Getting Started

I will be getting married soon. My fiance has expressed an interest in diapers (I have a huge fetish). Does anyone have any suggestions on how we could get started once we're married?

Get started now, don't wait until after you are married. The sooner the better.

Mashie

I agree, get started now. Take it slow, and experiment a bit at a time. Probably best to talk about it first, and then start experimenting. It took me a long time to broach the topic with my then GF, but it was worth all the worrying I did to get it out in the open.

Why wait? But I guess it would be wise to talk things through before you get things started...Equal understanding and agreement is vital before you go on with the goodies.

Why wait talk to her now.i told my wife 2 yrs before marriage.she said no problem.she washed my diapers and hung them on my clotheline to dry and took care of me,i was in heaven.

You are in a very lucky position if your future wife is showing an interest. Take it slow and enjoy is my advice.

Take it slow and enjoy every minuet of it, i told my wife 2 years before we got married and its been 4 years now and she still shows no interest in diapers. Lucky guy!

I told my wife the third time we went out together. I knew by then she was someone I wanted to be with and the only way that could happen was to tell her I wear diapers and rubber pants, wet myself for pleasure, and that its a fetish for me. Of course you don't say tell it all in one or two sentences, instead plan on discussing the topic for days or weeks, but you must be honest with her and yourself. If anything it was harder for me than it was for her. I was brutally honest about how long I had been wearing diapers, how long I had hid it from everyone, why it was so important to me. We started with me wearing diapers when we went out together and when I took her home with me, she let me show her how I looked just in my diapers and rubber pants even though by then I was very wet. Gradually she became more involved, would unpin my diapers and help me clean myself before going to bed and having sex. When she started staying the night, I wore diapers to bed with her once we had sex, getting up the next morning in wet diapers. For us the biggest hurdle to moving in together was her daughter. Eventually she decided to tell her I wore diapers for protection.

My girl and I have talked about it before, more of a curiosity at first…then started to explore a bit. Truthfully, they only get worn during ‘sad’ days when we realize the other needs comfort, like a taste of ‘little space’. But she also just got birth control removed, started to have regular periods again and she apparently prefers diapers over tampons or pads.