The ideal size

Over the years I've found that there is a certain size of a toy/object that will give me maximum pleasure when masturbating anally. A 2" thick dildo (doesn't matter the length) seems to be the perfect size for my ass as it slides in almost effortlessly; I mean, it is not too thin that I can't "feel it" and it is not too thick that it requires a vigorous action to insert it. It is just right, it causes just the right amount of friction to create a titillating stimulus...

So what is your optimally sized object/toy?

A toy between 1 1/2" and 1 3/4" in diameter is about perfect for me. The 2" toy I had took a little work to get it in but it still felt good. I just prefer something slightly smaller.

If I want that full feeling, I get something about 2". For thrusting action I like something a bit smaller, 1 3/4" is just right. I had tried things over 2" wide, but while it was difficult to get it in, I could't do much because I was stretched so much it was unconformtable. For long term wearing a plug 1 1/2" wide fits the billl perfectly.

I like things that are from 2 to 2 1/2 inches, anything over that are for times when I am it the mood for some stretching.

I want bulk,2.5" diameter, at least 6" long, and a good, solid, heavy feel. The more ribs the better. I like to take a break with an 18" double ended dildo, around 1 .5" in diameter, and floppy (so it goes around curves. I can take it all and close my ass on it to sit. I won't ignore my 30" x 34 Fr colon tube, either. I guess I'll try anything!~ LOL

My max. is 2 1/2" egg or ball. I'm not keen on depth and I like my ass to close once it's in. I don't masturbate when it's up there but it's not in there long enough anyway, in and out several times in quick succession. It's quite a stretch but I must confess I can't get enough of that pain / pleasure rush.

I can't get past 2 1/2 inches wide in my ass. 1 3/4 inch thick is probably my ideal anal toy.

I like toys that I can fully insert and keep inside me for long periods of time. The ideal size for me is about 2-1/2 inches in diameter and 8 to 10 inches in length. I do play with thicker and much longer toys (up to 20 inches), but carrying them around inside me, especially when out shopping or at work, can be quite a challenge.

I've been using the very flexible 8 inch by 2 in. doc Johnson ur3 ,I trimmed the balls off so I can slide in all the way.

I can feel it just starting the corner but its just a little to much just yet .

I also practice with a 2 1/4 in by 12

I can't get past 10 in .

Maybe it's to big at the head,

It sure is fun!

I enjoy a variety of sizes. The widest I've comfortably used is 2.75".

I've just stuck at 2 1/2" for a long time now , it still takes alot of effort and a bit of pain to get it up there ,but thats what i like 😉

The best I've been able to manage is a 2.75" dildo that I ply frequently into my rectum. I'd love to go bigger, but I seem to be limited by my bone structure. Naturally, I can take a much larger object inside my rectum beyond my sphincter, but it has to be inflatable. I'll keep working at it, though. Being stretched to the limit is extremely stimulating.

I have alot of dildos and buttplugs and have been using them for years. As I get older (52), I can't really take the wider ones as well. My 3" wide x 10 long one is useless to me anymore. Anything over 2" hurts in a bad way, so I went shopping the other day. It was weird going into an actual shop, as I usually buy online. There it was, the Ron Jeremy dildo. 1.75 inches wide x 9.75" long, 8 inches insertable. Looked perfect for my needs. I bought it. On the drive home I took it out of the package. Mmm. Anyways, I tried it out in the shower. Used a warmup plug first, and then lubed up Ron. Oh My God! Perfection. Filled me up. I had such a good cum with that bad boy rubbing my prostate. The best dildo I've ever owned. 5 stars.

1 1/2" thick and 7" long is the best size especially if I have not played with 1 in awhile I have a 2" by 9 but it takes some work and will be sore the next day

So going through this thread, i realized that someone over here might help me with my problem, I want to put up a thick dildo up my ass and walk around with minimal pain and maximum pleasure. right now, anything above 0.75 in is thick for me, how can I make my hole get used to taking thicker stuff? also, I live in a place where sex toys are not readily available, so I am carving butt plugs out of candles or inserting random objects like razor handle, thin cucumbers etc.

P.s, I find my half inch thick vibrating razor handle much more pleasurable then a one inch thick butt plug, is that normal?

I'm a straight man who loves being anally penetrated but I can't take anything too thick. I like something that starts off narrower and gets wider--from 3/4" to 1" diameter. Six to seven inches length is perfect. Once my anus and rectum are well-fucked, I can take 1 1/2 inches diameter, but I have to take that slowly, and I can't plunge it like I can at the narrower width. I have a jelly dildo that fits the bill perfectly, a double dong with the ends exactly like that, thick and thin. Unfortunately it's hard to find toys like that. Dildos tend to be too thick, or not smooth (I don't like ridges, bumps, or veins), or too hard, or they lack a handle, or all of the above.

Compared to others who have commented here, I guess I'm pretty tight. Even a finger feels big to me, even one of my wife's, which sends me to the moon and back when she makes me the girl.

@WDWD

Tantus make a plug called the Ryder. It's diameter at the widest point is 1 1/2 ". Go to the Tantus website now and order on for 17.00 - 18.00 from their grab bag section. This is the cheapest you will ever find it.

While you are in the grab bag section look at the Leisure dildo. It is marked down also. Finally, just look at their anal toys, they have a new plug out called the Neo. All of these toys that I mentioned are made of high grade silicone and will last for many years if taken care of. They are all smooth with no bumps, swirls or ridges and the silicone makes them very easy to insert. If you are looking for smaller, smooth toys, these are the ones for you. Use only water based lubricants with any silicone toy. Silicone lube will ruin them.

Neo- 4" x 1.4"

Leisure- 7" x 1.25" (I think)

Ryder- 4.5" x 1. 5"- my personal favorite. It is comfortable to wear for extended periods

There are no pictures in the grab bag sale section, but there are pics of the Neo, Leisure vibe and Ryder in the regular plug and vibe sections. It is getting hard to find the Leisure dildo without the vibe because they are phasing it out. Tantus makes the best quality silicone toys on the market and these prices will not last long. Good luck and have fun.

Sadly, about one inch is my limit. I have searched for the ideal enema nozzle and other anal toys for a long time with much disappointment. I am seriously thinking about buying a cheap lathe to make my own devices to the taper and diameter that I like.

Hackjuan---that is a good idea you have, to make your own. I have made several over the years as a means of experimenting to find out what I really enjoy.

hankb

It's less about a defined number of inches diameter or length and way more a function of "Profile" from tip to the part gripped by muscles.

The best shape EVER of any object in me before or since- was a rechargeable "Facial Power Unit" that essentially replicated an inductive charged toothbrush. The simplest description being a conical base looking as if molded in a metal drink jigger- that kept that OD maybe 2-3 inches before beginning a taper to the power shaft end. The rubber seal that the metal prong for making Facial Care tools *vibrate* was maybe 13 inches from the bottom charging base end.

Which made the love of my ass&prostate... a DANGEROUS profile for getting sucked in with ER trip results were it not for my having epoxy secured the metal&plastic "Facial Massager" head onto the prong. And so in my mid-teens I had discovered my prostate was able to melt me into a gasping puddle of breathless glowing warmth. Which I had stubbornly rationed out the repeat intervals from simply in wanting to keep that ride as SPECIAL for it's total surrender/self love power. I'd plug it into the charger stand hidden in my room and after my evening showershot or bag session had been enough hours past so no late returns were a worry-Playtime was about to begin.

I pulled my love wand still deliciously warm from the stand- it and my ass would be lubricated with various creamy lubes such as Jafra to begin a teasing gentle in-out-in repeat motion. Ending up as usual- with sore parts and sore arm plus a stupidly well fucked look on my face that shines in memory. Al from the ideal size of SHAPES that I'd tripped across as a self love tool.

It was not about feeling a huge object in me "Just" for sheer length or diameter. Thread topic of ideal size to my take does could profiles as well as size , eh?

More being "why" this toy was so special- by that time I frequently had a few objects bigger... fit comfortably in me. This was all about the SHAPE and how it hit my Prostate plus the ability to clench my ass as i instroke and push out for an outstroke repeating till a whole body beyond simple orgasm seemed SO close. All it took to push me over the edge was a good fantasy or other enhancement like pictures of someone I lusted for.

Heh- Over the years I've lathe turned a few tries of recreating that cherished profile but somehow- it's still an "Almost" so Try Try Again I shall

I like 1. 75 inch vibrating dildo the best. The biggest is a Tee Ball bat at 2.25 inch. My FWB can fist me almost to her elbow, small hands and a lot of prep work. That is a guaranteed full body orgasm for me

I have tried various sizes and the one that seems just right is about 1.5 inches in diameter. I have tried toys that are a little bigger in the 2 inch diameter range and they hurt going in. I had to take some time and let my ass relax so it could take it. I really did not feel the larger size equated to increased pleasure. It seems natural to think that larger means more pleasure but for me it really did not. Since I found my ideal size, all my toys are giving my ass and prostate pleasure.

That would be about 1 1/2 ins, as I have that inserted, it is short and bulb-shaped, I would like to be able to take 2in comfortably, but it is a struggle. I have that inserted only occasionally to test. Just using a plug for suppository insertion helps, but it is important to make sure it is designed for the job, and cannot go all the way in, as one expands it gets easier.

I had wanted to try the larger plug and she had expanded me a number of times with the tip, but she has now managed to fully insert the 2 inch wide plug. After my suppository she pushed this plug on my bum and it finally went all the way in. A relief, as the neck slipped inside, a very full feeling . This is a glass anal plug that holds the suppository in and only goes about three inches inside which is enough to position a suppository, Feels heavy as a reminder that it is there. i have removed myself for my toilet and flushing with the bidet, and replaced it afterwards, which takes longer than the smaller one. The larger one does not feel as though it could come out. The final stretching was very uncomfortable but I wanted to see if I could manage it.

I like 1 3/4 inch - 2 inches thick. I really can't seem to make it past 2 1/4. I have lots of dildos and butt plugs. As mentioned by Equeen, I own the Tantus Ryder and it is a really good butt plug but a little small for me. I also own a large Tantus Ace and it is awesome because the long neck makes it stay in place really well - this one will not pop out. I'd love to try the Tantus a Bomb - 2 1/2 inches thick so it would take me to a new level. My favorite butt plug is a silicone DOC Johnson that is 1 3/4 inch wide. At the moment though, my all time favorite toy is my Njoy pure wand. You don't need size with this - it rubs the prostate perfectly and I can have a hands free orgasm.

For dildos I like a 2.5"-3" wide. The longest I'll comfortably go length-wise is about 13 inches. For plugs I like short, wide ones like the Ass Servant, which is 3.75" wide. I have other smaller plugs that I also use but it's always a warmup for something big.

3 inches wide seems to be about perfect for me. I own both toys in my avatar picture. The larger one is 3.75 inches wide and once I am warmed up I can take it in my ass fairly easily. J-lube is the only way to go toys this size or bigger. But yeah, 3 inches would have to be my all around favorite size....for now. 😉

A 4cm diameter or a bit over 1 1/2" dildo seems to be perfect for me. As long as it has 5"+ to work with it's fine.