and makes me CRAZY excited about the diaper aspect is that Id love to be forced to wear one. And feel the humiliation. But One thing I know for sure is, Id never actually release into one.. lol That seems a bit too much for me. I do know that Id love to have a partner (of the obvious sex) that was into diapers, enemas, plugs, suppositories and everything else related that I cant think of now. Id be into playing whatever roll she wanted.. to make her fantasy come true.. and hopefully she would be open minded as I am.. to doing the same to me.. I would love to hear whatever input you have on this.. Have a great day, John