Double anal fisting

My dom's goal is to do double anal fisting, but I'm just new to vaginal fisting. What should I do to practice so it's more enjoyable and easy? I'd rather use ordinary items so no one questions what I'm doing. I'm a bit scared.

You're a bit scared? You should be.

Tell your dom to forget about double anal fisting. The number of people who can actually do that is so small as to be negligible. Most who say they or their partners can do it, LIE.

Two hands is a tremendous stretch for the anus and it could take years to enable yourself to accommodate that and I know his hands are bigger than yours. I have been fisted both anally and vaginally, but only by women with small hands, and I have had two children and been married twenty years. My husband has never fisted me because his hands are just too big--size 13 ring and size 8 1/2 to 9 glove (and no, he doesn't have a 10 inch penis, that's an urban myth). I know my limits. You have to know yours.

You need to go VERY slowly, especially with anal fisting. You can tear the anal ring and that would require anal reconstruction, and then your anal play days will be over for good.

Use dildos of increasing size anally and vaginally until you reach a big stretch. It won't happen in a short time.

Susie is right when she says that it won't happen in a short time.

Just so your expectations are accurate, getting to one fist takes months to *years* of safe play. Getting to two hands in your ass will take YEARS and that is IF your pelvic opening can accommodate the hands you want inside you.

Safety comes first, your Dom's desires comes second and if he disagrees just ask him how long it would take HIM to get to this point and watch him change his tune.

Owen & Suzie are right, Anal fisting can take months or years to reach a single fist. VERY few people ever take 2 fists. Fwiw, I've taken fists for over 10 years and haven't managed a double yet. Vaginal or anal, either way, don't focus on a specific goal but take your time, only do what feels right, and enjoy the journey.

I concur with Owen, Suzie, and Gypsie. I actually have taken both of my wife's fists, but keep in mind that I can also take an enormous 4" wide butt plug. Its not as if I just decided to do this one day out of the blue. I started small, w/ fruit like carrots and cucumbers, then soda cans, shampoo bottles, and then up to bigger and bigger objects over a period of many years, like 10 years. Eventually i got to a 3.5" plug, and then 3.75, and then 4. I'd suggest that once you get to 3" wide objects, you can take one fist, and 4" wide objects you can try for 2 fists. Don't rush, just do whats comfortable and exciting for you, or you end up in the Emergency Room making up a story about how you slipped in the shower and fell on a shampoo bottle or some other ludicrous tale (which the ER staff will pretend to believe, but they know what really went on)

Practise practise practise and lot of lub. drink also help

Hellofa fantasy butt quite dangerous. I like it large butt that's just too much!

I've been playing with my ass for over 16 years (I'm now 30). My wife fists me as often as she is willing to (which is pretty often). She loves to stick her fist(s) in me. She can grt her hand up in me to her elbow. She can also double fist me. The first time pushing both hands in is a bit of an enjoyable pain. But after that initial pop in and stretch, it's all GOOD! She can then go in and out fairly easily. It is an amazing sensation. I always get what I call a bumgasm because its so incredibly intense that it, to me, is just like a penile orgasm but more intense in that it is a whole body experience. But it took time, practice, toys, enemas, practice, lube, lots of lube, and practice.