My wife's first enema

So my wife has said that she is interested in receiving an enema. Awesome! Or so I thought. I started thinking about all of the possibilities, combinations of things such as devices, lubes, amounts, positions. I really want the first one to go well because this is something I would like to do regularly. Any advice would be awesome. She has also said that she wants to try anal and I was wondering if an enema before hand would help with that. Also, any type of sex I could have during an enema. Mostly, though, things that would make her first one enjoyable enough to make her want to have a second.

If you want a good first enema experience be simple.

A quart, maybe two of plain warm water. NO SALT, NO BAKING SODA. NOTHING. Anything you add will increase the likelihood of return trips to the toilet, cramps or other responses. If you use plain water, it will go in and come out easily.

You want her to enjoy and savor it. Go easy on her.

After she learns how her body reacts, you can use larger volumes, more exotic recipes and more involved equipment.

Yes, exactly what Susie says, trust her and I on this. I had a really bad first enema experience and while I will take them willingly from Doc every now and again, I still somewhat fear them and don't exactly go running and screaming to him to give me one. Make it warm, make it low volume, and please her front area, rub her back, thighs and buns while doing it. And listen to her voice and body language as you are giving it. Any neg feelings and chances are you will be done forever in the enema department.

Mashie

Isn't it a travesty that Mashie or Switchablesusie couldn't have trained all those nurses and medics who gave so many prep enemas to those gals in labor and delivery. A good, or at least a better experience, would have potentially avoided turning so many women against enemas. Many of us guys relished the experiences we had in a medical or clinical setting. I suppose that in most cases, the enema was given in a less emergent situation and not when the contractions and other concerns of labor were so prominent.

This seems to be great advice...start slow with small volumes of warm tap water and let her learn to enjoy the new and different sensations. Some nice gentle lubrication, if she's not adverse to anal touching, may just get her to the point of almost begging for some gentle penetration.

OMG! How could I have forgotten.

As sse4fun said: LUBRICATION.

Use a liberal amount, spread it around well, insert ONE, THAT'S ONE finger so the anus is well lubricated. NOTHING will stop you in your tracks faster than a nozzle that drags against sensitive tissues when you insert the nozzle.

Please let us know how things for you and your wife during her first enema. Will there be more?

Hi sse4fun. First, women in labor are a very sensitive lot. They will not tolerate increased discomfort kindly! Second, they are going through an experience that a man cannot totally appreciate. It hurts a lot.

I would not recommend trying to introduce a woman to sensual enemas for some time, (a lifetime for instance), if they have received an enema during labor. If she asks for one, sure, go ahead; be gentle and do not force her and you may have a convert but don't force the issue of enemas on an unwilling woman.

Ladies, do you agree with me or not?

LOL, well I forgot the lube too, I mean DUH!!!!!!!!

Mashie

Mash and Susie are giving great advice. Your lady will be honest with you on how the enema is going. Kindly ask her how she is feeling, watch her face and body for signs of distress, and help her to relax as well as she can during this new experience.

I have had a number of non-sexual enemas. I have even tried a couple of sexual enemas, but was not able to find the enjoyment in them that so many others have. Maybe if I had tried the sexual enemas first, that may have made the difference.

Good luck and please do let us know how the experience goes.

There are likely a few of us that would be more than willing to assist an apprehensive lady through her first or even hundreth enema. We might even act as a coach or supporter in most cases.

Oh ! forgive me, I must have been daydreaming or something...

I guess that there is some degree of trial and error for the inexperienced. Make an error, and you'll likely be solo for a long time.

Listen to SS, Mashie, and MissStress and you'll be less likely to turn her away forever.

Well im deployed right now and still wont be back for awhile to come. I was just hoping to get some information. Good information. And thank you everyone. I will definitely be referencing this series when it comes time.