Couples enjoying medical play: share your experience!

I have seen several posts of couples that enjoy some form of medical play. Many experiences have already made it to this forum, however, as new people arrive, it may be interesting to share your experience in this thread, even though you might have posted about it in the past. May be explain something about your first experiences together, where you play, frequency, intensity, type of play, the evolution over time, and your current interests.

Our experience

After several relationships and a many casual encounters, about six years ago I met a young women, who I gradually introduced into medical play, which she seemed to enjoy. We played about twice a month for over a year, with increasing intensity, mainly with her in the patient role. She is a professional nurse, and has some natural interest in medical scenes. She allowed me to experiment all I wanted, and she enjoys the dedicated attention, sexual pleasure and the memories.

The intimacy of the medical play resulted in us joining together and we are a family since quite a while. The first few years of family life, taking care of our children, household, work, and even two and a half year of living separated due to a foreign assignment, put our ´hobby´ a bit in the fridge, apart from a few occasions. But recently we moved and live again in the same place, and we started to pick up where we left off.

In our apartment, we can lock the door to the living room, to prevent the children from accidentally entering during a session. I enjoy a good preparation of the scene, and our living room is very suitable to setup a ´neutral´ play space, without distractions of objects from our normal day to day life. It takes about an hour of reorganizing, but I really like this preparation time: it serves as a powerful foreplay. After play it is a bit annoying to have to put everything back into place, but that is rather quick, and after a good session I do not really complain...

In our play sessions, we enjoy bondage, genital play, anal insertion, electro stimulation, violet wand, clamps, vibrators, and photo sessions. During a session, she experiences several orgasms, and after a good intense play evening, we are both pretty exhausted, as it is both mentally and physically quite demanding.

I intend to publish on this forum some great pictures of one of our recent sessions.

Future developments

Besides intensifying our own experiments, I hope to find friends here locally, to join us in our play sessions. Where we live, (in Sao Paulo, Brazil), medical fetish is almost non-existing, at least, I found no evidence of the contrary. However, sex in general, threesomes or swinging etc, is quite easy to find, so we most likely will be able to find some more interesting partners or couples to join us. We already experimented with this in the past, but just related to ´vanilla´ sex.

I will write about any progress in this direction on a future occasion.

I look forward to read from your experience or any comment on ours! Thanks for sharing and keeping this forum alive!

MSc.Toucher

Nice post! As for me, I've been in a relationship with my current partner for 3 years. I've had my fetish for a very long time and have played with others in the past. My ex wife was decidedly not into it. My current delightful love most decidedly IS into it and has been for a long time. I'm the first person (aside from play as a kid) she's acted on it with. Our go to scenes usually involve her as a volunteer in a study or test that goes out of control. Starting out as a straight exam and then getting increasingly sexual incorporating BDSM and NC fantasies. She also looks fantastic in a nurse's whites.

Thanks for posting your situation, Dr Phillips. What I like and admire is that, although you seem to fulfill your medfet fantasies with your current partner, you share this fact with us! Also, you are posting original real pictures, which can be a source of imagination and inspiration.

Your gameplay is very similar to ours, as usually it also starts simple, and slowly grows into more heavy play. Although I am myself usually not stimulated physically during such a session, the excitement is such that it feels afterwards that I was forced through a series of orgasms myself as well.

My fetish originates from my first explorations, going back to very early memories, of the age of four, and the desire and fantasies have always stayed with me. And it took me a long time as an adult to learn that it is possible to create the situations of my fantasies and share them in real play with a partner, and both enjoying it intensely.

It shows that sometimes you only encounter what you really desire later in your life, and not necessarily with your first serious relationship(s). My current is now very fulfilling and I hope that we can keep enjoying this, finding variation and obviously more intense and strong ways to explore. With my partner, I believe I have still a lot of things to explore further. Probably we will be inverting roles at a certain point in time as a variation, Keep an eye on my gallery postings as well, I will be sharing more of our play sessions, in medfet/personal pictures.

One of the things I am curious to know: do you play yourselves in a session, or do you take an imaginary role of different persons? This is a question for other couples as well...

Mine goes back as far as I can remember as well. When we role play we're usually someone else. She'll make up a name and I'm just Doctor. We do other BDSM theme roleplays; pirate, slave market but medical themed ones are our favorite.

Sounds exciting! We also enjoy other fantasies, with medical or laboratory settings as my favorites.

My girlfriend and I are both timid tops, so it took patience to get her to play doctor with me. But, when she did put on scrubs and play along, I think she got a kick out of it. We plodded through the exam with bad acting and a lot more kissing than at a real doctor's office (which I very much enjoyed). She really liked my reaction to prostate stimulation and loved "taking a sample." I don't know if I'll get to be doctor, but we'll definitely play like this again.

My current GF is very open.. She's had more exams and more done to her at my hand than all of her gyno exams combined...

I currently operate in an environment that isn't open to the idea of introducing anything past the realm of pure fantasy. The idea of clinical crosses the line in her head.

I have tried it with b/f's but seeing that I have been having sex with them it loses the thrill and intimacy of striping in front of and being touched by a stranger

Susie,

I believe that the thrill of a medfet experience comes from the lack of control on the patient's behalf and the perceived indifference of the examiner. While nudity and touching of intimate areas are common to both sex and an exam, the two couldn't be further apart psychologically. You become emotionally and sexually connected to your partner during sex, whereas a doctor's touch is cold and emotionally disconnected. Perhaps we get off on the fact that someone is touching our most intimate of areas and giving no response?

Sensei1980

My husband and I met on this site so we both are very into medfet in a simulated surgical scenario with anesthetic equipment but no gas. We have been playing together since we first met in person July 3 years ago. At first it was only in his bedroom of a shared apartment space with only a few masks and gloves to start with then it evolved and we bought a few sets of scrubs and now we have our "clinic" . We have a second bedroom now at our current residence that we have turned into our "clinic" and we play in there as often as time allows. In our "clinic" we have a massage table as our OR table and exam table, a closet with a few pairs of scrubs and patient gowns typical medical equipment in our cupboards and a handful of different mask styles and we can't forget those lovely caps, surgeons masks, and lovely rubber gloves!. Even if we can't play in the clinic we at least do a mock "gassing" every night before bed to help us wind down and relax. Lots of rubber gloved touching and I have even done a bit of costume play even in the bedroom on occasion before bed if the mood strikes. I feel very fortunate that we meet each others needs so well.

It's a hard subject to bring up to your current partner..... "I would like to give you a medical exam" :/

I guess meeting others is also dictated by location, location location as well as other factors

I guess meeting others for medical play is dependant on many factors but location is one of the most impertnnt ..

I mean...he doesn't get aroused by it in the same way I do, but he has become a willing participant. He even told me last night to buy a speculum! So I did. It's supposed to be here by Friday...will update with how everything goes...we are both nervous as hell, but I'm also super excited that he suggested this next step. Wish us luck!

I'm interested to hear how Beestreet's experience went with the new speculum...?

I have always been in to the medfet scene and the fetish of medical play. My current partner is VERY much into Gyn play and examination but wasn't always so. I come from an extensive medical background so I've always known my way around. We were introduced at a conference many years ago and never really connected. However, about 6 or 7 years ago now we met at the same conference and got to talking. We spoke about our jobs and our interests. Strangely enough there was some key words she used in our conversation that made me curious. Again, being in the medical field you have a lot of odd conversations! Well, as luck would have it we started talking about things we enjoyed and things we thought were great about the job and things not so great. And yeah, we hooked up and the rest as they say is history. We both enjoy the medical fetish aspect of our lives and it really brings us together.

Nice to see that somehow this post got revived, thanks to some recent posts by Dr Pressure, Doc Holiday and beestreet.

When I read my own original post, things have evolved for myself over time. We moved to another country, and have now a cellar where I have one room which we use as a play clinic/room. It is cellar like, therefore, a bit different atmosphere, but I like it.

We do not play that often, but when we play it is intense. We still switch, but not during one session.

My partner does not really have the fetish part of it, but she enjoys the play aspect, the intimacy and the sexual pleasure.

If it counts as being a couple, my girlfriend and I in adolescence often played doctor. The favourite part for both of us was buttock injections realistically simulated with sterile pins - getting as well as giving them.

I got into the medfet seen about 3&1/2 years or so ago. My partner and I are in the medical field and we met during a late evening during the 4th of July. We in the medical field don't get time off for holidays so we were both working a 24 hour shift and getting triple time for it! I wasn't into med fet at all, however, SHE was. We had a broken ultrasound machine and we were down a hallway and a room that no one really goes into unless you are being taken via ambulance to another hospital or you are taking in USPS packages.

Being a nurse she was a bit curious as to why the machine wasn't working and why this very expensive machine was sitting here in a hallway where it could get stolen. So, she and I both pushed it into an empty Intake room. We switched it on and booted up the Doppler. She wanted to try it out on herself so the first thing we took a look at was her heart. I'm not a tech but she had some experience with ultrasound and walked me through it. Long story short....she wanted me to take a look at her abdomen and other parts. Hehe...we just kinda fell into it all. We've been together ever since.

So, I have no idea of whether I am posting this in the proper forum, if not, please excuse me......

About a month ago, I developed what I thought was a bladder infection.... you know, peeing constantly, burning, etc., etc. Well a round of antibiotics and a clean urinalysis said I was cured - but I didn't feel cured. So off to the urologist who after performing a rectal/prostate exam decided it was prostatitis.

So now, a month later, I feel better and am scheduled for a return visit to the urologist on Monday, and my wife want's to be there for the examination because she has questions....... and she probably does - she always asks me things when I return from a doctor that I did not think off to ask, so it might be good to allow her to ask her questions......

But, she will be there in the room when the inevitable rectal/prostate exam takes place, and that makes me feel embarrassed, but I'm also finding myself slightly excited as well....... excited that she'll see me that way..... new feelings for me..... whew.

This is a neat post I haven’t seen before. My current husband is the first (adult) I’ve ‘played doctor’ with. This is second time around for both of us, both had vanilla first marriages. We’ve been together for over 10 years now. The wonderful thing about this relationship is the level of honesty and communication we’ve had right from the very beginning. I think it was a mix of fundamental compatibility along with strong desire not to make the same mistakes we had both made first time around. We were talking about possible role-play subjects we could play out. We had already played Slave Market a few times and enjoyed that and he asked what about a doctor who has to examine the slave before she’s sold? That got us talking further and we found out we were both seriously into the whole mad scientist thing and branched off from there.

We’ve a few favorite scenarios including (my) being used in a government experiment to be impregnated by an alien (or monster as the case may be), my being the subject of illegal drug testing that is designed to boost the libido of women, and my just being drugged by an unscrupulous doctor and abused. My personal favorite set-up for the latter is I’m on vacation at a spa in some tiny foreign country someplace and given an injection – ostensibly a vitamin shot or something to cure some made-up infection – that renders me incapable of resisting whatever happens next. Usually twisted medical experiments that, once the data has been gathered, culminate in the doctor’s using my body to relieve his ‘tension’.

We’ve a few favorite scenarios including (my) being used in a government experiment to be impregnated by an alien’.

Do you choose names for yourselves in these scenarios? I mean, I can certainly see you being called Dana Scully in this case ... he he

@agracier I love it! No I was never Agent Scully. Usually a made up first name like Mary or Sue or something. Sometimes a number like Subject 214. I like that, the dehumanizing aspect in that situation does it for me. We’ve both got a theater background (it’s how we met) so we kind of get into it. He’ll often do accents (he does Germanic or Slavic really well. My family is Polish and I swear he sounds like my Uncle Stash sometimes which is kinda creepy haha).

Does this include the chicken game ? This involves my ass hole being spread open with a spreader then having hard boiled eggs and soap suds pushed in. Count those eggs!! After the spreader comes out and glycerin water and cyan pepper Enema is given and held for 15 squirming minutes then I squat and make the chicken noises and lay the eggs. Every body count the eggs!

It is an OK trick and sort of fun at parties. The eggs burn coming out so red face and SQUA SQUA!!!

It invokes medical equipment but is not rely medical I suppose. What about vacuum nipple stretching?

.......then I squat and make the chicken noises and lay the eggs. Every body count the eggs!

Makes for a great visual as well as an audio! Do you flap your arms like chicken wings??? 😄

Do you flap your arms like chicken wings???

Of course everything flaps! Try pooping out egg sticky and covered in Cyan pepper from an ass hole that is already stretched and burning.

I have to stay on my toes on the wet slippery plastic while doing this too. If I get off my toes or fall over I have to peel and eat a pooped out egg in front of everybody. BLACH! Master tries very hard to make this happen.

If I get off my toes or fall over I have to peel and eat a pooped out egg infront of everybody. BLACH!

So the hard boiled eggs have shells on them when inserted?? How many people are at these parties and does anyone else get to perform? It would be fun to watch! 😄

It all begins with an open discussion with your partner. They have to feel safe and secure and must understand your fetish 100%. Then you take it step by step and you go slow.

I've been lucky enough to play with both my two ex girlfriends and my current partner. In each case, I brought my kink up early and tried to seek people who seemed sexually-oriented (though I didn't meet anyone through a particular bdsm or kink dating site). I always started by stating my glove kink, then moving more towards full medical play.

My current girlfriend and I play with gloves once or twice a week and do a full med roleplay once a month or so. I'm always the patient. She puts on a pair of nice-fitting scrubs and gathers her other supplies, then slowly gives me a physical exam that gets steadily more sexual as it goes along. I think that I would enjoy medical play more often and slightly less explicitly sexual medical play, but I won't complain with her willingness to indulge me. She enjoys taking my BP, occasional rectal temp, using the steth, giving genital and rectal exams, but she shies away from the anal scope that a girl I dated a few years back was happy to insert. I've also never found anyone willing to give me an enema.

In short, I don't think it's too hard to get someone to indulge your kinks to a point, but it can be very difficult to find someone who fully gets it.