Why does this happen?

Since becoming ill my diapers have become public property. Now I am not complaining but it seems all of my friends wives have taken upon themselves to care for my diapers without even asking. I had a few friends over last night and I was routinely checked and changed by all of the ladies. Even this morning one special friend stayed with me overnight and she has been giving me full time diaper care. Better yet she cooked breakfast this morning after making sure I was comfy and dry.

P.S.

I like this 😃

I was considering this myself only last night in the wider context of caregivers/receivers and was going to post this in another thread today! My theory still needs more consideration and fleshing out, but I present it here in a rough-and-ready form.

I believe that the operative word in the question posed above is 'ladies'. There is something about someone requiring care - whether that be a diaper needing changing, assistance with bathing or feeding, or some other form of care - which brings out the mothering instinct in many ladies (yes, and some men also). This is particularly strong when the care required is that which an infant would need - the instinct to care for their young is present in almost every species, the human species is no exception to this. Indeed, in social species the instinct is by and large even stronger. Just my theory...

I think you're right on the point Amy. This specific case also has some contributing factors to it as well. These wives are the people we have had at all of our old parties. I have seen them all dressed with their lifestyle choices and they have participated in many kink things with all in attendance over the years. I guess my diaper care was just a given to them as my abilities went down hill.

My Dearest Elfin Magic,

I have mentioned the basis of Amy's thoughts in a previous thread, and it's correct. Females of most species do tend to want to "mother" things, care for, and attend to, (no pun intended, lol) ones in our like species who are sick, weak, or young. It's the same reason millions of years ago the cave men hunted and killed the buffalo, and we cave women cooked it and stayed at the cave to care for our offspring. It's a very primal thing.

I have no doubt that these women really care about you. They want to help you and take care of you and help fix you. And I can tell you, if I were up there I probably would be doing the exact same thing. It's what we do. It's also how we women folk show our love, and in return we feel needed, wanted, and often times makes us get a true sense of our self worth. It's a co-dependant type of a thing really.

I hope you are feeling better a little bit each and everyday. This is my wish for you my friend.

Mashie

My Dearest Elfin Magic, I have mentioned the basis of Amy's thoughts in a previous thread

Ah! So that's what started off my train of thought! I participated in that thread and now remember your post Mashie, here is a link to it

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=65916.msg465745#msg465745

I didn't realise when I posted where my thought process had originated, certainly didn't mean to steal your theory! (Or tread on your toes - I wouldn't dare do either. I know you like injections - and you know I am needle phobic lol)

Yet again mashie you have proven to be smart and wise.

"I have no doubt that these women really care about you. They want to help you and take care of you and help fix you. And I can tell you, if I were up there I probably would be doing the exact same thing. It's what we do. It's also how we women folk show our love, and in return we feel needed, wanted, and often times makes us get a true sense of our self worth. It's a co-dependant type of a thing really."

That is exactly how I would like the ladies that baby and care for me to feel. I don't want them to do it cause I want then to but cause they want to as well.

P.S. I was trying to use the insert quote but it's not working at all.