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My wife does NOT like having anything put up her bottom hole, such as an enema nozzle, my winky, or my pinkies.
HOWEVER, she knows that I absolutely LOVE putting things up her lovely and enticing bottom hole, such as an enema nozzle, and especially my winky and my pinkies. Because she loves me, she has made a few RARE exceptions for my penis and the enema nozzle, and she has given me pretty much UNLIMITED access for my fingers—one at a time, unless I am prepping for anal sex, which, again, is rare.
During the first year we were married, I gave her an enema because she agreed it might help relieve her constipation, but she hated the enema more than she hated the constipation. It didn’t help that I was a clumsy enema administrator because I didn’t really know the proper way to give an enema owing to the fact that I was entirely an entirely self-taught enema enthusiast, so my technique may have been a contributing factor.
And 35 years later, I convinced my wife that I knew so much more about giving enemas because of my extensive online reading (i.e. Zity) that we could maybe eliminate, or at least reduce, her constipation. She let me give her about 10 enemas in a fortnight. While my enema-administering skills were much improved, she didn’t like the enemas enough to continue with them.
And my willy in her bottom? Too painful, even when I warmed up and stretched her bottom hole with one, two, and then three fingers, and lots of lube.
So, enema nozzle and my penis in her bottom? She’ll take a pass.
Ahh, but my finger, on the other hand, no pun intended, or maybe intended, in her bottom, is a different story. While my finger in her bottom does nothing for her, she knows it does much of me. It’s like there is a button in her rectum and when I press the button in her butt, excuse my French, dans son trou du fond, it thrusts me over the top if I am not quite able to climax on my own and even when I can reach the orgasm without my finger in her bottom hole, she knows that doing so enhances the climb to get there as well as the climax at the top so she pretty much gives my finger cart blanche access to her bottom hole with two possible exceptions, depending on her mood at the moment. She doesn’t like me sticking my finger in her bottom hole when we are at Church or when she is trying to reach her own orgasm, and while the former activity has never occurred, the latter happens now and then.
And I really have no complaints because she if very happy to provide my bottom hole with lots of anal play and stimulation. She is very adept with her fingers, her hand, and a plethora of sex toys, including thrusting dildos, vibrating-thrusting dildos, vibrating-thrusting dildos that no longer thrust on their own but still have a nice girth, several dildos that I bought for her that she doesn’t/never liked, other vibrators, an alien tentacle, a vibrating-thrusting alien tentacle, four big balls on string but only three fit comfortably, seven balls on a string that all fit nicely, e-stim, and at least 15 spanking implements, including one stiff leather paddle, a floppy leather paddle, a wooden paddle with holes in it, a long and narrow and stingy wooden paddle, a smaller smacker wooden paddle, a heavy plastic paddle with one side flat and the other side waffle shape, a couple more wooden paddles in other shapes and sizes, a tawse, a Delrin cane, a rattan cane, a wooden hairbrush, a heavy plastic hairbrush, two slightly different wooden bath brushes, a wooden kitchen spoon, a wooden kitchen strainer, and a couple more items that I can’t recall right now.
So, really, I have no complaints.
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