How to tell your wife you want to give her a medical exam

I have no clue how to even bring it up with my girlfriend

My wife has no interest gets embarrassed anytime it comes up

Tell her you want to"look at her" spread her legs,lips,lick her a bit.She will enjoy bwing watched. Rub her clit and make it hard first, then start to examine

Easier said than done. in many marriages i believe that kind of dialogue just IS NOT going to take place...and yet each partner may be capable of having the MOST intimate sort of dialogue with a different partner. its not simple and the key is to find a like minded person with whom one has good vibrations...otherwise it just cant be legislated...i have no desire to say something like....roll over or spread your legs....etc....to some potential partners....and yet, i cant catch my breath thinking of having that convo with certain other women....go figure, eh

Yeah, the easiest and best way is just start. Don’t announce, don’t ask, don’t tell. Just do it.

Just do it. I did this. My gf daughter had fever during covid-19 so when I met my gf I bought thermometer with me. I told her I wanted to take her temperature for safety. I then told her it was not being done under her arm as she expected. I removed her jeans, battled her a little and put her over my knee. I inserted the thermometer...she went ouch.....then relaxed....always remember 37.7. She then let me do it again later and best of all she did me!!!!. She is now converted and loves it when I tease her ass with the thermometer for ages before inserting it. Morale of the story ask for forgiveness not permission!

I will start with a movie or better yet a 'focused' clip, not porn, to show her my interest. Dont think your lady is stupid, she know what you want.

@pug ,

"Dont think your lady is stupid, she know what you want."

Unfortunately my wife knows what she don't want! 😂😂😂

Best way to begin is to assume the role of the Doctor, perhaps write a MedFet story that is centred around her as the character in the roleplay story.

My SO has made very clear she doesn't want any medical play. That said, she knows I like medical play... from time to time, sex after her exams is pretty incredible.

My wife has high blood pressure so it was a natural progression for me to check her heart and lungs. I can now give her a rather through physical without her objecting. We usually have sex after these examinations and it is very intense. Its easy for me to see the connection between medical examinations and sexual arousal. I made several videos of her being examined starting with her getting undressed. I usually watch one or two of them a day before I actually examine her. This lets the excitement and arousal to build. I plan to use a Tycos hook cuff aneroid pressure cuff on her. A little bonus I receive is that her Korotkoff Sounds start out with a thump, then a tapping, swishing sound and finally the muffling. Her last pressure reading on the left arm was 144/82mmHg. Pulse 78. I always check the blood pressure in both arms and have also measured it in her left ankle as part of the brachial/ankle index. There was a slight smile on her face as I pumped up the cuff on her ankle.

My reply is geared towards @sayaah.

While I am formally trained, my husband is not and has absolutely no interest in medfet. We have the exact opposite issue here, I have hypotension and trend my values at the request of my OB. I'd absolutely love it if he took over and did what you do with your wife.

How did you convince her to let you go further than merely blood pressure? Was she automatically on board with it?

My husband was naturally dominant and asked me to tell him what my fantasies were. I told him I think about medical exams and he was on board from day one. I told him gently rather than unleashing the whole of my depraved mind in one go so it never shocked him.

Your husband was a lucky man @Patientlywaiting