New to this

My gf wants me to tie her up, this will he a first for both of us. I made some home made velcro straps for her wrists and ankles. I will pick up some rope. I plan to tease and tickle but still need more advise or just point me where and what to read. We have arranged for Monday do I need to learn quick. Any thing else I should bring?

If you are going to be using any type of material to bind your subject, whether rope, velcro, scarfs or leather cuffs, make sure that you can still slip a finger between the bonds and the subject's skin and also make sure to have a pair of paramedic scissors at hand.

Also crucial is to check with your subject for any tingling or pain in the bound limbs and watch for any signs of poor circulation.

What about a blindfold? Maybe that would enhance the situation as not being able to see what is happening could be erotic. Velcro is good as it gives an escape option should the scenario not work out as planned. Good luck, let us know how it went.

Bringing a blindfold will see if she is up for one. 😃

The afternoon went very well. We discussed things beforehand, limits safewords. We both enjoyed the encounter immensely. The blindfold was used. Lots of teasing, ice, mild spanking of pussy and ass. For a short time I moved away and silently watched her. It was quite an experience for both of us. When she was done with being tied we switched. Again a very intense experience for both of us. We will likely repeat at some point.

Thanks to all for your advise.