Have Never Wet or Messed... Yet

As the title of this thread states, I've never actually wet or messed in a diaper. I wear them to bed (and use them for a... different kind of 'relieving myself' than their "intended" use...), but my bladder is apparently strong enough to auto-hold it all night. This is because I have nobody to change me; my habit of wearing them is a secret. I would definitely like to know what it's like, to have someone take care of me for a few days, and 'make' me use the diapers and then change me after, but there's no-one to do that, so I have no idea what it's like to use a diaper in those ways.

1) Is anyone else in the same boat as me?

2) What exactly does it feel like to wet and/or mess one's diaper?

3) How hard and/or expensive would it be to theoretically find someone who would willingly do that with/for/to me?

I to have never messed but I have wet a makeshift diaper. It was vary enjoyable.

If you want to mess or wet your diaper, just get ur bladder full enough and just relax. I do this when I'm wearing diapers. Messing is a bit more complicated. If you want to try and prevent yoruself from going in the diaper, then id use liquid glycerin suppositories. Solid supositories work, but liquid ones work much quicker.

I used to be in the same boat. I've been fascinated with diapers since I was 4. I started wearing them on and off when I was 15, but didn't wet one until I was 18. I think my bladder was too strong. I've still never messed, though. I just don't want to deal with the cleanup.

How it feels will vary. The first few times I did it, it was kind of shocking. Sometimes it's humiliating, sometimes it's uncomfortable, sometimes it's oddly comfortable, sometimes it makes me horny as hell.

I am lucky enough to share this with my boyfriend, so I've never hired anyone. I would advise against paying someone to perform such services because it seems to me that that person would probably do his/her own thing and not tailor the approach to you. I read ads for these big AB nurseries and it looks like everyone's experience will be pretty much the same. The key word you used is "willingly." People are going to seem a lot more willing when there's money involved. It's kind of like hiring a mercenary. Yeah, he's a paid professional, but he's not going to fight as hard as an unpaid person defending his nation. Kind of an odd analogy, I know. But really, I think that it would be worth it to share this with someone you care about, not someone you hired.

I'm no matchmaker, but I can offer this advice:

When you meet someone and want to start a relationship, I hope (s)he has some kinks of her own. Be up front about this kind of thing. I believe that it's not fair to spring something like this on someone years down the road. My boyfriend knew about my kinks before we started dating, but he didn't have a problem with it. He was just curious to start, and now it's one of his favorite things we do.

DKN117 I personally would never hire someone cause to me it's a waist of money no matter how badly I might want to be babied. I have no idea how you can safely find someone, I've meet ladies on facebook I have talked to for some time. I have a hand full that would love to diaper me and baby me for just the pleasure of making me happy. I still find that unbelievable to be honest. I could go an meet these people since in my heart I feel that are vary trust-able but in my head I'm still thinking of what could happen. I like to have a back up plan always a way out if I need it. Best advice I can get is never walk blindly always keep your mind open to any possible outcome even if you think it might not happen. That is just me heck we all learn from our mistakes if you want to jump right in without thought be my guest. I hope any of this have helped if not then I tired. I still can't say it's a bad thing to try since i have never tired it yet, so do what you want.

I too was into diaper for a long time without using them. But, eventually I started to use them, first by trying to pee in them while in bed. This proved to be very difficult at first, no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't do it while lying down. I actually had to get out of bed stand up to make myself pee. After awhile, I would go back to bed, lie down and finish peeing. After doing this several times I was able to pee while lying in bed. I would like to pee while I'm sleeping, but no matter what I do, my bladder will not let go without a conscious effort.

It feels great to pee in my diaper, it is one of the great pleasures of wearing diapers. I love how warm it feels and how the swollen diaper feels against my crotch. You got to try it DKN117. I do not recommend messing, as at least for me, clean up is not fun and my wife does not like it.

I'm lucky to have a wife who completely accepts my desire to wear diapers. I didn't tell her until after we got married, but she was open minded about it. I remember when she first saw me in a diaper, she got really horny and wanted to have sex with me with my diaper on.

I'm with Babyboy18, I would be too nervous and paranoid about hiring someone to indulge my diaper fantasies. I would rather date women in the usual manner and hope that one of them will turn out to be openminded about sex/fetishes.

I'm 22 (well, 23 in seven days) and the farthest I've ever got with a girl was a close-mouthed kiss. When I was 14. With one girl who moved up north half a year later and I never heard from again. I am 5'9.5" and around 200 lbs., have acne (not as bad as it used to be, though), a gut, and glasses due to horrible nearsightedness (though I've been told by my already-taken female friend that my glasses actually look good on me), and thanks to my Asperger's my social skills are... somewhat lacking, ESPECIALLY when it comes to girls.

My odds of finding someone I won't have to pay are EXTREMELY low. And if I could make the "EXTREMELY" be larger text than the rest, I would.

DKN117 Your looks have nothing to do with your lack of a girlfriend. You just need some people skills to work with is all. Trust me when i say i see some people who are fat and not that good looking picking up girls at a rate i dont think i could do. They have personality galore though and their attitude is great about life. So dont give up there is someone for everyone out there this much i do know.

I've heard there are two ways to feel about wetting or messing the first time. You either love it and hate yourself for not trying it sooner or you hate it and never do it again.

I live alone I put on a diaper when I get home and where it til the next day the way I feel if I'm wearing might as well use it I change myself not by choice.

I have wet and messed it wat all fun

DKN117, you should hook me up! I love those kind of boyz! RAWR!!!!! Anyways, I love working with your kind of people! They're sweet funny and I just love your type! You'll find soneone just like you! 😉

@ QueenBitch: Where are you? If anywhere other than Southern California, it's a no-go, sadly.

Hi all, this is my very first post ever!! I'm new here, just joined up, so here goes. I have been wearing diapers for about 7 years now and I totally enjoy them. I am a single male of 50 years and I have had this fetish all my life. At first, I would not use the diaper for it's intended purposes, I would just wear them for their comfort. But, slowly I began to wet them and enjoyed the feeling totally. If I ever need to poop, I would remove the diaper and do the business in the normal way and then replace it. One day about two years ago, I decided to poop in the diaper just to see how it felt. Well, I was blown away by the feeling, it was something else and so was the smell, lol. Now I do it all the time, it's a great feeling. I would reckonmend anyone who is into diapers to try it once and then they would see for themselves how wonderful it feels, or not as the case may be for some. As the man says, don't knock it, till ye try it.

My first wetting was a fantastic experience. Found it hard to let it go in the beginning, but as soon as that barriere was overcome I really enjoyed it. It's kind of hard to let go while sitting down (something is kind of blocking??) like in my car, but it's easier if I lift my bottom a bit over the seat. Messing my diaper was a different story. I think I had some kind of psykological block that prevented me from messing. The first time is always the difficult one, isn't it? I found a way to overcome the block - I inserted 2 Dulcolax suppositories, put on a diaper and just waited until I just had no choice. I just had to let it go regardless of what my mind said. There were no way I could keep the load inside me. After this I have messed my diaper several times, and the feeling of wearing a messy diaper, and sometimes masturbate in it is a big turn on. Don't bother too much about the smell, but I'm not a frequent public user.

I was in the same boat when I first started, very hard. I found to wet them, just either drink lots of water fast, or if you want to start flooding them (and you're old enough to legally do this) then drink lots of alcohol, along with water between glasses. It really makes you have to go, and if you can get comfortable and in private, you can empty your bladder

For messing, first time I started doing it I did it when I had to REALLY poop, and first started in panties, since was too afraid for diapers. Then recently found the joys of suppositories. Marshmallows, glycerin, ducolax, ect, makes you want to push it into your diaper.

Feeling wise, for me it's that shock of loss of control, helpless feeling (I get that when I use suppos as soon as they're in, since I'm in for the long haul). and it's really hard to explain. Depends on why you like being in diapers personally.

Changing yourself isn't that hard. I have a towel under me, and lots of TP, and more recently wipes. Flushable wet wipes, or just baby wipes really work, then I finish off with a shower using a poof thingy and lots of soap around that area and anything that was covered in the diaper. If you're able to find an hour to yourself in the bathroom, you could quietly fill yourself up, diaper up, mess and relieve yourself, then clean up and shower after you get the rytheme. Probably pricey to find someone to pay, and good amount of time hunting to find someone nearby with interests