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First post

I have seen several posts of couples that enjoy some form of medical play. Many experiences have already made it to this forum, however, as new people arrive, it may be interesting to share your experience in this thread, even though you might have posted about it in the past. May be explain something about your first experiences together, where you play, frequency, intensity, type of play, the evolution over time, and your current interests.

Our experience

After several relationships and a many casual encounters, about six years ago I met a young women, who I gradually introduced into medical play, which she seemed to enjoy. We played about twice a month for over a year, with increasing intensity, mainly with her in the patient role. She is a professional nurse, and has some natural interest in medical scenes. She allowed me to experiment all I wanted, and she enjoys the dedicated attention, sexual pleasure and the memories.

The intimacy of the medical play resulted in us joining together and we are a family since quite a while. The first few years of family life, taking care of our children, household, work, and even two and a half year of living separated due to a foreign assignment, put our ´hobby´ a bit in the fridge, apart from a few occasions. But recently we moved and live again in the same place, and we started to pick up where we left off.

In our apartment, we can lock the door to the living room, to prevent the children from accidentally entering during a session. I enjoy a good preparation of the scene, and our living room is very suitable to setup a ´neutral´ play space, without distractions of objects from our normal day to day life. It takes about an hour of reorganizing, but I really like this preparation time: it serves as a powerful foreplay. After play it is a bit annoying to have to put everything back into place, but that is rather quick, and after a good session I do not really complain...

In our play sessions, we enjoy bondage, genital play, anal insertion, electro stimulation, violet wand, clamps, vibrators, and photo sessions. During a session, she experiences several orgasms, and after a good intense play evening, we are both pretty exhausted, as it is both mentally and physically quite demanding.

I intend to publish on this forum some great pictures of one of our recent sessions.

Future developments

Besides intensifying our own experiments, I hope to find friends here locally, to join us in our play sessions. Where we live, (in Sao Paulo, Brazil), medical fetish is almost non-existing, at least, I found no evidence of the contrary. However, sex in general, threesomes or swinging etc, is quite easy to find, so we most likely will be able to find some more interesting partners or couples to join us. We already experimented with this in the past, but just related to ´vanilla´ sex.

I will write about any progress in this direction on a future occasion.

I look forward to read from your experience or any comment on ours! Thanks for sharing and keeping this forum alive!

MSc.Toucher

Othomas34

It took a little to get her into it but now she loves it! She enjoys being able to tell me what to do and eventually the exam leads to her fucking me with a strapon

ClarkisFierce

My current partner just had a doctor coat embroidered for me!! She is really into medfet too and is also choosing more tools to buy for us!

SubPatient4u

Me and my partner explore our medical naughty role plays often. She wears the white coat and has all the medical accoutrements. We have indulged in both our common fantasy situations, hers and mine. It’s wonderful to have a partner who can actively participate and cultivate all the scenarios we both love without fear or judgement. She understand my medical fetish and believes it’s healthy to explore it when the need arises and me hers.

Kiri

My husband and I are like a lot of replies here. We are involved in role play and different fetishes and kinks. Medical play is a new thing for us but it’s been fun to explore so far

RealDr4Play

Would be great meeting a couple in real who like fun like this. Examining the wife/having fun while husband is in same room..

Bad Princess

@Rigel

So the hard boiled eggs have shells on them when inserted?? How many people are at these parties and does anyone else get to perform?

I have not visited this topic for a while. Yes the shells stay on. It makes them easier to insert. Unless you're using a tube peeled eggs mosh going in and usually mosh coming out. there are usually six or more people at our parties. Performing tricks is part of the fun. Everyone usually has something to show off. My "Doing the chicken" is a popular request.

MissStress

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MissStress

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Yes the shells stay on. It makes them easier to insert.

I would think that leaving the shells on could be a bit harsh on the internal colon lining. The shell can be scratchy if they crack while inserting or inside. Thus causing the need for possible medical attention.

Shygirl17

Hubby and I are very fortunate to have each other. I can say with absolute surety, had it not been for his straightforwardness about his fetishism, it could not have worked. He's very open and forthright about his convictions and I love that about him. I'm sorry to hear of some of the stories where people are not able to open up to their other half about what makes them tick. Anthony and I have our moments but I'd say over the six years we've been married, we've just learned to be open with one another, especially me. I did not come from an open and communicative family so I was pleasantly surprised at how he was. It was a relief, honestly, and I believe communication is what helps keep us together and continues to reaffirm our commitment and love to one another.

With that said, I was not always open to my husband's RT fetish and his voyeuristic and exhibitionist tendencies. In fact, I was very much closed off to it mentally but being that I have a submissive side to me, and, how I most certainly wanted to make him happy, I indulged him. Over time, I've become more acclimated and found out, it is rather exciting to be shown off and to role play. If anything, I believe it's only further enhanced our marriage. It certainly makes our sex life quite exciting. Given the current state of affairs in our world, it most certainly gives us a reprieve from the onslaught of stressors we face on a weekly basis.

I'm excited now to continue on this journey of allowing myself to have fun. For too long, I had mental blocks ingrained me one or another from my past, that kept me from enjoying sex and the innate desires stirring up within me. I'm also thankful to Hubby from not giving up on me and being persistent because I know that he knew I'd enjoy myself during our play exams and role play.

chelle300

While I'm not married or have a bf my play partner & I have come a long way since I first met him. I trust him completely & he treats me with respect we have a great time playing with each other. He gives my a$$ the attention it needs & I do the same for him🍑🍆😈🌡💦👅👋

Temptime98 6

While I'm not married or have a bf my play partner & I have come a long way since I first met him. I trust him completely & he treats me with respect we have a great time playing with each other. He gives my a$$ the attention it needs & I do the same for him🍑🍆😈🌡💦👅👋

It's all about trust and respect. Once that has been established, it just makes the play all that much better.

Jumper1949

Shygirl17 I most admire you for your being able to open up to your husband. I was married to a gal for 13 years that never did we did have a son and daughter in that time

. She never gave of herself freely I encourage any couple to let your hair down and go with the flow