Is it hard to find a Mommy-Domme?

Hospitalcare, that is a great point. So true.

It is really difficult to find a nurturing mommy, as well as a dommy one. My one and only experience was with gf/mommy who did both and enjoyed having that kind of control over me, so we were a perfect match. Unfortunately it ended, and since then I have had a hard time finding a new person with whom I can share all these hidden interests, kinks, and desires. I I know if I find the right person, I will make her really happy because that is what I become in the hands of a caring, confident mommy, really weak, happy and pliable, and... primarily concerned with making her happy.

I m very lucky in that I met my play mummy jade at a gay pub. I was known as a sissyboy who was into being spanked and we got talking about dreams and desires. When i told her about my bedwetting and being caught by mum in a pair of her spunky panties she started laughing and telling me that she's always wanted to 'little' and was i 'little'. I blushed because my peepee is very little.

She then asked me if i d ever borrowed mummys dirtty knickers and been spanked for it. i went crimson because yes i had. She laughed and said 'Red hair red bottom little one' Shes also a redhead and in her 40s so it was total instabonding. How could a sissyboy resist a mummy figures strength and confidence?. That night at hers our playing began. 😃

I know I've been searching for years without any luck

I've responded to several posts on craiglist for mommys wanting nursing. I get no response, zilch. Even from those folks who are not demanding a phone number or picture. I can only assume that the response is so overwhelming, connecting with someone via a posting to CL would only be slightly better odds than a lotto game.

My wife/mommy is reluctant about play at home as we still have some mostly grown kids here. We play when they are out or we go out. As for finding one I recomend attending events such as local fetish munchs and trying to meet people there. I do a lot of cybering and hardly get to bottom. I'm usually always playing a strict dommy mommy. To me you mix control and discipline with tenderness and care as a dommy mommy. I have the roleplay partner tell me their kinks and limits so I can customize the chat.

It took me a LONG time to find someone but I now have found a Mommy. She is very good at being a 'Dommy Mommy' but is also very 'part time' for Her. In fact i may not see Her again for a few weeks but that is how it is as She has a VERY busy life and i am but a very small part of it. Still much better than no Mommy at all.

Patti

Its a hard ABDL life

I'm looking a dummy mummy ryanashe54@yahoo.co.uk. I need to be trained

It sure has been very hard for me. But so far things are looking good with my new gf. She said she is willing to give the mommy role a try. Maybe not for awhile but at some point she will.

I think it's terribly difficult to find a mommy. I looked all over north ms even parts of other states the ones I did find where not relationship material more business women really. It really stinks that we can't share our experiences together.

I think it has to do with your level of commitment you desire, I think the amount of women that would be interested in Mommy-domming goes up when you do not expect a deep lifestyle-type commitment.

I found mine without even looking for one ??

Another reason why I think a lot of Baby boys do not get the mommy they want is that they want what they want and do not take in consideration of the needs of the other person. Many babies I feel see the mommy as an object of pleasure and soothing rather than a person with a maternal instinct who derives pleasure from mothering. A relationship is a two-way street, you need to give and not just take, I think some babies don't get this.

Another reason why I think a lot of Baby boys do not get the mommy they want is that they want what they want and do not take in consideration of the needs of the other person. Many babies I feel see the mommy as an object of pleasure and soothing rather than a person with a maternal instinct who derives pleasure from mothering. A relationship is a two-way street, you need to give and not just take, I think some babies don't get this.

Amen brother, I agree with you 100%,

Well no it's not easy by any stretch of the imagination. I've been on a few sites managed to find a couple even stayed at one lady's house for her as she wanted a baby . And I had to stay in nappies so from my point of view everything was almost perfect . The Only issue was she only had the use of one arm after a stroke so made doing every thing really hard . Shame it never worked out but that's life until now . Have met somebody who knows of my fetishes so watch this space !

I don't see many single AB's on fetlife, but I assume everybody knows about that site 😃

I haven't sought a mommy but would love to try it. I can imagine some women are not just dommes but materna dommes, keeping baby safe and caring for him and seeing him reciprocate with appreciation for mommy's deep caring, very deep caring...

Yes, but a very intoxicating and arousing thought. I know my thoughts derive as a result of being many enemas by mom. I also had regular temperature taken sometimes orally and others draped over her lap in my bottom. Being told what to do by her. She was very straight laced and authoritative in her manner. She would say you are getting an enema go to the bathroom, undress and I will be right there. Never any question and I long for those days again .

Very hard to find a mommy but it would be so rewarding for them. As they would never have to worry about you, because you would just mind mommy. She would keep you as her baby. Don't get any better, right all you adult babies.

HeaRd that you don't find them they find you.

Ive been into ab/dl for 27 years, now choose to be 24/7 diapered.

from my experience you will never find a mutually appreciating woman - abdl women/women into diapers arent into abdl men/men in diapers.

it's a sad fact everybody pretends isnt true.

and fake mummys you have to pay for, are a complete joke. abdl is not a transactional commodity,it's a seeking of a connection that comes deep from our core.

its not remotely as difficult for non hetero people, but for a straight male its a lonely life. but it's my truest self.better to be you, than a fraction of you..., with a girlfriend that doesnt love the whole of you, or with an empty wallet and back account after paying hundreds of dollars for a 30 minute lie.

Perhaps i was lucky a relationship is two ways give and take get to know someone first and see where it goes do not throw your own fantasies on your partner before you except theirs

Generally yes. There are the so called "Mommy's" available at a price. The real ones are rare, as most are dominant and not motherly. Many of us seek the motherly ones. (Great money making opportunity for someone earn an income without having sex!)

I was fortunate to find someone. Her friend was my seamstress and introduced us. She was recently divorced and was the motherly type. She even painted one of the rooms baby blue. We met a few times and discussed my needs in detail. She saw it was a one sided thing where I was taking everything in and she was giving. She was ok with that.

She was my mommy for a year and I'd see here about every month. She was a great mommy. She would bath me, put me in a nappy and baby clothes, feed me. We would snuggle up and sometimes chat or browse through the diaper porn I had downloaded. She would then make me "creamies" in my nappy. After a short snuggle I would shower and leave. No sex, nothing. Just motherly love.

It all came to an end when she moved out of town. I sure miss that special opportunity I had.