Recommendations for First Anal Toy

Someone asked: What is the best toy for the first time.

Try this

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Best 13 bucks you can spend,,,, Most cheap vibrators have crappy on off switches, This has a button on the bottom that works every time. It also has different speeds. By two one of her and one for your prostate. It sinks in the hot tub but like the energizer bunny, keeps on going.

That'al blow the wax outa ya ears! Cheers, Skybear

The first one. Anything after that ain't the beginning. How is that for an "anal"yst? Also, use condoms as they make cleanup easier and more certain

Here's one we got, the Sensafirm Sensual Plug - Medium size. It's a jelly plug(blue with black). Sub likes it because it has a more "oval" outside base. The base fits nicely between the cheeks for extended wear. We just ordered the large size(red with black) . It's almost too long to sit on while it's in, but it should still be just as comfortable to wear while standing up.

Glass or Pyrex wont chip on your innards, so they are quite safe. And the use of phthalates is heavily regulated nowadays, so using those materials won't pose a real problem. Other then that, use common sense. Don't shove anything up there you wouldnt happily lick (when it's clean, of course.)

Glass or pyrex can be chipped and one not notice it in the heat of play. Phthalates are well regulated by the EU Commission and the State of California. Though elsewhere in the States, adult toys (other than for children under 12 years of age) are still being sold that contain phthalates.

In these areas the EU is far more advanced that the States.

I started with a set of anal beads. That was awesome especially during the height of orgasm. . . the beads being pulled out slowly. I now also have a set of vibrating anal beads, as well as a regular vibrating butt plug. Bought them online and for the price they are awesome.

Check out a well made, well shaped jelly plug called "Little Zinger". Great as a starter and continues to feel great. Not available everywhere, but worth searching for. Have only found it on line...never seen it is stores. Enjoy!

I recently purchased a medium sized butt plug and a 7 Inch dildo. It was called the Matineee Idol cock I think. I have tried inserting vegetables like cucumbers and squash but I would experience too much pain. The first day I got the toys I started with the plug. It was bumpy but has a smaller tip, plus it vibrates! It took some time and lube but I eased it in with no problems. I got really horny and decided to try the dildo. Even though it was an intimidating size, I was able to ease it in and ride it within minutes. So, my point is, start with a smaller toy and then move up in size, even if it is the same day! Also, vibrating toys really do help loosen you up.

I'm going to answer your question in the most informative way I can. I've been playing with my ass for about 20 years now and I've gradually stretched out to accommodate toys and objects that are 4 inches wide so here's my .02 on the matter.

When I first started playing with my ass I discovered through trial an error that the best toy to loosen you up and get yur ass to relax and enjoy the sensations is a vibrator. Now you DON'T have to buy a vibrator made for anal play, that's just a money grab. Get yourself a regular water proof SOLID vibrator that is around 1 inch wide and use it to start. The vibrations feel nice and do a very good job of relaxing you. O cd your ass is nice and relaxed and, over time, you've become very accustomed to it, you can progressively wider but plugs to go wider. This is the safest way to stretch and remember you can go as wide as your hip bones will allow. For some people it's 4 inches wide or more, for others it's less than that. This WILL take years if you want to do it safely and remember that (like me) you might get hooked on stretching but don't make it a goal. Enjoy the journey and have fun with it.

Lastly I have to say USE LUBE AND LOTS OF IT!!!!!!!!!!!! I remember that whenever I was trying to get past a "plateau" it was always a good solid slick lube that made a huge difference in getting past that point and allowing me to use a wider toy.

Don't waste your time or money on expensive "anal" lubes. Get some Crisco shortenning and buy some J-lube powder and make your own lube. There are tons of recipes on the net and you can make as much as you want for relatively cheap.

GO SLOW

GOOD LUCK

HAVE FUN!!!!!

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