Collars and leashes

I absolutely LOVE collars and leashes. I think its so kinky. Not only does it make me feel like I am owned, but it also makes me feel very under control. I'm a wild one. XD Being restrained is something I love. And I LOVE to fight, too. Mostly to receive the punishment that I will get.

For the first time I was put in a collar by my Domme. It was such an amazing turn on. More than I actually thought it would be. I'm not sure if it was the sound of the lock closing or the feel of it on my neck that turned me on more. But it was a great experience.

Wearing a collar during BDSM training, punishments or sex is a good idea as it signals and helps you to accept your submissive status during the process. When you take it off again, you become your normal person again. It helps you differentiate between the domme spanking you (or whatever) and the lover you cuddle up to that night. It stops you resenting them for hurting you. You should always put your collar on yourself to signal you're volunteering for whatever comes next, and your domme should remove it to release you once again.

Hmm. collar is a bit too hard about my thoughts i prefere to think about some light rope,..maybe dark silk

You might like an adjustable leather collar.

We have them in soft deerskin lined leather with ample D rings for attachments. Yumm!

I love collars and leashes, its like handing over the control to your partner, such a lovely feeling of being owned!

My collar always signifies my surrender of control and gives a constant visual reminder. my favorite thing is to have my hands locked to it in a prayer fashion it makes it almost impossible to function without help from my sub.