Eroticism after prostate removal

I have had a radical prostatectomy ( removal of my prostate ) to remove a tumor.This was done 8 years ago and I am fine healthwise. However, I can no longer ejaculate.The sexual drive is still there,though. Is there anyone there with a similar situation. If so how do you satisfy those desires?

Any man who has had their prostate removed will lose the ability to ejaculate since it is the prostate the produces the bulk of the fluid in the ejaculate. However, ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things, and both are separate from an erection. You can have an erection without orgasm, an orgasm without erection, and an orgasm without ejaculation. The key is the nerves that control erection and orgasm, which are not the same. If your erectile nerves were not damaged or removed during the surgery you should still be able to have an erection (the quality depends on the shape of your nerves and many other factors, not necessarily related to the surgery). Its unlikely that the nerves that control orgasm were effected, so you should still be able to achieve orgasms even without an erection. If you are having erection problems, there are lots of options for help. Go see a urologist or a clinic that specializes in ED. Hope this helps.

I had Nerve Sparing Surgery to remove my prostate 6 years ago.

I can only get a half to 3/4 erection unless I use Viagra which works well.

I did lose a good 1-1/2 inches off the legnth of my penis. Actually it is due to the urethra being shortened when the prostate is removed and the urethra is sewn back together.

I am able to orgasm with masturbation and using a vibrator. There is no ejaculate after the prostate is removed. This should have all been explained to you before the surgery.

Prion to surgery the nurse practitioner was going over this with me and my wife. I noted that we would not have to worry about the "Wet Spot" on the sheets anymore>

I can certainly empathize with all on this topic. I was diagnosed in October 2006, with a particularly agressive form of Prostate cancer. The options were laid out to me. Radiation treatment, Thera seeds, and radical surgery. I chose the latter, as giving me the best hope of not spreading the cancer. That part has been very successful so far.

I've pretty much been unable to achieve an erection since. I've tried both Viagara, and Cialis. I can have an orgasm with intense touching. Walt

Years ago my wife and I bought a vibrator set that consisted of the vibrator part and different attachments. One of the attachments is cup shaped with a little nub inside.

When the the cup is placed over the penis the nub sits fits below and on the underside of the penis, the most sensitive part.

This vibrator is able to gibe me a great orgasm even if I am completely soft.

I consider myself very lucky that Viagra etc works for me. Even so the prostate cancer has had detrimental effects on our sex life.

I am in my 60s was diagnosed with prostate cancer in jan. had an operation in june for brachytherapy. my penis has shrunk and I have ed. I still haave desires and can masturbate but with difficuly if I do it vigorously. I can sometimes finger and if I have an orgasm I feel as though I am going to explode. I am interested in prostate orgasm. it that healthy

Am near 70 and still enjoying masturbation, even after prostate surgery. Had TURP followed by external radiation treatments but found that good erections were achievable with patience and good stimulation. It usually takes about 30 minutes to get where I want to be, but the climax can be really mind blowing. No ejaculation of course, but the waves of release pleasure are much more intense than anything I experienced before surgery (except for sex with my wife....). I rationalize that masturbation is good therapy for blood circulation otherwise referred to as use it or lose it!