Looking to do my first blowjob

I am male, have never been with a man in any way, although i have often thought bout it, i also like to wear stockings, heels, an having a plug in, i have a couple little short sessions of chastity years ago, i want to be chained helpless, wearing thigh hi stockings, at least 6 inch heels locked on, i know i will chicken out at the last minute, thats why i want to be chained up, no matter what i say if i am chained do not let me go until you have had your way with me

Sounds kinky, have someone you trust and agree on a safe word... Other than that good luck and have some lube handy.

Very interesting. I have never given a blow-job to a male, however, I would like to try it. I've had a number from male and female, and it was all good, maybe better then that. I love it when they jack off and cum on me. It's a wonderful feeling. I have done load's of females, but hooking up with a guy has been difficult, and I have tried. My age is against me finding anyone.

I hope all of you remember, that some where out there, their is a guy or gal wanting the same thing you do.

I can relate. I've wanted to try sex with a man but each time I have the chance I chicken out - being tied down would surely help. I must find someone who will persist.

And I'm married... So I think it might be considered cheating

Ok so after posting here about longing to at last have a gay encounter, I posted on Craigslist and found a guy 10 miles from me who wants to hook up. Now , faced with this reality, I'm spooked. Hesitant unsure. Once I do this I can't look back. Advice?

I think about twelve of us from Zity ought to converge somewhere for a big camping trip, rent a big multi bedroom cabin secluded and just indulge everyone's kinky everything for a three day weekend , once a year. Bring tarps, gloves, dildos and have a good time. Pay the cleaning fee.

Sign me up!

I have received oral for a man a couple times. It was great. I thought it was better than my first time a woman gave me oral

I have received and given oral to a guy several times. One of the best I ever had was from a guy. He really knew how to suck a cock.

I am male. My first time to give a guy head was when I was 12. It was easy for me then, but if my first time were to be now, I think it wouldn't be so easy. If you want to suck a guy for the first time, you have to have a guy who will be understanding, and gentle, but yet firm at the same time. You have to have someone who will not let you back out, and will not let you back up when he begins to cum. The first time might not be that pleasant for you, but you have to keep on sucking guys, and after a few times, it will be a lot better.

I gave Head once but i am not proud of it i am not gay but i was yung at least 15 years old he said he would give me lots of things a smoke

This must be a new fad or maybe it's just more prevalent because of the internet, but there seems to be an increasing number of married and single heterosexual men that want to play with and suck another man's cock. I'm not condemning it because I include myself in this ever growing group a men. I've had hundreds of fantasies about sucking another man's cock while I masturbate, but hence the desire subsides quickly after I reach orgasm.

I've had the chance to suck on 3 or 4 cocks. 2 of them were quite thick & long; really had to open wide. Very sexy scenes, indeed. The guy that had 11 inches really wanted me to take it in my ass, and i was wanting to do it but hesitant. As he was licking my asshole to soften me up for his intrusion we were interrupted. I always wonder if i would have let him & how it would have felt. Regrets...

I like the idea of a Zity weekend "retreat"

The only time I "gave head" was several times to my (now dead) scoutmaster. He reciprocated, I should add. I was too young to understand what was going on, either to enjoy it or to condemn it. It was lost on me. I would like to try again some time as well as participate in anal sex - receiving and giving. Now I can appreciate the process and know what I am experiencing. I think I would enjoy both as I am anal-sensitive. I know I enjoy receiving fellatio! Someday!

Quaxy: Time to get you big guy pants on and open up - at both ends. Albert Finney once said the on his death bed he would rather regret the things he has done, rather than regret the things he hasn't done. The big boy pants goes for me, too!

Would be a new bold adventure...

I too would like to suck a man, I thought I had worked something out with someone on this site but it appears he decided against the idea. I will keep looking however.

Oh my, it's not like you are going to wake up with a big red Q tattooed on your forehead....

Silly boys....just open wide and take your medicine. The worse that will happen is that you will decide never to do it again and it's not like it's something that shows up on a professional resume.

Elaine

I loved giving my first blowjob. I was really excited to have his hard swollen penis in my mouth and the sensation of his ejaculation was kind of like having the slimy egg whites of a runny soft boiled egg explode in my mouth as his semen clung to my palate. It makes me wet just to think about it.

My first time I was a little bit apprehensive to start with i guess. I didn't know if I would gag, and I was a bit uncertain what I would do when he came. I wasn't sure if it would make me heave, If I would spit it out or if I would swallow it or what?

When it came to me doing it, I just seemed to go to it naturally. I didn't think twice about what I would do or think. My friends advice kept rolling round in my mind, and I just concentrated on what I was doing, and to make sure that he enjoyed it. The more he was enjoying it, the more I enjoyed doing it too. When I could tell that he was about to come, I just carried on and I really enjoyed his explosion in my mouth. I didn't think twice about letting it happen. It was the first time I had ever tasted semen, but it just seemed right and natural to swallow it. Although it was a different taste to anything that I had ever tasted before, and although a little sticky and salty I guess, it was not something that I could say that I particularly disliked. The trick is I would say is to just relax and let the moment take charge. Do what seems the natural thing to do, and take note of how he is reacting. Do the things that he is obviously enjoying you doing.

Well I think I think I was quite well prepared to give my first blowjob because I was lucky enough that my mum was open with me about sex and she told me a lot of what I needed to know when I was with a man. My husband's mum I knew I could talk to as well about what men like so I had 2 experienced ladies who could give me advice.

I will always remember giving my very first blowjob and I feel excited thinking of it. I was a bit nervous being so inexperienced and I wondered if my husband (he was my boyfriend then) would think I was good enough but when I retracted his foreskin and I licked arounjd his glans, putting my mouth around it and giving him a good in and out rhythm I really got into it. I really enjoyed it when he squirted in my mouth and I swallowed it all because it tasted nice to me and it was just the natural thing for me to do.

Having experienced many BJs in my life - even to-the-hilt deep throated ones! - doing this very thing has crossed my own mind now and then as a potentially erotic thing to try, but it quickly and inevitably occurs to me that penises always come attached to somebody, and not one single time have I ever felt attracted to or interested in getting that close to any guy. Period. Zilch. Nada. Zero.

Ladies and pussy, oh my yes!

So, unless it just happens as part of what starts out as an intensely and erotically charged situation with a woman and I have a "what the hell why not? moment", I don't see it on my horizon in this lifetime.

That said, the best advice I can give to a male who wants to give a BJ is, think about the ones you've had and imagine how you could do it better. And when the opportunity comes your way, always be aware of the recipient and imagine yourself in their place.

First time I ever gave a blowjob , a female friend brought her gay husband to my house. I wasn't sure on how to start out, so we all undressed, he laid on the bed and I just started blowing him. It was my first time and he was the nervous one. No matter what I did, he couldn't get hard. It was disappointing but satisfying at the same time. Fast forward to the present and my wife and I have shared the bed with several men. I only ever swallowed once but I want to do it again. I fantasize about it all the time, just need to find someone to let me blow them.

Ive never given or recieved a blowjob from a man or woman. Is a must for me.

Be very careful. If you are restrained, totally voluntarily, and you say stop, it becomes rape. In your post you state 'No matter what I say'. That's a double edged sword. You need a way to get out of it (a safe word) as much as your partner needs to know exactly what you mean.

And again I ask- What's stopping you?

Edit- Getting a blowjob from a guy is easy. Walk into a gay bar, and announce it. If you want to be restrained, go to one with a dungeon. If you want to wear lingerie, and heels, all the better.

I would really love to play with and suck another's mans dick! I dream about doing it all the time and love looking at men's dicks. I love to see them cum. I have never done it, but would love too. The only thing is, I only want to play with the dick and suck it and have it cum in my mouth, and nothing else. I makes me horny just writing this and think I will masturbate now ?