Loss of Erection while wearing a Plug

Just another thought while on the subject of butt plugs - do any other guys lose their erection when using a bigger one? I like to start small & work my way up to quite a large plug, inflatable or solid, as I love the really 'full up' feeling....but when using the larger sizes I seem to lose some of my hardness. Any ideas why this should be?

Its normal to lose your erection when taking a plug in your ass. I'm. It sure why it happens, all I know is it's normal. It happens to everyone.

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I experienced the same. I lose my erection when I penetrate my ass with a dildo or a vegetable. Also, my cum is different in combination with anal stimulation, it's more watery.

Same here I lose my erection when I insert a butt plug. I don"t know why but when I start any anal play I lost my erection and It is hard to regain it.

I usually do too but a vibrator at the base of the plug sometimes causes a hands free ejaculation.

Your erection might go away when you first insert an anal plug into yourself. But usually if you go to bed while wearing the plug, you wake up a few hours later and get an erection that is extremely intensified by the plug. In fact the sensation of an erection while wearing an anal plug is way beyond the exquisite sensation of even the most perfect erection one could have without an anal plug. If you take the opportunity to masturbate when you wake up, the plug intensifies the orgasm as well. At least this has been my experience. So I figure it's worth it to lose an erection by putting a plug in, because I can expect to get another erection that feels even better when I wake up later.

I have had the same experience as HC. When I have a butt plug in overnight as I sometimes do, I eventually will get an erection if not immediately. I think this is due to the stimulation but if I wear a larger butt plug I will often have a long lasting erection which I think is due to pressure on my prostate. If I insert my largest butt plug, I will get an erection that will not subside until I either have an orgasm or remove the plug.

Has anyone experienced limp dick while playing with your asshole with large dildos? I get hard just thinking about how good it feels to have my asshole stretched. But when I get that fat boy up in me my hard dick go:s limp as a cooked noodle. It makes almost impossible to get both my cock and anus to orgasm at the same time. I have to use my vacuum penis pump with a heavy duty vibrator to get off but thats all about timing. The pump works great with the vibe but it gets me off alot faster then my asshole does. So I pump until my cock fills the 2 1/12" dia.x12" long clear pipe then start working on my asshole until I feel it starting to cum. Thats when I hit the vibrator switch. Then its WOW. After I stop squirting out my asahole and shooting a major load .I have to catch my breath and dry off.Its about an hour and half sesson. I just dont care for the way my cock feels after the vacuuming. I would much rather have it nice and hard so I could jack off the old fashion way.

Welcome to the 60s. Not all parts work like they used to.

Hey old mate, how do you think it is at 75, I wake up in the morning with a real good 'hard on' and tell her that I'll split her open with it, IF I suddenly think of something else, IT'S GONE. I told my doctor I'm having trouble maintaining an erection and he tapped me on the head with his knuckles and said "it's all up here you know, keep your mind on your job 😃 ". regards from the 'old' irrigator333.

I have noticed this too. I love anal play and when I insert a toy like one of my prostate vibrators, my hard-on will decline. I don't mind because I really like to feel all the anal sensations and I can do this for as long as I want and not cum. But after enjoying the prostate stimulation and really getting myself ready to cum I am still on the soft side with my cock. I slowly but surely do get hard again but not always. I can still have a huge orgasm and not be fully erect which is my main goal anyway.

If have watched any gay porn, even young guys who are being fucked in the ass and enjoying it most often don't have erections. So even though anal stimulation is a sexual turn-on strangely it doesn't always translate to an erection. But don't fret, the orgasms are huge hard or soft.

When I was younger and my girlfriend would fuck me up the ass with a strapon, the same thing would happen.

So we had to adjust our game a bit and be sure that me getting fucked was the last item on the menu because I couldn't get hard afterwards.

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I can sympathize with quincy . It happened to me because of prostate surgery. I love the time I spend with my anal toys and love all the feelings I have and get with them.

The only time I can achieve an erection now is in the shower with a lot of soap on my penis and hands.

Thanks for the feed back guy's. At least now I know that I'm not the only one. I'm new at this type of communication so excuse me if I get to graphic. I'm not that educated in writings of this type. In just an old electrician retired with alot of time on my hands.

Just practice anal stimulation some more.... you'll get so good at it you won't bother with penile stimulation any more, anal is that much better. Of course penis still feels good and a good fuck is always welcome, but it is an whole league down.

What a complex problem... like most of you, I get extremely turned on at the anticipation of anal play, and a hard-on is not a problem. Then, as I slide down onto a plug of substantial size, there is a temporary increase in the quality and size of my erection, and then without more stimulation, it tends to subside... not disappear. Small plugs do nothing anymore, and extreme anal stretching certainly renders me limp, but full. When we are into extreme play, stretching and fisting or riding a giant challenger toy, it's all about the stretch and orgasms cum regardless of what state my cock is in, although usually it is swollen but not fuckable. I have found that ED meds help to overcome the issues, and lets us both enjoy a good romp in that in-between place...

With my standard butt plug, I get sufficient anal stimulation to greatly enhance any other erotic play we are enjoying, and with just a little encouragement, and a cock ring or two, stimulation quickly results in a rock hard cock with a butt plug firmly and deeply planted inside! It took a while and some great times experimenting until we found the right combination of depth and circumference for this plug. But it is worth the effort. I will say though that when we fuck and I cum with the plug inside my ass... it causes me to have a retrograde ejaculation, which means most of my semen shoots back up into my bladder instead of pumping out of my cock. That's because the toy is wide enough to really apply some pressure on my prostate. Next pee afterwards and out pours my cum! Not harmful, just not as explosive and impressive!

My advice, take your time, get comfortable with a flaccid cock orgasm because it's all part of the game, and find the right size plug that gets your motor running but allows for your cock to go along for a nice hard ride! And get cock rings... the great equalizers!

I almost always get limp after putting something in my ass. I think it has a lot to do with age (62) and the fact that it feels so good that you forget about your dick and concentrate on how good your ass feels

Im 67 with bad ED and am pretty much the opposite at least when I was still getting good erections. As soon as the plug or nozzle would enter my rectum, I'd get a solid erection that would be stimulated by the rectal stimulation of the plug as long as it was there. It would not go down unless I removed the plug or orgasmed. Now I rarely get erections, but the plugs still give me great rectal stimulation to the point where I can still usually orgasm even without being much erect. Same with enemas. Thank the Lord for small favors.

Eric

I get the same. As morethrott said, get used to and enjoy a flaccid orgasm!

For reasons I don't know, once I began using balloon retention nozzles, I could no longer stay erect.... I was about 45 at the time, so it wasn't an age thing... Something about being plugged put the kibosh on my erection, and oddly it spread beyond that to then when anything entered me anally. Though limp, it did not lessen my pleasure, so that did not bother me if I was solos, but when others were involved, I could tell they were disappointed by my going limp.

Yes, most definitely! When I play anally, especially with larger toys, I'm flaccid. But I have noticed that it is mostly with the larger toys. For me there is a threshold with the size of the toys where the stimulation is so much more intense with the prostate and the stretch that the focus shifts there only. Even if I'm still stroking, pulling or tugging on my cock. With some the smaller toys, the stretch is eliminated and I do get hard.

I'm the same when I was younger I used to get rock hard when I fucked myself. But now now I'm just limp especially when using large dildos or plugs .I might start of with a semi but the larger the plug the smaller and limper I get .But after about half an hour after finishing fucking myself or been plugged I usually get rock hard of course always ending in me eating my creamy cum

I usually go soft or stay soft while plugged, getting pegged or fisted. My Domme will usually cage my cock anyway, so...

I’ll take ED meds if she wants me inside her.

I don’t use plugs for an extended period of time and regrettably, can’t take the big ones despite my desire for anal stimulation. I will say that the anticipation, preparation for, and physical introduction of a object into my rectum produces a nice erection. Without stimulation of my penis after some period of time, my erection will fade. Thankfully, prostatic fluid will flow somewhat freely despite the loss of my erection. With stimulation of my penis, my erection will return. This occurs regardless of the object in my rectum. It can be an Aneros product directly stimulating my prostate or a finger thrusting in and out of rectum with rhythmic stimulation of my prostate and an amazing erection will disappear until additional stimulation is applied.

Funnily enough when I am focusing on my anal insertions I often go soft despite being aroused.

I also loose my erection after inserting dildo, butt plug into ass, except one finger.

I think the body has two modes giving and receiving so when you are receiving something anally it switches off the erection because you are not giving and it prepares you to receive anal sex

As I grew older, past middle 40's, I would lose my erection whenever anything was placed up my butt. Something psychological having to do with being submissive is my best guest.

It happens to me as well, it got nothing to do with age, I'm 23 and as soon as I start stretching with really big plugs my penis goes soft, but not because I'm not horny, it's probably in my case from the strong pressure from the inside in the prostate, which makes me drip cum permanently but takes away the erection.

As soon as I take the Plug out I get hard again, with small plugs it doesn't happen. So like I said I'm guessing the internal pressure in the prostate and bladder are making it soft.