Abundance of black pubic hair

What to do with an abundance of black pubic hair....hubby likes it, but it is a problem

Talking with hubby and choosing the best choice for you both .

You right when disliking black pubic hair coming out of the swimsuite .

He likes to see you and to "eat" you like you are,

would you like seeing him going to another women for her black bush ? ? ?

Some guys may like that, but I think they are in the minority! What's wrong with the shave or trim options if you don't like it the way it is?

I love the au natural look. I wish my gf would stop shaving her armpits and bikini line.

We've tried long, medium, short, and shaved. I vote for shaved.

Why is it a problem?

Pubic hair is all about aesthetics and a little bit about function.

For the function part having hair on my lips definitely helps when it comes to peeing. The hair helps to guide the urine down. When I shave bare I tend to pee all over the place

Now for looks especially with a bathing suit or lingerie nicely trimmed is pretty. I like to keep a wide racing stripe that is trimmed very short. I feel when I am nude aroind others (like a house party) then it looks sexy, but doesn't interfere with oral sex.

Restof10, please do tell about your nude house parties. I would love to hear about them!! Do you observe most women shaved bald these days? And what about men? I hear lots men are going bald too.

I often visist a coed public sauna. As it is in Europe, all visitors should be naked. Generally all females are bare, some except for a landing strip. Majority of males are trimmed well, some are bare too.

Limone17,

Really? Men and women sit naked together in saunas in Europe? Wow. Is it awkward being together in a group setting like that? Don't the men get boners seeing all those naked women? I love the look of a bald pussy, but I've never seen a bald dick before. Does it look good too?

Yes. It's very common in Central Europe (Germany, Austria, Czech Rep, Poland, etc). Most of people feel comfortable being naked in front of others, thus erections are not seen. Concerning male genital hair removal it's becomeing more and more popular, however it's a matter of personal preference.

I would say in our experience, the majority of women (80 or 90%) are bald or just a small patch or strip. for the guys it seems to be about 50/50. THis may be slightly biased as I am talking about people that are swingers.

Agree. I've got the same observation. The guys are mostly trimmed, about 20-30% are bald, sometimes with a small patch.

Since more and more people are apparently opting for the shaven look, this probably reflects on the tendency of people to have a less problematical and more open view about sexual matters in general.

As for erections in saunas - the situation should be about the same as on a nude beach I would think. Both are social situations, not intimate.

I think I might get my hubby to shave his dick completely bald. I've kept my pussy bald since my early twenties and I love it! I won't ever go back to having hair. And my hubby loves it too. He loves my pussy being completely visible and not hidden behind any hair. I have big pussy lips too which my husband LOVES! And the oral sex is amazing!!!

I've been shaving my pubes, cock and balls for several years. I'm noticing now at the gym that I frequent that this is becoming much more common, especially among swimmers and tri-athletes.

I would say maybe keep it nice and trimmed if he wants you to have it ya should be able to keep it short if you want

I happen to love lots of pubic hair...black especially. I realize that this is a very individual preference either way. But, I don't understand why it might be a problem, as you say it is. Can you explain, please?

Pubic hair styles or lack thereof are entirely a personal choice. That said I must prefer the au natural look of untrimmed and unshaven pubes. I also recognize that I am a dinosaur.

I like pubic hair, mine and my wife's. We both normally just let it go wild. On occasion for a switch either of us might give it a little trim. Personally we generally don't care for the infantilized look of fully shaven pubic areas.

Certainly very personal choices, but it doesn't hurt to mix things up a bit.

If you try shaving and don't like it, the hair will always grow back.

I would just like to weigh in to say that I think a bare pubic area looks sexy. I would never tout it as the only way to go, however. There are other styles that look great on a woman too, in my opinion. For example, I also love when a woman's lips are bare but she keeps a full, yet somewhat trimmed, luscious triangle or rectangle on the pubic mound above.

I disagree with those who think a bare pubic area makes a person look immature. I do not think a totally bare pubic area looks "infantilized" at all. I believe bareness just adds to the sense of nudity, and I often find beauty in simplicity. These are just more personal opinions of mine, of course.

I admire a Woman that is unshaven, it tells me so much, but maybe I'm out of touch, and that is fine. I know this, I will lick and suck a hairy vagina, whenever asked, and I'm asked often.

I would like to know why Claudette's pubic hair is a problem. It is due to the bikini line issue of hair showing outside her bathing suit? If so, then shaving just enough to kept out of view would seem to be the answer since it sounds like her husband and I guess Claudette as well likes her pubic hair.

A lot of folks have weighed in on their preferences for pubic hair. I think it is definitely a personal choice and or a choice with your significant other's preferences to be taken into consideration. Whatever creates the sexual spark (hair or no hair) should be the guiding factor.

I've never really had any quips or qualms about the appearance of a quim. personally though, I could never shave or trim my twig and berries. tried it once, got itchy and annoyed the hell out of me, never again. only thing in that zone I would ever shave would be the taint and pucker (but that's more out of necessity than style).

Has anyone noticed that the OP hasn't been active in 2 years?

Claudette, if your hubby likes, better let your "jungle" grow free and lush!! Only trade with him a good trim at swinsuit time, if coming out "mustache" bother you.

Hugs.

L.

What is OP

OP = Original Poster

Jds4med ^^^^ Mostly first thing one should do--skip to profile page that is....Similar to conducting a conversation with no one in the room... mmm !.... Hence no comment to thread.

Despite the OP not being here for two years, (she was here for 2 DAYS after registering) other people may have had the same thoughts and found answers here.

It's when (mostly men) find a woman in the "new members and introductions" threads that I laugh when they say "Hi" to a person who hasn't been here in years.