Favorite punishment

Having to stand in the corner naked holding my butt cheeks spread apart, followed by a spanking and spending the rest of the day naked with a butt plug inserted.

I love it when my plug gets coated in liquid soap and put up my ass.. evertime a challenge to hold it for an hour 😮

My favourite form of “punishment” (if it can be called that) is a good bare-bottom spanking with a slipper, preferably by a big, buxom woman.

Bare ass OTK spanking with a wooden spoon, told to hold cheeks spread wide apart to receive a Dulcolax suppository inserted very high, sent to stand in the corner for 15 minutes by the clock with a brief walk around every 3 minutes,, back OTK for second spanking, told to poo squatting over a on a pad on the floor. If no poo in two minutes, a warm, soapy bag enema.

@GraceT Well said. I too have not had the "pleasure of these, but find reading them a nice turn o. Maybe someday I will get the chance to have some of them.

Bound and forced orgasm. Edged up slowly until it is too much and them over the top and held…

Since we are talking about real punishments, I am not talking about sexual games.

I dedicate myself as a hobby, to female artistic nude photography and although it is a hobby, I am quite successful and appreciated in the sector.

This requires me to be very professional in my behavior with the models, in the photo studio.

Although I am used to female nudity, to the point that, by now, I look at models in the same way that a veterinarian looks at a racehorse or a mechanic looks at an endurance car prototype, sometimes it happens that, with the model, a feeling is created very intense, which makes me observe the model as a man and not as a photographer. I think this is a nice physical and psychological punishment. The hope is that she will be able to say or do something that will allow me to give up my professionalism.

Sometimes, fortunately, it happens. If it doesn't happen it's already a big punishment 😃

I'd go with all forms impact play. To spice things up I like to add some elements of humiliation like nudity, corner time. It most of the time it get's me aroused and my hubby in line.

Being an ABDL and liking some humiliation, I would have say being dressed up in a sissy dress and thick diapers and rubber pants. The dress would be just short enough that my diapers would be seen. Having to either shown off in front of others like a party, or being walked around the block dressed that way. Ultimate punishment in my humble opinion.

Standing in the corner. Although you usually need something to go along with it, as it's not very interesting to the person giving out the punishment.

It's reaaaaaaally hard to pick just one thing. When it comes to play I'll take anything and everything (within our limits of course)

When it comes to actual discipline... There's almost like a perfect trifecta, but it's not always the same combination. Although now that I'm thinking about it I guess corner time of some form or another is probably used most often. But it could be some combination of corner time, spanking, mouth soaping, writing lines... Pretty much all the common stuff. Most of our prescribed punishments that I get used on me are pretty typical corporal punishment stuff. The punishment needs to be a journey most of the time for me lol. I mean for small infractions, a quick spanking or a 5 minute time out is fine. But, most of the behavior I struggle with is not just "small" things.

I like anything that has a variation or twist on it, or some sort of "if you don't accomplish this, you'll have to take this additional penalty" because when it comes to actually being punished for real, I very much want to get out of it everything I can and let it be constructive. I'm already learning discipline by being disciplined in some form or fashion, and of course I'm learning my lesson as to why I'm being punished in the first place. But if I can also learn some focus along side it too I really appreciate that. So some examples would be like:

Instead of just "corner time", sometimes we use "wall time" which usually involves me being made to hold some sort of object against the wall with a part of my body. If I drop the object I face additional punishment and/or have to start over. Another alternative is sometimes my girlfriend will "put me in the closet." We have a closet in a spare bedroom that is empty. She does not lock me in for safety reasons and because then we're spilling over into sexual/play territory. But after a certain amount of time she comes and gets me, and the expectation was that I held a specific position in the closet during my time in there. This one is interesting because it forces me to be honest. She isn't supervising, so if I fucked it up I'm forced to tell on myself. Again, another learning opportunity that may carry additional consequences.

Instead of writing lines, sometimes I have to write an apology letter or essay detailing my punishment to her (before or after). In any case sometimes I have a time limit set for me. There is almost always a word count, and again if I don't meet these criteria than I face additional punishment and/or have to start over.

Sometimes with a spanking if I don't remain perfectly still in position, or stay on my tippy-toes, or keep my ass stuck way out, there are additional penalties. You get the idea at this point.

My girlfriend is very good at finding these sort of focus anchors for my punishments, which I suuuuper appreciate and love. It also leaves something to the imagination so there's still a fresh element of fear and anticipation when she tells me "Okay, you just earned yourself a punishment" which is a major element of the effectiveness of the whole thing for me. I need to have the nervous butterflies in my tummy to an extent, otherwise it just doesn't have the same effect. Of course everything is consensual and agreed upon. I know she's never going to throw me a massive curve ball we haven't discussed in the past. Sometimes these little twists are easy, sometimes they can be quite challenging (a 3-5 minute corner time isn't anything to scoff at when you have to stand on your tip toes the whole time, knowing you are going to have 40 stripes on your ass from a cane if you don't stay like that). Sometimes they're just challenging because of my emotional disposition or headspace about whatever I did wrong is. Most importantly though they are always proportional. We don't stick to most people's definition of "let the punishment fit the crime", because in our case for example, mouth soaping is used for more than just me swearing. Like I got my mouth washed out a few weeks ago for breaking a bowl because I was getting too frustrated emptying the dishwasher and was going too fast. I know for a lot of people that doesn't make sense, but for me it does. It helps me stay on my toes and keep my focus a bit better. It gives me that extra push of encouragement to make the right choice. That way I can't go "Oh, well if I accidentally break something it won't be so bad, because I'll probably just get a quick hairbrush spanking. That isn't so bad, I can handle that."

I 'punish' myself. Left over from childhood is being spanked naked. To self spank I need something I can use one handed, meaning a riding crop, bamboo stick, or for genital spanking, a paint stick, wooden spoon or ruler. I act out bondage, S & M scenes. I put on leather wrist and ankle restraints, and a leather belt around my scrotum, chaining myself to various positions with a humbler, and furniture. I have a wood ball pillory with a box & extensions that allow me to put myself in positions for butt spanking or cock and ball spanking. I act out policewoman scenes naked: handcuff/leg cuffs, waist chain. A small single handcuff locked on scrotum with a chain attached. Suspension. I have a rope pulley system to hang upside down. I often partially suspend myself by the balls. Of course in a bondage position I spank myself.

Soap stick up bum then spanking followed by enemas

Definetely soapstick up my ass 🧼

As in terms of pure punishment session, then a dildo shaped soap to fuck my ass until I cry and followed by caning until I scream. We do use a safe word though. Fire in my butt that lasts for a few hours and dark bruises that take up to two weeks to disappear (and make it hard to sit/lay on my back for 2-3 days) work as a good reminder for me to behave and don't mouth off at my partner.

Soap I make myself, using silicone molds from Temu and recipes from Internet

I take a hot enema with glycerine soap and vagasil cleansing ph wash. When I get 4 qts in me fast I push a glycerine dildo 5 " made from a block of soap deep in my ass until my spincter grabs it tight and my ass just burns and my spincter relaxes and the dildo keeps me plugged and I wait for the cramps. I just wait for the cramps to be so severe that my anal explosion forces the plug out.

@bratwurst sounds very similar to what I used to do. Good on you.