Women enjoying being dominated during oral sex

The other night my girlfriend was giving me a blowjob when she asked me to straddle her and grab her head while she was sucking me. Always happy to indulge someone's kinky fantasies, I climbed up, pinning her arms down with my legs, and got a firm grip on her hair before pushing myself into her mouth. Then I pulled out and let the end of my erect dick sit on her lips. From the look in her eyes, I could tell she loved it, so I tried grabbing my dick and hitting her mouth and cheeks with it. She loved it even more. Eventually, I was alternating between pushing her down on me and rubbing my saliva-slick cock on her face, giving her dirty talk while I did it. Occasionally I would order her to stick out her tongue or purse her lips so I could rub my cock over it without entering her mouth.

I was wondering if anyone here had fantasies similar to this. I guess I was only surprised because I felt like this was more of a male fantasy that came from watching too many porn blowjobs than a female fantasy of being degraded while giving head. I was also surprised because I haven't had much experience being super dominant like that in bed.

Tzsch! That Is soooo hot. Your lady is incredibly lucky to have a guy to. I like to feign a fight every now and then. Pinning her arms down sounds good because they were pinned and because I bet there was small amount of pain. Yum

When my man is lazy it is "fellatio" that keep him happy, only because I do all the work, and when he takes charge and wants it rough we enjoy "irrumatio" and I get the chance to lay back while he does all the work. I like to lay back with my head over the bed and he gets my legs held under his arms and has a good grip on my wrists as he puts his cock in my mouth. Basically it is a skull fuck and I really have to learn to breath in between thrusts. It is eye watering and it pushes my boundaries. When I know we are going to play this out I use cheap makeup that runs, just for the effect. Certainly fun with someone you trust ladies!

@tzsch Your description is a hot display of dominance, but I would not call it degrading. The beauty of a power exchange for me is about him taking his pleasure because he feels I"m sexy and desirable, and me wanting to serve him. Besides, sucking cock is REALLY hot! One of my favorite positions is with him above me on his knees 69; seeing his balls hang, his ass at eye level with his forced cock buried against my tongue. (And maybe some amount of oral forced on my clit, too.) Your pausing at her lips is perfect, holding control, looking at her so she has to wait, wanting. I love rubbing his head on my lips, wet cock on my face. Very sensual! Being held down just adds to the thrill for a submissive. Sweet that you indulge her in her fantasies.

My hub makes me get on my knees and pulls my hair and I love it..

In theory it seems like something kinky and fun, but in practice not so much. I have a horrible gag reflex and am not one for pain really. I put it up there with rape fantasies. Seems great when you're all hot and bothered, but complicated and a little too weird come play time.

Now and then, I enjoy being dominated during oral sex. I have a bondage head harness that has attachments - blindfold, collar binder, penis gag and a ring gag. Once in a while, my husband will put it on me and I will wear it for long periods of time with the penis gag. When he is ready to use me, he will use the ring gag to force my mouth open. I wore ring for 3 or 4 hours one time and my jaw locked open. I thought we would have to go to the hospital but it unlocked in the shower. Now we limit the ring gag time to 1 hour. I prefer to be blindfolded during forced oral sex.

The stimulation through the ring gag is usually not strong enough to make him orgasm so he alternates between my mouth and vagina until he is ready to cum and then uses my mouth or ejaculates on my face. I look a fright in the morning if I wear the harness all night.