After coming out of a 17 year relationshp where there was no giving of oral sex to me (I have always enjoyed giving - as a matter of fact I love to) - I'm left wondering do men really enjoy giving oral sex? I have always had a difficult time relaxing & enjoying it - because I didn't feel that guys enjoyed doing it - and I was left wondering if smell, appearance or taste were as big a concern to men - as it seems to be for me. I would love to know what others think. It's been 17 years since anyone has done oral on me - and it's left me wondering in what ever new relationship I enter - should I be changing my way of thinking? I appreciate all answers - comments, etc. On the flipside - how do I overcome my own mental hurdles to relax - and enjoy it? (The ironic part of all this is - I'm pretty open minded when it comes to sex - I really enjoy sex - and it almost seems absurd that I think this way...)