Self Bondage

Been experimenting lately with some self bondage, Japanese style. Works surprisingly well with a solo scene. With a harness it is easy to attach myself to the bed, set up a vibrator out of reach, give up some control.

Anyone else experimenting solo?

What a wonderfully talented mind you have 😉 Happy to read that its going well ! I think the trick is always how to create that moment of frustration : )

One of the best ways to do self bondage and develop real self control in a safe environment is this:

Use a padlock that opens with a combination AND has the option to use a key to open it, like what may have been on your gym locker in school.

Use a chain and padlock to restrain your wrists and ankles. Do this before sunset where you have enough light to securely restrain yourself. Keep all room lights off. After everything is well locked up, take the key and drop it into a deep one gallon can of vegetable oil that is filled to the very very top. There will be no way for you to get the key out without spilling a lot of oil on your floor, probably causing expensive damage. That's your incentive not to go for the key unless of course there is an emergency like a fire. If you are patient and in control, you will wait until morning when there is light and you can free yourself by opening the lock by its combination.

I read a lot of female self bondage stories. Most of them had the key to the lock tied to a sting frozen in a large block of ice. She then chains or cuffs herself with a vibrator in her. She waits for the ice to melt to free herself.

I read a lot of female self bondage stories. Most of them had the key to the lock tied to a sting frozen in a large block of ice. She then chains or cuffs herself with a vibrator in her. She waits for the ice to melt to free herself.

The problem with that is you have no way out in an emergency like a fire or other immediate problem.

I've done it nothing too big but it's not hard if you set a lot of precautions. More then one way out of your bondage, it's handy if your bound and you want out fast or finding a way out if something went wrong experience is a good thing.

I have enjoyed many sessions of self bondage, one of my favorites is to slip a length of plastic water tube over my penis while its soft. I've experimented with diameters and found one in a local DIY store that fits perfectly. As I become aroused the tube gets tighter and is impossible to remove without orgasm first. I make sure there is no loose skin to protect the head, so it is totally vulnerable. Then I have a range of toys, torments etc available to use. I throw a dice to decide which torment I must give myself, for how long etc.. I decide the values represented by each dice throw well beforehand so that I cant back out if its too much. Tough! Accept it!

Sometimes the dice stack up to give me hell, but its always worth it in the end..LOL....

@switchablesusie: Not sure if I would want myself and my carpet covered in vegetable oil in case of a fire though 😉

@switchablesusie: Not sure if I would want myself and my carpet covered in vegetable oil in case of a fire though 😉

OK, then fill the container with a gallon of urine and pancake syrup. That's not flammable.

It DOES have to be something that will make a hell of a mess and be expensive to clean as you stick your arm into the bucket and it overflows, spilling on your carpet.

You DO NEED some motivation to stay in bondage.

I just tried this last night and it worked oh so well 😃

Cut strips of fabric at least 2 inches wide and however long you would like.

Cut slits into the fabric and loop it through so you have a self tightening cuff or loop. Now the other end you can do the same and loop it around a sturdy object (like your bed frame) or you can simply tie it. I used the slits because it was easier to remove after. Now all you need to do is lay down on your bed and slide all the loops on an pull tight. Leave your wrists till last. Now if you do this right when you pull it tight it will be too tight for you to slip off but not so tight it will cut off circulation. Now enjoy!

After you are ready to leave just give a very hard tug on one of your wrists and the slit in the fabric will tear releasing your hand and then you can easily loosen the rest. If you use the right fabric it will not simply tear with tension on it but sudden pressure will cause it to rip. It may take a couple pulls but make sure you test it before to make sure you will be able to tear it. It may not be the tightest bondage but its cheap and effective 😃 If anyone would like I will post a couple pictures later to explain as I am not sure how understandable my instructions are, haha.

Come on guys, that's not bondage. That's a little inconvenience.

YOU ARE A BUNCH OF WIMPS!

If you're going to be in self bondage or any form of bondage and learn discipline, you should have CONSEQUENCES if you get out too soon.

Im sorry i know this has nothing to do with the topic at hand but Susie i have been reading your posts over the site and i have to say you are one awesome lady!

Paisleymask I would love to see pictures of this. I can't wait to understand more about this. Maybe even a vid if you can. I recently discovered I have a fetish for being tied up in anyway , anywhere. I cannot wait to try it out.

I have been using several stretchy belts, these work very well, you can make them tight enough to know that you are restrained, but they will stretch just enough so you can slip out of them.

I have been using several stretchy belts, these work very well, you can make them tight enough to know that you are restrained, but they will stretch just enough so you can slip out of them.

That's NOT the point of self bondage or bondage of ANY type.

Bondage is supposed to teach you discipline, both self discipline to calmly settle into sub-space, and discipline and respect for your top/master.

Getting out too soon MUST have CONSEQUENCES.

You people keep wanting acceptable ways to get out of bondage. You need to be adult about it, not be a crying child, and stick with your bondage until the prescribed time is up.

But susie, it is "self bondage" they may not have anyone else to do the bondage, set the limits, and give a punishment if they are not met. They may only have themselves, their fantasies and the dreams of what it would be like to have a participating partner.

MissStress hits it on the head - it is because we are playing solo. Any more ideas out there?

But susie, it is "self bondage" they may not have anyone else to do the bondage, set the limits, and give a punishment if they are not met. They may only have themselves, their fantasies and the dreams of what it would be like to have a participating partner.

As I described above, an individual can successfully restrain themselves, so another person is not necessary for that.

If they self-release themselves too soon,they have do have real punishment if they use the method I described above--they will have a gallon of cooking oil, or for the fire-phobe who preferred a non-flammable mixture, a gallon of pancake syrup and urine spilled on their living room carpet to clean up. I think that's a pretty good punishment for early release. In fact, because the punishment is self inflicted by the act of releasing oneself, it is worse than being inflicted by someone else.

Go back and read my posts in this thread. Self bondage with real consequences and punishment for premature release is definitely achievable, even without a partner.

They want the feel and mental restraint of being bond/tied to a point they can not get out of. Except for the options they have left themselves for an emergency release (using cloth, scissors at hand, key on a wrist, or what ever quick release they have decided to use). One never knows when an emergency would make one need to get out of their bondage. Or if they themselves are just loosing interest in the whole idea that they have set up for themselves.

Maybe with a partner it could be made more demanding with the other person being the one to keep the emergency "out" available and set the boundaries for them. To make a mess (as a punishment for early release) is not for everyone. Also not everyone is as hard core and as in need of discipline in their kinky need for bondage. Just be sure to keep yourself safe what ever way you decide to play with self bondage.

Switchable Suzie - not everybody needs to push it to the point of making a mess to allow themselves out of bondage early. I need the feel of being bound, and I do have the ability to force myself to hold it for a set period of time without the necessity of making amess to get out early. I am simply looking for ideas of different ways to bind myself, to provide the sensation. That can really tie in with a fantasy. Sure, there is a mental component to NOT being able to get loose - but I have a lot of self control and that becomes part of the restraint...

>>>> I read a lot of female self bondage stories. Most of them had the key to the lock tied to a sting frozen in a large block of ice. She then chains or cuffs herself with a vibrator in her. She waits for the ice to melt to free herself.

I've tried this and find it works better in stories than it does in real life.

I am into binding myself and releasing hot water punishment enemas. I found the best way to trigger the enema (starting the punishment) is to put a long string from my wrists to the enema clip release, then from the enema clip release to across the floor and to the key.

I use belts to bind my legs, and loops of ropes and a padlock to bind my hands. It's best if I can find something solid like a water pipe to lock my hands to.

Now here's the trick: I can only get the key by pulling the string and releasing the enema water. And then I have a LONG string to slowly wind in before I can unlock the padlock. By then, the punishment enema has squirted into me.

For a long while, I had an old fashioned remote camera trigger, with a timer, that I used to release the enema. I found this useful if I used really hot water, since I was reluctant to just pull the string release water causing instant pain. Instead, I would get myself all tied up and helpless then trigger the remote timer release, and the painful enema would be delayed by 30 seconds, which allowed me to disassociate triggering the release and the painful water flow to follow.

And I would also be stuck for about 3 minutes before I could retrieve the key and escape, assuring that I would get a full punishment.

There was a video posted recently where a young lady puts herself into bondage using a number of padlocks to secure her cuffs and taping the keys to the cuffs under different items of clothing that are secured on by the cuffs. This means she has to unlock the first in a sequence of padlocks to allow her to access the key for the next cuff, and so on. The link to the thread is below -

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph56aa47194b99f

Inspired by this I decided to try it out yesterday. I had a pair of rubber stockings, rubber shoulder length gloves, a corset, rubber hood, high heels, gag harness and posture collar and a locking butt plug harness.

I taped keys in a specific order to the bottom of my feet, the palms of my hands, inside the heels, inside the hood and inside the corset. The stockings and gloves were locked on by locking ankle and wrist cuffs. My heels were locked on with high heels locking straps, the corset was locked on with a belt around my waist and the gag harness and posture collar meant I could;t remove the hood underneath. The first key to the sequence was held in an ice release block suspended from my attic door. I had positioned this before locking a chain between my ankles, making it impossible for me to climb on a chair or ladder to try and make the ice melt faster. Essentially I had to wait for the ice to melt before the first key dropped.

I have to say, this was a seriously exhilarating experience. It was really exciting but about an hour in the inflatable and vibrating butt plug was really sending me wild and I couldn't focus on anything. I didn't cum but I felt like i was on the edge of pleasure pretty much the whole time.

Once the key dropped I was so desperate to get out. I unlocked the gag and collar and unzipped my hood to release the next key. It was such a relief when the last cuff came off and I was finally free!

And yes, to those who always see self bondage as the being as lethal as swimming with a great white shark, I did have a back up release set of keys positioned on top of a cupboard taped to the outside of an open can of tomato soup with a string enabling me to pull it off the cupboard if I needed them. And in any case I was still able to walk around and could leave the house if I really needed to. Although I might have been a bit of a talking point with the neighbours if that situation arose!

Self bondage sounds great but what if somthing goes wrong ? What happens if your found days weeks later ? What happens if sombody finds you in a compromised position ? If you get it right then good but May be have a back up plan ???

I like this approach too - but I have a different backup plan. You can buy magnetic door locks on eBay for #12 or so, run on 12V and have a pull of over 100 pounds. I put the plates on my wrists then just let them lock to the magnets attached to the bedframe. I power the magnets off 10 AA rechargeable NiMh cells and charge them up just enough to keep me immobile for the desired time. Once the battery goes flat, the magnets release.

I use up to six of them, ankles, hips and wrists.

I can just lay down, let the ankle ones click into place, fit the hips ones and start up whatever type of self torment I have in mind.

Then unplug the charging lead (important not to forget this step!!) And let the wrists lock into place.

Now utterly unable to get free and a guaranteed release when the battery goes flat. I can also use a timer for better accuracy, but backup is when the battery goes flat too.

If anyone is interested, let me know and I'll supply technical details.

I've practiced sel bondage many time but I only tie up my legs and ankles to spreader bars or to the bed posts. I may wrap the rope around my wrists but not tie it. It just seems to dangerous.

Self bondage sounds great but what if somthing goes wrong ? What happens if your found days weeks later ? What happens if sombody finds you in a compromised position ? If you get it right then good but May be have a back up plan ???

My method has a BACK-UP PLAN (the key is right at hand to unlock yourself) AND it has CONSEQUENCES for early release (spilling the syrup and pancake batter on your carpeting) . . . . and it's a double punishment because YOU create your own mess if you release yourself early.

What could be better ? ? ?

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For those worried about a fire: If you have a fire in your house, spilled syrup and pancake batter on your carpet will be the least of your worries.

I like to masturbate when my legs are held wide apart in bondage. I put myself in spreader bars a lot. I also sit on the floor in ankle restraints and hook my restraints up to ropes through widely spaced pulleys on ceiling hooks holding weights close to the ceiling. When I let go with my hands, the weights pull my legs up and wide apart. If the weights are too heavy, this is a tough one to escape.

Another self-bondage I enjoy is lying on my side with my lower leg strapped to a padded board while my upper leg is pulled up and back over my head in almost the opposite direction by two restraints around it that I clip as tightly as I can to two chains hanging from opposite ends of a short rope through a ceiling pulley. This pulls my crotch so wide open that the skin of my taint is pulled tight as a drum. I then use two leather straps to secure a powerful, double-headed, plug-in vibrator to my suspended thigh so that the vibrator heads hit just the right spots. One head is right over my prostate and tightly squeezes it into a vibrating butt plug. The other head is between my balls just below the base of my cock. When I switch on both vibrators, a mind blowing hands free orgasm slowly starts to build. I squirm around for about 20 minutes and then I explode. I set my cum shooting distance record this way.

We also have several homemade leather body harnesses. One of them works really well for suspension. I love to strap myself into it tightly, stand on a stack of books, and hook my hip rings up to two chains coming down from ceiling hooks. When I step off the stack of books I am barely able to touch the floor with my tip toes, and the wide leather strap under my crotch pushes a 3-inch butt plug deeper up inside me. Then I like to watch in a full length mirror as I flog my butt red. Each swat with my flogger makes me do a crazy, involuntary little dance on my tip toes. I use my other hand to make myself cum.

I like the body harness suspension much better when Pam helps. After I hook myself up and I'm standing on the books, Pam clips my wrist restraints high up on the chains. Then she pushes me off the books and kicks them out of the way. She like to leave me hanging for a while, but she always comes back with the flogger to make me really dance as she turns my butt bright red. Eventually she grabs my cock and gets me off. I love it.

Great to hear from another self bondage enthusiast. I would ask that you be careful though. As you say yourself, some of these positions are difficult to escape from. This makes them potentially quite dangerous. No one wants to get stuck in bondage unnecessarily. At best you will be stuck a few hours and be uncomfortable before the potential embarrassment of someone finding you and releasing you. At worst you could die.

This is especially important when doing suspension bondage. Personally this isn't something I would ever do on my own as the risks that come with it are too great for my liking. The potential for cutting off circulation to body parts is significantly increased and you have the added challenge of gravity to fight against in getting yourself out of the situation. It can also be tiring, which makes escaping increasingly difficult as time progresses.

I know this is all very boring to hear but from your perspective you need to look after yourself. And from a community perspective we can do without people damaging themselves and the subsequent bad press this brings to an already maligned group of people.

Play safe. Do a proper risk assessment when you aren't horny before committing to any of these situations. Self bondage can be really safe but it does require a lot of planning and failsafes.

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Granted, some folk might use bondage - self or other - to learn discipline or other things, but I like it because it is just plain fun and I like the attention.

Yes, there are safety concerns when it comes to self bondage, but there are safety concerns for when your top ties you up. But, let me ask this: Do accidents involving bondage (self or other applied) actually happen or is this simply another urban myth repeated so often some folks believe it?🤔

Decide for yourself: http://openmindmedia.com/self-bondage/

I did not find any other pages that listed deaths or injuries as the result of bondage activities.