Hello, I have been researching over the internet how a person can be restrained for long periods and enjoy it. I am specifically interested in the type of thoughts should a person use to achieve long hours of bondage. I have looked many things but have not been successful. I have also tried sessions on my own and give up after say 10 or 15 minutes. I would really like to last a long time, so if anyone could share some advice, I would greatly appreciate it. dot1971
When you say you have tried on your own, do you mean you "forced yourself" to stay in place or tied yourself up?
Self bondage will never work for you because you are a PANSY ASS BITCH with no self control.
You need a woman who will tie you up and not let you loose despite hearing you cry like a little girl. Then, and only then will you learn what it means to be restrained in bondage.
I have had my husband totally restrained for 48 hours by mummifying him with 1000 feet of stretch wrap followed by five rolls of duct tape from head to toe after cleaning him out with enemas and putting a foley catheter in place. THAT'S self control. You made 15 minutes? What a wuss.
OK, after berating you, I suppose I could tell you what I do when I am restrained for an extended time like 2-12 hours. First, you have to relax, I know, it can be hard when someone is whipping or flogging you while you are tied up, but being a novice, start by just being tied up and left to lay there. You need to settle into your inability to move. RELAX. Think of something pleasant, like the orgasm you might get if you behave and don't cry like a baby when you don't get released from your ropes after an hour. A blindfold may actually be helpful for you to block out visual cues. If you get an itch, ask politely if she may scratch it for you. When you are better at settling into subspace, you will just have to suffer with an itch because no one is going to help you out. You just need to develop self control.
Now, seriously, you have to give it more than 10-15 minutes. You have to stress yourself a little. Do this with someone you trust and just lay there without moving or having anyone touch you. You need to build some self discipline. A very simple bondage task without any ropes at all is for you to lay on your back and hold a dime between your two index fingers over your face as you look at the ceiling. If you drop the dime or hold it with anything other than your opposing two index fingers, your girlfriend will spank you until you have welts.
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