Why is the the thought of having a exam is so appealing?

OK what is it about the thought of haveing a exam is so appealing.

I'm going to be asked to stand naked in front of another (clothed) individual. He (or she) will be touching me all over (including in the most intimate of places); listening to my heart and lungs, probing each opening into my body (and probably inserting fingers, instruments, tongue depressors, Q-tips, and other paraphernalia into them); ordering me to move into uncomfortable positions in order to allow him a better view or clearer access; and ordering further tests or treatments to probe the mysteries inside of me (blood, urine, semen, who knows what else). The he will pronounce me fit or ill, and plan follow up visits accordingly. When we are done he will know as much or more about me as any person on the planet (while I will know little or nothing about him). What's not to anticipate in all of that?

For those of us blessed (or afflicted) with this kind of fetish interest, the anticipation of the surrender of control to another powerful human being; the titillation of the pseudo-sexual aspects of touching, probing, exploring; and the expectation of sensations (of pain and/or pleasure); the glory of being the center of attention and being revealed to another person in all our glory, warts and all; all of these lend the experience depths of meaning and excitement that compell us to repeat the experience over and over.

It is about power (and the lack of it) in a safe and controlled environment. It is about reliving positive and negative experiences of childhood and adolescence in a supportive and nurturing setting. It is about connecting with our fantasies and our urges, with the help of another. It is about creating memories and fulfilling dreams. It is about sharing. Only those who share the interest can fully understand how powerful and good it all is. And once again, I thank the sponsors of this website and all of you for creating such a forum for us to share our thoughts and reflections with one another on the subject. It is all good!

One of the feelings that drives my anticipation, is the remembrance of past examinations. A feeling that drives me wild is a another man is going to see only what my husband gets to see. A doctor is going to ask me to drop the top of my gown, and he is going to gaze on my nude breasts. My doctor is going to hold my breasts and feel them, and examine them, and I know I am going to get turned on. My doctor his going to have me put my feet in the stirrups, move my bottom to the edge of the table, and spread my legs. I am going to be totally exposed to him. My doctor is going to examinf my vagina, and put his finger in me, and feel all around. I will be contemplating the square root of Pi, to keep from embarrassing my self. It is these thoughts and memories of exams that drive my fetish, and cause my anticipation of my next exam.

The turn on for me is the thought that my wife is going into a room with a exam table adn the male doc is going to do pretty much what ever he thinks is needed for a exam, she will have to remove her clothes, sometimes all at once sometimes a few at a time. and I'm stuck in the waiting room dreeming about what is happening to her in the other room.

Its the feeling of not being in control, the doctor can do anything he wants, look anywhere, touch anything, it might be uncomfortable but you have to do as they say cus they are the professionals

I am submitting for the benefit of my health, the further knowledge of an individual practicing medicine, and the idea that I will not be able to do the same to them.

For me, a big part of the anticipation is waiting for the part when the doctor asks me to either lower or remove my underwear. Usually at the end of the exam, and the exam builds up to that part. Once my underwear is out of the way, its a question of how thorough the exam will be, will it be the full on testicle check, hernia check and foreskin retraction, and how I react to it!

I agree the lack of power is a huge turn on. A higher authority figure who cannot be disobeyed will be touching your most intimate parts. Some people like the lack of control and find it arousing, others get off on that immense amount of power.

Its that you are giving up control of the situation. You know that the doctor can do what he wants and you have to comply with what he says. And you know that he will touch you in all your private parts and you have no say in the matter

No only will the doctor see and touch everything you have. Your body may respond sexually, and the doctor will observe this, in a way that you may not even permit to your lover. The doctor is also free to ask any questions of the most personal and intimate nature - and you must respond with the truth, no matter how embarassing. Everything you have is exposed to another human being.

For me its the submission part of it- the loss of control. In real life, I love sex where someone (my boyfriend) takes control of me.I like the idea of HAVING to do it, and things being done to me that I "dont want."

😃 I get more exited contemplating my wife going to the exam than in the telling of the experience. She has asked me to take her and I have but I have not gone to the actual event. She has indicated that I could if I want. I am afraid that if I go I will kill the mystery and ruin the anxiety of thinking of what the doctor is doing and seeing. Am I alone in these feelings?

For me, it's the loss of control and the pure submission that is appealing. I guess I'm a somewhat uptight person, and in general, I like to know what is happening and why, and I like the fact that I can change the course of events. But at the doctor's, they are in control, not me, and I like not knowing what will take place. Also, just the general embarrassment. This person will see you nude, will touch you where others can't and will ask you personal embarrassing questions, and they have the power to do so without even a second glance.

It's the loss of control and the powerful images your mind creates of prior situations. You know (or think you know) what is about to happen and there is not much if anything you can do about it.

As others have already said, it's the total lack of control over the situation that makes it exciting. During the exam, you will be told what to do, how much to undress, where to stand, how to move, etc. You will expose every part of your body to a stranger and they will have total control over you. What's not to love.

For me, it is a combination of things. It is talking with the doctor about very personal things, remembering past experiences, and submitting to having pretty much a stranger view and prod places that are saved for those with whom we are intimate. It's not really a humiliation, but an exhilaration.

Since I am a male, I get woman doctors anymore, because I find it easier to talk to a woman doctor about very personal things than it is for me with a man. The women listen better I believe, and there is a non-condemning compassion that I get from them.

Still the anticipation really gets me going.....and the remembering after.

I can only speak for myself but,

Its literally the one time I have to give up all control to someone else.

To lay there, naked with legs spread, waiting for a stranger to do things to my most intimate areas while another stranger watches and/or assists is almost too much to handle.

Knowing that anything that is going to happen is out of my control, no matter if its a fast procedure or a long one, Not knowing if its going to hurt when they do it or not. Or knowing that is going to hurt and having to suck it up and take it.

After being taught for years and years to never let anyone "touch" you, then willingly exposing yourself for someone to poke around and insert things...the very contradiction of it is a turn on

I myself am a huge baby when it comes to injections or blood being taken in real life, needles just freak me out, I turn ghostly white and just about pass out. Yet, its a major fetish for me and is a big part of our play.

In that aspect its fear that charges the fetish.

signed..

"the wife"

For me it is the anticipation and knowing what is probably going to happen; on the other hand, each experience is new. No two examiners do it exactly the same, so there is some unknown anticipation. It is also the loss of control and the difference in relationship: i am nude, they are clothed; i am under their "control" and they are in "control"; they see all of me and I only see their face and clothes; they can expose me to others and I have no say;

It also brings back memories of experiences as a youth and teenager, which is very exciting now, even if it was mostly embarassing then.

I personally like the idea of authority that a doctor has...Its both frightening and arousing to me. I like the firm but caring side of a male doctor and the way I feel anxious but safe...

I also find the anticipation of my fiancee going for her well woman check up with a male doc very arousing. She always gives me a complete and detailed report on all the procedures when she returns. Recently she brought home the exam cape that she was given and put it on for my pleasure, I once drove her to the office and she asked if I would like to come back and observe. I was torn but declined the offer in fear that the reality of watching her breasts and vulva being probed and manipulated might spoil the magic of my wonderful fantasies. I am lucky in that she is a willing to fulfill my desires. I doubt that she derives much pleasure from the medical scenario. 😜 😄

I sort of like the frightening power that a doctor has over me...I don't think I'd like him to do frightening things to me, but, I like the way it feels to think of the authority he has.

I don't really know what my fantasy is yet...An older father-like doctor, I've always wanted my temperature taken over a mans lap and have him play with me a little.. I guess a very thorough exam, inside and out... I'll keep you posted on how I start feeling toward some of the other procedures as things progress..

I'll be having my annual physical from my female GP in a couple of weeks and the anticipation is building already. I know that I will be taken to the exam room and told to undress to my shorts and sit on the exam table to wait for the doctor. When she comes in and the exam starts, I know that in a few minutes the shorts will come off and I will be completely naked for her to examine my penis and testicles, stretching my flaccid penis out and checking the glans, followed by a careful feeling of each testicle. This is done with me standing in front of her as she sits on a stool. Then she has me get in the knee-chest position on the table and does the rectal exam. I'll write again after the exam occurs.

I have to agree with all here. I don't know why, this is has always been the anticipation has always been part of the trill.

I got a shot in the behind from a lovely nurse when I was ten years old. I was dressed and leaving the hospital. She asked me to drop my pants in the corridor but I was able to convince her it would be better to do it in private. We went into a store room and I was put on display and have been hooked since.

I think it's knowing that a "stranger " is going to be seeing you completely naked and that they will get to perform a very intimate thorough exam that's what turns me on

Once I went to the emergency room and I felt very shy having to lower that gown for the first time to have a man see my breasts.

I was late to get married and my medical fetish actually was pretty well developed before I was married (I married a nurse...).

A twist on my medical fetish that I sometimes like, and some times do not like, is that my wife insists on accompanying me to all of my doctor's appointments. I should probably mention that my doctor is also female. When it comes time for the prostate exam, I have two women staring at my ass and one of them shoving a finger in there...

This appeals to the exhibitionist in me, but I can't help but wonder if it also doesn't appeal to my wife. Even though she insists she is there out of concern for my welfare.

I think that medical anything is ritualistic, and so many of the stimulating triggers of sex are in some way mirrored when going to the doctor. The exposure, intimacy, and vulnerability are there. And then there's a certain level of basic suspense. You know what's going to happen, but you don't. You know it's safe, but maybe it's not.

For me it is having to strip down to my briefs in front of a fully clothed individual and having him/her take me through the exam step by step. He knows what is going to happen before the exam begins and I have to wait to find out what happens next. The dreaded parts with the briefs down is always the last part which I have to wait nervously for. Then comes the dreaded command like "lets slip down your shorts" and I have to let him see my penis.

For me it's the temporary loss of control, the suspension of your dignity, and a certain degree of calculated humiliation. It's more powerful than any drug I've ever encountered.