Pregnancy in D/s relationships?

Hey... I love my Mommy Mistress very much... but lately I've kind of been wanting to get her pregnant... Not just for fetishism reasons... like wanting her to get all extra bitchy and mean, wanting her to get nice and ripe/big, wanting to give her lactation an extra boost... but because I love her... and want to get even closer to her... to share something so big with her having a part of me growing inside her... To share that child-rearing experience.

I recently played/messed around with her birth control (part of our induced-lactation protocol) but she found out and punished me accordingly... she's not too keen on the idea. I mean, I would do most of the grunt work raising him/her anyways like staying up all night, but it's really a two person thing and I think she might see it as me trying to level the playing field because right now she makes every single decision and is always right, but when another person's life is concerned it's really not fair to have just one person making all the decisions. Some input/compromise is good when it comes to a child's welfare, even though Mommy obviously always knows best. Has anyone else wanted this? Or even gotten their Mistress to agree to it?

Then there's also the issue of trying to "hide" the extreme BDSM stuff from a kid. Like who knows what seeing daddy in a diaper nursing next to you would do to a child's psyche.

But basically... I really love my Mommy and while I think I'd be jealous of a sibling/son getting so much of her attention... I'd really like to share that experience with her. Does anyone else want the same thing or has actually gone through with it, and if so, any advice on broaching the subject / convincing her?

Anyone who messes around with birth control without the other persons knowledge doesn't deserve to be a parent. Very selfish and as such one would suggest that conversation is needed before you contemplate bringing an innocent child into the World. That of course, is a two way conversation between yourself and your partner.

BendOverBoyfriend said:

Hey... I love my Mommy Mistress very much... but lately I've kind of been wanting to get her pregnant... Not just for fetishism reasons... like wanting her to get all extra bitchy and mean, wanting her to get nice and ripe/big, wanting to give her lactation an extra boost... but because I love her... and want to get even closer to her... to share something so big with her having a part of me growing inside her... To share that child-rearing experience. I recently played/messed around with her birth control (part of our induced-lactation protocol) but she found out and punished me accordingly... she's not too keen on the idea. I mean, I would do most of the grunt work raising him/her anyways like staying up all night, but it's really a two person thing and I think she might see it as me trying to level the playing field because right now she makes every single decision and is always right, but when another person's life is concerned it's really not fair to have just one person making all the decisions. Some input/compromise is good when it comes to a child's welfare, even though Mommy obviously always knows best. Has anyone else wanted this? Or even gotten their Mistress to agree to it? Then there's also the issue of trying to "hide" the extreme BDSM stuff from a kid. Like who knows what seeing daddy in a diaper nursing next to you would do to a child's psyche. But basically... I really love my Mommy and while I think I'd be jealous of a sibling/son getting so much of her attention... I'd really like to share that experience with her. Does anyone else want the same thing or has actually gone through with it, and if so, any advice on broaching the subject / convincing her?

BendOverBoyFriend, I could call you a disrespectful, thoughtless, self centered, stupid, worse than inconsiderate son of a bitch whose mother should have had an abortion, but I won't because I am a lady.

Your fucking around with HER body and making potentially very serious lifelong changes in her body and life, that probably won't even include you for very long, is completely detestable and I hope you have a very very low sperm count.

You do not deserve any children and have absolutely no idea what it takes to have a relationship where you respect one another and can bring up children in a trusting healthy home.

As far as the woman making all the decisions in deciding to have a baby is concerned, it happens inside her body! She should be the only one making the decision to have a baby. It isn't up to you. If you want a baby and she doesn't, you should find another woman who will settle for your low sperm count.

The only thing you know about children and having a family, is that you have to fuck to get one.

I could say lots more, but I am a lousy typist and the words are going by in my brain too fast for me to type them.

AS A PERSON, YOU SUCK.

Well said Susie. Agree completely. I wasn't quite brave enough to phrase it as you have done, in case my posting got deleted lol. There are some right BAS ..... in life unfortunately and postings like this emphasise that.

Ok Ok I just saw this post and I completely understand where you ladies are comming from.

I do agree what he was trying to do was detestable and he was made to pay dearly. Luckily it was only the BCPs for induced laction.

Now I will say an NOT in his defense because what he did or thought of doing was aweful. But I do NOT rely on BCPs so even though it would not have matter it was still so wrong on so many levels. He was caught

He is YOUNG, I am much older and I have spoken to him about this since. He knows what he did was wrong.

There is a significant age difference as I said and while I do not know exactly why he is thinking this way (maybe to think this will keep us together) or it could just be another of his fanatsies. Truth is I DO LOVE him and while I will not be bearing any children anytime soon I do not see myself leaving him either.

He is growing up and comming into his own, I cut him some slack for immaturity but at the end of the day you have to admit it was quite ballsy to post something like this and admit such a despicable act that could have yeilded such life changing consequenses.

I think what he was really asking was if there were any d/s relationships where there were couples with children.

It was a poor choice I was reprimanded for, and told her about it before it did any damage. I love my MommyMistress and wouldn't want to cause her any distress.

The fact that you did mess up with her birth control shows that not only are you not a good sub but you are not ready for any type of a relationship, much less parethood!!

As a sub you should have been punished and then dismissed from service since your Dominant can not trust you!

Allow me to explain a bit more. When my babyboy did this it was months ago and while we were just seeing each other. He was NOT fully my sub then and I was inducing lactation , just because. I had no one in mind but I wanted to induce lactation because I did it once before and loved, yet even back then had no pet to partake.

All this being said, BendOverBoyfriend was up for elimination when this happened, to say he did not suffer for his action would be lying.

Since then he knows better and have proven himself to be an excellent sub even while being so young and still discovering new kinks.

I love him and this has been put all behind us since it happened months ago.

Only my Dom determines my worth as a submissive, thanks. You're no one to say what should or should not happen in our relationship.

MistressD said:

Allow me to explain a bit more. When my babyboy did this it was months ago and while we were just seeing each other. He was NOT fully my sub then and I was inducing lactation , just because. I had no one in mind but I wanted to induce lactation because I did it once before and loved, yet even back then had no pet to partake. All this being said, BendOverBoyfriend was up for elimination when this happened, to say he did not suffer for his action would be lying. Since then he knows better and have proven himself to be an excellent sub even while being so young and still discovering new kinks. I love him and this has been put all behind us since it happened months ago.

So, you were just seeing each other, not in a committed relationship, and he fooled with your birth control?? That's even worse. He is completely untrustable.

I maintain my original opinion.

One more thing, unless your Dom has a penis, she is a DOMME!

All due respect, I know it sounds much worse than it really was. He knew I was using another form of contraceptive at that point. I know it sucks Just as bad as women who puncture condoms or stop taking their BCPs to trap a man. I have seen that happen many times. True the relationships hardly ever work out but it is still wrong to fool someone when it comes reproduction I made a decison to allow my babyboy to redeems himself and I must say he has. I can see how it comes across as him not being trustworthy but he really is. He just sometimes posts stupid and dramaful

"Dom: A person who exercises control (from dominant-contrast with sub)

Dominant: A person who exercises control - contrast with submissive

Domme: Woman who exercises control (see also Dominatrix). Often associated with a particular brand of traditional femininity; many younger female dominants prefer to use the nongendered terms dom/dominant."

It's also short-form for just "Dominant."

Mistakes happen. The only person I owe(d) apology to was my Mistress and she's received it and forgiven me. Personally, I find it deplorable to judge someone's entire life based on one action when in reality you don't know a thing about the person, but hey! To each his own.

The thread was about pregnancy in d/s relationships

Yes BendOverBoyfriend the topic was about pregnancy in D/s relationships. However you can't expect to make a posting as you did and not receive the replies here that you have. Whatever the topic, if someone posts something and others deem it to be controversial/off limits etc etc then it is going to attract comments from members of this board. It's happened before on other topics. Get over it and think on next time.

I'm not surprised or shocked that it got responses. But it's been mentioned several times. I'm aware that I'm satanic spawn, that Hitler looks like an angel next to me, that I trample the rights of women big and small and the world is a lesser place for having me in it. I've been told. Where will saying it again and again or devolving into a flame war, debasing all our standards of how we normally interact with people, bring us? I'd posit such activity is pointless.

The only person who's opinion REALLY matters has forgiven me. I could care less what a bunch of random strangers who don't know a thing about me think about me based on one poor choice I've made, my quality as a human being, my quality as a sub, or my relationship. There's nothing for me to "get over," but me being evil and horrible is kind of a dead discussion that will go nowhere. Not to mention everyone does things they're not proud of. Would you like to be judged ONLY on the worst thing you've done? I think not. So to segway away from that...

Anyone have kids with their submissive or dominant and, if so how does it work? Do you try to hide it (obviously when they're young) or are you "open" with it?

Hey Bob, While I don't agree with what you did, you are correct in admitting what you did was wrong, asking forgiveness, and moving on. I know according to you and to MD that you are young, but the fact that you were able to state your point, calmly, effectively, and with honesty, and try to bring the topic back around to where it is supposed to be shows me that you are in fact a man.

A karmic bump, and your first one at that. I hope MD doesn't mind that I am taking your karma cherry away and devirginizing that part of you, lol.

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Mashie