Enemas and feminization?

As part of a story I am writing (honest!) I came across the idea that enemas were very effective for feminization (e.,e., to reduce aggressive behaviour).

It depends on how it is done, of course. By women, in front of other women, naked etc.

Does it work? Is it because the anus is involved, bringing up gay sex ideas? Or is it the humiliation aspect, which allows the personality to be re-balanced?

Any ideas welcome!

I beleave that enemas are used in the feminization prosess more so because it is done with the mind set of the douching/cleansing prosess a woman uses and the anus for all intents' and purposes assumes the roll of the vagina. I beleave the mannor in which it is done plays a large part in weather or not it is a nurturing, educational expereance for a new sissy/fem or of the sole purpose of humiliating them.It also depends upon weather the feminization is conscentual and desired or it is a forced transformation. As far as reducing agressive behavior, the best way to accomplish that is through milking the prostate. This causes the testostarone to be released with out any sexual gratification causing the male to be more docile.

I hope this helps you

Stretch's comments are right on target. Well said !

Yes, thanks Stretch - very interesting!

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Is it because the anus is involved, bringing up gay sex ideas?

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I'd say that feminizing is not necessarily to be equated with bringing up gay ideas. In fact many feminization themes in stories do not involve gay sex or contact at all. Many remain devoted to the idea of eradicating, evolving or changing male sexual characteristics into more feminine characteristics, be it in appearance, in dress and mainly in comportment and thought. Often in stories one male will be in the company of other females throughout, with no other males necessarily involved.

It's about subjugating males to female authority, with the added characteristic that in fantasy stories there is inevitably a large sexual element involved. And that element can be both for purposes of embarrassment and humiliation of the male, but it also invariably involves feeling of pleasure and arousal for the same male since, in fiction at least, this is what he secretly wishes to happen. It is a process that is ultimately enjoyable for him as well as for whomever is playing the dominant role.

Involving anal sexual elements is just one of the many elements that can be included in such stories. Any type of anal penetration can be compared to equivalent vaginal penetration, thereby reversing role types. If the anal penetration happens via the giving of enemas, clysters or the use of dildos or dilators, physically it should be stimulating and arousing for males in any case. There is also the symbolic imagery of a male being penetrated by a female, which just adds to the mental pleasure of the situation.

In stories, the fictional justification for a feminizing therapy is often to reduce aggressiveness in a male. I' say that this is just a fiction, a convenient excuse to work along a story line that sounds halfway believable. Anyone who is truly an aggressive personality will most likely become even more enraged and uncontrollable if submitted to such treatments.

Of course there are real individuals who undergo feminization therapy and treatments. But that is because they wish to do so, not because they are forced to do so against their nature. This is where one has to draw a line between real life and what is simply fiction meant for entertainment.

All of that said, it is truly quite fun to think up scenarios and write them up in story form. It helps clear thoughts on the matter and also lets you explore your own feelings and desires. I've written many such stories myself and it can be surprising how they evolve and what you discover about longings and desires you were not even sure you had.

I always thought it was more the submissive position one takes ..both in terms of dominant/submissive roles, control vs no control, etc?

I think that it depends on the role that the patient is taking. A person that is being "forced" to have an enema and has to hold it and feels "humiliated" it sort of could be considered "feminizing" however, I look at it more as being forced into submission. I don't equate feminization with submission; though I can see how people might.

Speaking for myself my wife has crossdressed me when she plays the mistress and I have been given an enema followed by a tampon, she says it helps to give me an idea what a woman feels each and every month, the cramps, the pressure in this case the enema, putting tampons in and out. We both enjoy our games. I think a switch like us have more fun in our relationship.

My personal feeling is that an enema can be considered feminization. From a sexual point of view, think of what it is. Usually a hard long object (penis) being inserted into a very private and intimate body cavity (vagina) and finally a liquid (semen) being ejected inside you. It can be considered very feminizing to a male. For men they can also experience what a douche is. I love enemas and take them for my own pleasure, not for feeling feminine. Although on occasion I have taken enemas in some female garments and treated them as a douche.

I often wonder whether my love of enemas is a deep seated desire to become a woman for just a few moments, especially when it's a woman that administers the enema. Having a fully clothed female slowly moving a douche nozzle in and out of my rectum while lots of hot, milky colored enema water fills my bowels gives me a powerful erection, and if she touches my penis, I'm likely to have a very intense ejaculation. She becomes the male in complete control, pleasing me sexually by penetrating me anally until I have an orgasm.

Yes, I think you are correct in your idea and the idea that many people have expressed here that the giving of enemas, depending on the circumstances of course, does encourage feminization in boys at least. I say that just based on my experiences in the early 60's. The aunts who raised me often stated that they were trying to raise me to make sure that I didn't end up like my father. And so far of their trying to make me a "good little boy" was to make sure I was polite and obedient. The rule was simple, if I was naughty I'd get a spanking but if I was cranky or fussy I'd get an enema to help me feel better. Later as an adult of course, I realized the whole "crankiness" thing when I was a kid was just a way of controlling and dominating me. I got many enemas for "crankiness" when I was 9 and 10 and I still resent them working on me like that. But I do think the joy I find in being submissive is based on what I learned from them from having to surrender myself.

I think that it depends on the role that the patient is taking. A person that is being "forced" to have an enema and has to hold it and feels "humiliated" it sort of could be considered "feminizing" however, I look at it more as being forced into submission. I don't equate feminization with submission; though I can see how people might.

I've loved giving myself and being given enemas for 50+ years. Since I'm also a switch and love being submissive, I also love the feelings of being "forced" to take and hold an enema, which feels like both being forced into submission as well as (satisfyingly) humiliated by my woman partner. It's never felt feminizing at all - it just feels satisfyingly as if I'm a sub male to my strong Domme partner. On the other hand, if I ever partnered with a Domme who happened to enjoy a role in which she wanted me to play a man being feminized by enemas and perhaps pegging, cross dressing and submission, I could absolutely play that role for her and enjoy the feelings of temporarily being feminized by what she did and said to me. I never considered it before, but with the right woman it could be very interesting.

Eric

I have a friend who cross dresses. He enjoys being dominated. He enjoys me calling him by fis female name and referring to douching his vagina. We are both pretty straight, but play roles. That’s fun.

Ultimately I suppose enemas are feminizing of men, but I also think at a certain point gender becomes irrelevant and an enema becomes simply a physical experience.

Well, I am gay and very submissive to both male and female but I don't know how to respond. I've always been passive.

Speaking as a gay male bottom, I can't really speak as much about enemas, but I can say that getting fucked by another male IS feminizing...and that's not a bad thing. That's empowerment from my point of view.

I will say that my only time being fisted was a dominatrix female with small hands...I loved it. She had a fetish of fisting someone, so we made it happen.

I can tell you yes it was and still is a very big part of my feminizing...

Losing control to a person ,,,being put on all fours not actually seeing what is about to happen.

Always in my chastity cage and always dressed in some type of sexual lingerie

Feeling a long douche nozzle sliding in you and hearing the click of the enema clamp feeling the enema solution filling you

Yes I slip deep into my feminine side the cramping will remind you how women feel with their . Menstrual cycle