Your First Time Having Sex

Gotta go there

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2madk1

That's right. Butt fucking is not sex.

"Having sex" is a coupling of male and female sex organs---PIV.

A penis in the hand or clit in the hand or dick in the mouth or anus is NOT sex.

Is a Sybian having sex? No it is masturbation.

Other activities playing with the genitals are forms of masturbation.

I will acknowledge there are confounding bastardized definitions recently.

Does that mean gays and lesbians never 'have sex?'

I think PiV is the classic definition of loss of virginity in heterosexuals, but most people are a little more broad in what they consider to be "having sex."

Would you consider your husband engaging in sexual activities other than PiV with other women without your consent to violate a commitment to not have sex with others (if you two have such a commitment)?

Reminds me of that famous (or is it infamous) saying "I did not have sex with that woman"...

Along with "It depends upon what the meaning of the word 'is' is."

What an embarrassment he was. Not a terrible president, but an embarrassment. Slick Willie.

Gotta go there

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2madk1

Great song, The Loophole, as I recall all about the Biblical benefits of butt fucking. But the link won't load and play. Any other links? Thanks,

Eric

@xols you’re making an unnecessary semantic distinction. Yes sexual intercourse, often shortened to sex, references PiV sex, however sexual activities include a much broader array of activities. Further, the standard marriage vow is ‘have and hold, foresaking all others’. Getting a BJ from some chick isn’t foresaking others.

Here’s a hint: if you have to hide it from your spouse you’re cheating. You don’t get a magical free pass if you stick your dick someplace other than her vag.

EDIT

My point is cheating isn’t limited to sex

Gotta go there

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2madk1

Nurse Phillips,

Okay, it played nicely on my (I know, still ancient) iPhone 5 with much newer software, iOS 14. My very old iPad 4 I usually use is way back on iOS 10.x.

The song is even better than I remembered. Great link. Thanks,

Eric

(Only complication is that after the song I want to go put in my favorite butt plug.) 😉

I think saying “having sex” is only PiV intercourse is a bit narrow. If oral sex and anal sex isnt sex, then why is the word “sex” in both terms? And if all the other fun messy stuff two people do naked together isn’t sex, what the hell is it? It’s certainly not “reading a book” or “knitting a scarf” or “watching TV”. Come on people, stop being so black & white. There’s a very simple, general word for it: it’s SEX.

In my opinion, Bill Clinton may not have had INTERCOURSE with that woman, but he damn well did have SEX with her. Unless you’d prefer to refer to that as “making photocopies” or “negotiating a bi-lateral treaty”.

Why not call everything else that isn't strictly penis in vagina (PIV) simply 'FUCKING'?

@Nurse_Phillips :

@xols you’re making an unnecessary semantic distinction. Yes sexual intercourse, often shortened to sex, references PiV sex, however sexual activities include a much broader array of activities. Further, the standard marriage vow is ‘have and hold, foresaking all others’. Getting a BJ from some chick isn’t foresaking others.

Here’s a hint: if you have to hide it from your spouse you’re cheating. You don’t get a magical free pass if you stick your dick someplace other than her vag.

My point is cheating isn’t limited to sex

I think you missed the context of my comment. I was offering a different view than SwitchableSusie, who said only PiV is 'sex;' oral, anal and hand jobs are not sex.

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'Sex' is not necessarily a shortened version of 'sexual intercourse,' which of course is PiV. 'Sex' could just as easily be a shortened version of 'sexual activity,' which is how it's most commonly used and would include at least anal sex, and for most people, oral and hand jobs, the two later considered non-penetrative sex, as @gwhap noted.

Why not call everything else that isn't strictly penis in vagina (PIV) simply 'FUCKING'?

I consider PiV to be fucking and probably anal as well. The non-penetrative sexual acts I don't consider fucking.

Well if bjs and anal don't count. Then the first time I had sex was when I was 14. My sister's friend was spending the night with her then came to my room after she and my mom went to sleep. Told me she wanted me to have her virginity. She didn't know that I was a virgin to. Mostly cause I lied about having sex with a female. But I had sex with my best friend. Which was a male like me . I guess I decided to be a sub male at a young age. Like at the age of 12 and he was 13.

Gotta go there

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2madk1

I love Garfunkle and Oates. This is my favorite, about go-cart racing:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWbq1Q0KyNs

The very first time was under the big oak tree which grew on top of the hill at the sandpit. we did it again later that day behind our house in a pine forest where I also gave her an enema.

I was 13 she was a VERY mature 11. even at that age she had big boobs and a full bush of dark red hair.

The very first time was under the big oak tree which grew on top of the hill at the sandpit. we did it again later that day behind our house in a pine forest where I also gave her an enema.

I was 13 she was a VERY mature 11. even at that age she had big boobs and a full bush of dark red hair.

WOW!

I'm impressed!

WOW!

I'm impressed!

Me, too. As a resident, the youngest girl I ever put a labor epidural into was 11 and had been impregnated at 10. I've never heard of a younger one, but heaven only knows.

Eric

My first was in early 20, s she was a lot older, but i scored many goals, first cock sucked, first vaginal sex, first anal sex and first enemas shared

Nurse Phillips, it looks like you were the first to post "The Loophole" Thank you so much for that link to the song/video "The Loophole". How did you ever find it.

It has to be one of the most original, funny and fun song/video to watch. It made me smile in these times of a pandemic.

Thanks again. Got any more?

@Michael001 Google Garfunkel and Oats. They’re a comedy duo. They’ve several rather funny songs out.

16 y.o. with my cheerleader girlfriend. I had for a brief time been fingering her and her grouping me clothed and hand just inside my pants but hadn't climaxed yet. We performed 69 and we both orgasms in delight. We dated 3 yrs. With only 69 and masturbation due to no birth control on her part and not even wanting me to use condom for intercourse enabling her to maintain virginity. It was fine with me as many other of my male friends weren't getting that far and advanced. Fretter

The first time I had sex was when I was 13 doing oral sex with another boy my age, for the first time with a girl was when I was 15, both were kind of awkward but I wouldn't change a thing!

I was 14 and she was 18. She was a girl from church that I had fooled around with on church outings and walks in the fields. Nothing more than mutual groping until one day she asked me if I wanted to go all the way. We went to one of the fields close to the village and basically we necked for a bit, she got my hard cock out, spread her legs(no panties under dress) and guided me in. Needless to say, I didn't last too long. A few pumps and a squirt and I was done. I really enjoyed it, but I doubt she got too much out of it. We did managed to get together a few times after, but with her living out of the village and me not having any transport at that age, often we would only be able to get together if my dad would give her a ride home on his scooter, which he did a few times.

I bumped into her years later when I was visiting Aden, in the Yemen. She was there with her husband and had 5 kids by then. We talked about those early days when we were young and she finally told me when my dad used to give her a ride home, they used to stop half way there and he would fuck her before taking her home. She did confess that was half the reason she kept seeing me for a while. Bit of a blow to the old ego, but my dad would screw anyone he got the chance to. My mother never had a clue.

Must confess I followed my dad in the morals department when I was single.

I guess it all depends on what you define as first time. The first time I ever ejacutaled with another person was my younger cousin, I was about 16 and he was about 4 years younger. I was teahcing him how to masturbate. My fist time having actual vaginal penetration (the classic definition of sex), was when I was about 21 years of age and I went “all the way," with a woman.

My first sex was at 19 with a condom, 22 without.

I initiated the sex without a condom. I was feeling really horny and wanted to feel “real sex”

I felt him pulsing, but didnt feel him cum. I was aware of a warming sensation inside me.

As soon as he pulled out YUCK! I couldnt wait to clean up.

i didnt get pregnant but was afraid i might.

Bill Clinton doesn’t think a BJ is having sex!

The first I had sex was 17 he was 21. I was out dragging main with some friends. It got late enough I needed to head home. So I dropped my friends off was headed when he saw me and waved me over. He said let’s go for a ride so I hoped in and we made a couple rounds on main and then went over behind his house. We had never really dated before I just always got stuck with him. My girlfriend dated his friends and he was always with them and I was with her so we never officially dated. Any way we parked there drank a few beers and started making out we layed down and he took my clothes off and we did it in the front of his pickup truck. He was no virgin by any means and it was not the greatest I don’t really know what happened or what was supposed to happen. He then took me back to my car and went home got in trouble because it was 1 am I was supposed to be home at 11:30.

Some of these messages remind me of something a feminist acquaintance of mine said. She remarked that parental hostility to their kids having sex (e.g., prohibition of receiving boyfriends or girlfriends at home; prohibition of contraceptives..) created unsafe situations, more likely to lead to sexually-transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancy, or rape. Certainly, having sex in a car or truck at night in a parking lot is not a safe situation.

My first time was actually initiated by the girl I was dating at the time. being inside a girl for the first time was euphoria beyond anything I had ever known. many partners since and the feeling has never changed.

I was a real late cummer! I had my first real intercourse experience at the age of 31. I had been brought up in a religious environment where pre-marital relations were a big “no-no”. This situation really stunted my relationships with women from high school through college and beyond. I loved being with women…even passionately kissing, groping, masturbating, etc., but never “plugging in”. At the age of 30, I met a gal on a blind date who had the most beautiful backside (I’m an UBER ASS Man!). We immediately “clicked” and just wanted to be with each other all the time. In a matter of weeks from our first date, I knew she was “The Winner”. We were engaged for 6 months and toward the end of that period, we would spend many overnights together in bed…just sleeping (spooning, etc.). A week before our wedding, we woke up about 7 AM and I had the biggest, stiffest “woodie” imaginable which she noticed immediately. She told me she wanted me to put that thing into her warm pussy where it could get some “special attention”. So, I figured, we were practically married, and I had a really painful, throbbing penis that needed immediate attention and she really wanted it! So, on her back she went, spreading her legs open. I mounted on top — slowly entering the “forbidden” space — gently pushing in deeper and deeper. I knew she was really loving it now as she tightly wrapped her legs around me as my thrusting continued. After a few minutes, I told her the “Point of No Return” was imminent. Our lips were locked and I pushed in — balls deep — for about 30 seconds of the most wonderful gushing ejaculation! We both were breathless.

Every morning for the rest of that week before our wedding, guess what we did? We’re coming up on 47 years together. Unfortunately, I’ve been impotent for the last 10 years as a result of prostate cancer. I really miss a good boinking!

My brother and I, each had a girl friend with us driving down an old dirt road when my car suddenly died (yes, this was not planned). We took our girlfriends into the woods and I had sex for the first time. There were two things that I remembered; 1. Worried that I would last long enough for her to be satisfied and 2. We dug up an ant's nest with our feet as I was pushing inside her. The sex was great but not earth shattering. We opened the hood of the car and had no idea what caused the car to stop. I found a small ground wire that was loose and tightened it back to the chassis and Walla it started. Of course, I was accused of deliberately making the car stopped.