Gags

A penis gag is awesome. The penis part goes to the back of the mouth and it is impossible not to drool, messy, yes, but that is what makes it a turn on! Ball gags do this as well; it's hard to swallow with a gag in your mouth but some love to the incapacitated that way....

A good old fashioned ball gag does the job for me.

I did not really like the surgical types like whitehead etc, I did not find dribble or spit a turn on and when you are tied and flogged etc with mouth held open for extended periods it can not be avoided.

The idea of being surgically gagged and intubated for my tonsillectomy when I was a kid I find a very arousing thought - especially as (understandably) nobody ever told me that this was what would be done to me after I was anaesthetised. The adults-know-best syndrome here - the virtual conspiring to hoodwink a young boy 'for his own good' - is part of what excites me in retrospect. Also, as I've said on Zity before now, in retrospect my surgery seems to me like a virtual rape, performed against my young wishes.

I confess that I now love the complex thought of my sleeping boyhood self being gagged and intubated, my young mouth being forced open, the Davis-Boyle mouth gag inserted and positioned, tubes being pushed down my throat - and all this, of course, without my awareness or consent. When I first read a description of this surgical procedure, probably in my teens, it was the stuff of nightly fantasy for a while!

- Ken

We have a pink ball gag with black leather straps and lock in the back. My wife uses it on me while I am restrained. She pushes it further in or covers my mouth and nose with her gloves hand to keep me quiet while she talks down to me. It is a huge turn on to see my mask and gloves dominatrix controlling me.

Being gagged is another activity I have tried to reclaim. It is one thing I find makes me uncomfortable but it arouses me no end.

Being gagged is another activity I have tried to reclaim. It is one thing I find makes me uncomfortable but it arouses me no end.

I think it's very punk to do submissive things agressively. I have some pictures saved of a punk girl with a penis gag. She's squatting. In one image she's licking the shaft then gagging herself with it and masturbating. She looks empowered, but also submissive--it's an interesting paradox, and I think it does have to do with the feminist reclamation of submission. It's my body and I'll submit with it if I want to.

I knew a chick in college who occasionally wore an O-ring collar to class. I wrote a poem about her--it's not very good but it's posted here somewhere. She looked provocative and somehow very empowered, despite being literally collared like a dog.

I like wearing a ball gag while being restrained. Also having my mouth covered by a gloved hand partner is quite enjoyable!