This is really addressed to subs, but perhaps some Dom/mes will have some insight to this situation as well. Have you ever been in a relationship where your Dominant's treatment of you caused you to consider terminating the relationship?
What's caused me to raise the question is not any sort of physical abuse or breaking hard limits, ignoring a safe word all of which would be obvious reasons to tell the Dom to take a hike. Rather it's a lack of attention to the sub - little or no contact for several weeks, as well as lack of attention to the sub's needs and expressed concerns in a new relationship. All of that, plus a very sharp learning curve for a "green" sub, has resulted in a high frustration level and questioning whether or not to pursue the relationship or to terminate it.
If you've been in this kind of situation, what did you do? Did you address your concerns with your Dom/me? How? How was it received if you did? If you terminated the relationship, how did you handle that?
(and no, Sir and i are just fine. This is something i've been thinking about recently.)