Finding the Prostate

The goal was to find the prostate. I thought at one time I found it but I wasn't entirely sure. There was some sensitivity but nothing like what I have heard about at all. Are there special techniques or positions if I am just using a hand?

Manster; try this: Sit down and recline slightly; lube up the middle finger of either hand and insert into your rectum. bend the tip of you finger up toward your penis & scrotum-push up into the wall of your rectum and you should feel a deep urge to urinate if your pushing on the prostate gland.

I'll give that a go. Thanks for the reply, I'll report back on the progress.

I have only performed a prostate massage on one guy in my life. It was in the company of a hooker friend of mine and she arranged the activity through mutual request. I used a thin medical examination glove and lots of KY. It was very interesting. I was gentle, not like a physician would go at it. The Dr. is looking for lumps or major irregularities. I had him get on his hands and knees with his knees to his chest.

This guy was 50. His gland had an almost rubbery texture, yet soft, and the left lobe was larger than the right lobe. It was easier to detect the prostate than I thought it would be. I did reach his bladder which had a much denser feel, very stiff feeling. I backed off of that and very lightly stroked across the prostate and asked him how it felt. He said: "Feels great."

I didn't stay long in his rectum, but slide out and made a smart ass remark to my lady friend. "he's good and primed". There was a little laughter. But she had him stretch out on his back and there was some pre-cum noticeable. She sucked him off. It took no time at all before he had the telltale shivers and moans.

Don't get discouraged. Apparently prostate size, like your mileage, may vary. I'm in my late 60s and my doctor says my prostate is the size of a 25-year old; it has never become enlarged, thank goodness. I've tried Watertrain's method (above) and can just barely reach it. I much prefer to be on my hands and knees or leaning over a table with someone behind me doing the probing. Gosh, makes me horny just thinking about it.

I find that MD's doing a prostate exam will try to complete it within 30 seconds, particularly male MD's. It's like they are just confirming that it, my gland, exists. The position is knees on the step and bent over the exam table. However, it had the distinct pleasure of being examined by a female Nurse Practitioner, who, 1. Admitted that she rarely had the opportunity to examine men; and 2. Said that "we'll take our time". She had me lay on my left side knee up, and because she had small hands used Two fingers, and she spent a long time learning about me from the inside. At the end I was fairly excited, I think she was not surprised at that, we were both were pleased that we had done it that way.

Maybe the best way is with a tool designed for that place; like an Aneros or one of the many similar products. Enema first to get the sludge out of the way, rest a few minutes to dry out a bit, then lube yourself and the tool and while on your back legs wide and up push it home. The Aneros has a partial loop, this will be curving up and out between your cheeks, this is the part that you can steer with your fingers, for contact and massage action. I take the sash from a terry cloth robe and loop it under the hook and tie the sash around my waist. The result is that the business end of the Aneros is driven into my prostate no matter what I do; so over the course of the morning I get frequent breathtaking reminders of just where my prostate is and the pleasure of contact with it.

I have read a lot of info here at this site and others about the male prostate but, I cant say that I have ever felt what it is loke to have my prostate stimulated. I have tried with various toys and such but how do I know for sure when I have found it? What sensations shoild I feel? In the past when trying some solo play I have had a sensation that I can only describe as having to pee after inserting a glass toy. The sensation did not eminate from my bladder but felt more like it was coming from the base of my penis. The feeling was ok but not the amazing feeling every one says it should be.

How do I know for sure if I have hit the right spot?

You hit the right spot.

Not everybody feels the same about it. It's just like the G-Spot in women. Some women think it's a big deal, others do not.

I will admit to playing with my prostate, only thing is , i find it difficult to reach my own, dont feel the walnut sized lump others say is there, but if i orgasm with something up me the sensations are totally different that an ordinairy one, for a start, my anus pulses a hell of a lot more and i feel the orgasm in my anal area a whole lot more, maybe an anal orgasm ?

Ive fingered a few mens bums and ive felt the lump up inside, so im well aware of where its situated.

Have never dribbled cum like some say happens when its rubbed, but have cum just by having a colon tube in there which must have touched just the right spot !

I have played with my prostate also. I can massage mine pretty good if I go up to the 2nd knuckle on my middle finger. I always have very strong orgasms when I do this. It feels amazing for me.

I first came across this when a prostitute did it to me in Hong Kong, and it was magic.

I have tried it on several other men, and the results were varied, but for me it is a very sensual experience and the orgasm surpass those I have during normal sex.

Yes I think you found it. If you ever have a rectal and prostate exam that for sure will tell you what it feels like but that may not necessarily feel erotic or pleasurable. If you use anal toys designed to hit the prostate that is your best bet to hit it. Reaching it with your own fingers might be hard to do. You may have to play with some toys and gain some experience to really have some erotic pleasure while stimulating it. Practice, practice practice and have fun doing it.

My doctor said during my last digital exam that "your prostate is very small." In addition to smallness, my gland is not very sensitive. The only way that I was able to find it and verify its position was to push against the rectal wall above my testicles while peeing: I felt a small rise or thickening, and I could start and stop the pee stream with finger pressure when the finger was over the prostate. Incidentally my doctor is female and the digital exam did not arouse me.

I had pretty much forgotten about my prostate, with regards to stimulation. It has always been a bit elusive. Years of declining sexual activity with my wife certainly did nothing to improve this. I just recently started to get more "engaged" in my own self pleasure, but even then - I was ignoring my anal erotic nature and just looking for a more pleasurable ways to get aroused and get off. Any anal play was usually brief and uninspired.

I was extremely anal erotic in my youth and early years of marriage - though there was always a element of shame and secrecy to it - so never fully explored. Lucky for me fate stepped in and cleared the fog. A month or so ago, i needed to use some fleet enemas to take care of some bloating and constipation. It was then that the idea of actual high enemas came to me. Upon taking my very first 2 quart bag - it was like the clouds parting and a bright light shining down - my prostate woke up!!!

Since then, I've been making special effort to make sure it is getting the attention it deserves. In doing so, I'm constantly learning more about it. It can be elusive to pinpoint for sure. I've never reached it with my fingers per se. But various toys seem to get the job done - some much better than others. Enemas also provide a lot of stimulation, but in a very different way. The thing about enemas is that they don't need to be directed at any specific spot. My prostate isn't always cooperative either - sometimes it plays hard to get and ignores my attempts the wring pleasure out of it. Other times, it is the one that comes knocking on my door when I least expect it - taunting my cock to come out and play.

If you can't find yours, or it doesn't create pleasure as you would like - all i can say is keep trying and try to be in tune with its peculiar nature.

I was aware of my prostate and it's location very early on in my sexual life, and how good I felt when I could manage to stimulate it, usually by using the slightly curved douche nozzle when I gave myself an enema. Then, of course, I would always try to stimulate the prostates of guys I connected with. Most of them responded very favorably...a few were stunned to discover how intense their orgasms could be when the prostate was directly massaged. In college I met the love of my life who was more sexually experienced than I was and was a fantastic top. But though he thoroughly enjoyed having his ass played with and being rimmed (and I always tried to get my tongue as far into him as I could, which wasn't much), he wouldn't allow me to penetrate his anus. He claimed it hurt. Yet he loved to enter me with his fingers and would massage my prostate until I thought I'd lose my mind. It took several years of patience on my part, but I eventually got him to the point where he accepted my finger(s) and when I first massaged his prostate, while I was masturbating him, he exploded. While our love-making was always fairly noisy, his grunt of pleasure at that moment was very loud indeed. He was hooked!

My father was going to a urologist in his latter years for his enlarged prostate. The Doctor believed in prostate "massage" and sat his patient on his lap sort of and came into them from underneath. He always got a significant discharge to come forth, but it was not pleasant, to say the least.