Same sex oral sex

I am a lesbian and have had sex with both men and women. Have you ever noticed women perform better oral sex on women than men do? I have found very few exceptions to this little discovery of mine. Have any of the members here at Zity Biz ever noticed this?

Judy you and I have had this conversation many times in the middle of the night. I still think that a women knows what a women wants from a sexual partner and encounter. I hope I am am one of your exceptions to your rule?

Assuredly, men can be sensitive, tuned-in, experienced and exciting lovers who make pleasing women orally a priority. However, women have certainly masturbated with some frequency, explored and discovered the specific subtleties and nuances of what is most pleasing to them--and they're the ones with the same equipment. Although sex isn't about logic, it seems logical that women have, at least, a huge head start towards oral expertise. I have never been with another woman (so far) and have been very satisfied by men, but this thought lurks in the recesses of my mind.

I've been with both men and women (sometimes in the same bed) and don't think that women are necessarily better than men when it comes to oral sex. Each of us prefers a certain style of oral play so even though some of us have the same equipment, we each have our own preferences for how it's done. There are no shortcuts, secrets or signature moves (well, not all the time) that gets one's lover off every time.

The most incredible oral sex I've received has been with a man who is in his fifties. I wish I'd asked him to tell me his technique because he was just fucking amazing. Seriously, he should write a book. I think more than it being a gender issue, it really needs to be about wanting to please the other partner, learning the anatomy and how their body responds, focusing on what they love the most while still getting in a few licks of your own that they're not expecting, convincing them that they are sexy and wonderful, making them feel comfortable and giving them the freedom to relax and enjoy the act of oral lovemaking.

Just my $.02

Dianne

Waterbaby and Egirlky you both bring a question to my mind with your input on this thread. Have any of us taken the time with our sexual partner to learn how they masturbate and self stimulate themselves? As a sexual partner I have found this has taught me many things about the person I am with and what exactly they want in a sexual encounter. Besides I found it a very big turn on for me to watch a sexual partner masturbate themselves.

I'd rather not masturbate in front of a partner. Why masturbate when there is a perfectly good body lying there beside me.?

Besides, when I masturbate, it isn't a slow and sensuous adventure. I just get in and get the job done to relieve tension before bed (or whenever.) Just cranking one out, as the men say. It isn't all bubble baths and fluffy bunnies.

~ Dianne

Might be something to try when that special person in your life wants to please you like no other has. In that perfect World out there where there is such a person waiting for all of us, so the legend goes. Or maybe it only exists in that moment before sleep takes us for another night of dreams.

Judy thats bisexual not lesbian [ sex with m/f ]

I am the first man she has had sex with in the past ten years.

The term is lesbian

There's a key synthesis in what you say. I believe that the best sex is about mutual satisfaction. Learning how a partner masturbates certainly provides useful information about exactly what pleases him/her and some specific ways ways to get there (not necessarily the only ways). While I'm not comfortable masturbating in front of a partner, I have no trouble talking, positioning his hands, mouth--you get the idea. If you want to know how to please your partner the most, asking or watching is more direct than trial and error. Then, there's excitement of experimenting or learning something new from a partner . . .

I don't want to sound arrogant but I thought I was pretty good at pleasing a woman orally. I know the topic is same sex oral sex but the conversation has broadened a little. As I have never had same sex oral sex and (sorry fellas) probably never will. I have heard multiple times from my friends who are gay or lesbian that the rule of thumb is that men please men better and women please women better. Now there are always exceptions. Some may never experience it, and others just get lucky to find them.

I just want to add that before I was with my current fiance I thought masturbation in front of someone would be extremely awkward and just flat out weird, but we have done this a couple of times. Either I was just too tired from too much sex and she wanted to orgasm again, or she was too tired or on her period or something. Anyways, I found every person is different especially in the erogenous areas. When my fiance masturbated in front of me for the first time it kind of just intrigued me. Not on a OMG she is totally masturbating right now level, but on a more how does that make her feel like that level. So after getting to know my fiance really well especially her vagina. I can say that we both are better at bringing each other to climax and orgasm. I think the trick is to just listen to what the other person is saying.

Some people just have amazing skills, imo. I'm not sure I would tip the scale in favor of one gender or another, though.

I will say, as a man, the best oral I've ever received came from another man. But, I wouldn't say that is always the case.

I agree that males can give good oral sex to males...I do both and it's the technique thats important.

I don't think one sex is necessarily better at oraling than the other.

It quite simply takes being taught by all your partners, and here's the kicker, what one man or woman likes, another may not. SO, one of your lovers may think you're fantastic while another may think you are just mediocre.

The key is to listen to all your partners. Take the best, most universal likes and incorporate them and discard what people don't like so much. Once you do that, you will be an expert able to bring anyone to ecstacy.

Ive heard that it can be easier because one knows what the other wants more

I feel the same way Women know how to better please one another and the foreplay is better. I love to use my nipple to rub on my lovers clit. I brings fantastic results

The way to solve that problem is couples should tell each other what feels good for them I know that me and the miss. tell each other exactly what we want done at that moment nobody could be perfect

MRS L. is very blunt when it comes to performing oral sex on her _ lick harder _ suck harder _ stick your tongue in deeper _ so on and so on and I do the same as she's performing oral on me .

lately she's been training me on sucking cock .

she straps on a big dildo and has me suck it

she's been getting off on me suck her strapon cock

I cut out an opening in the back of one of her dildos

And put a vibrating bullet in the back of the balls and it rubs right on her clit. Getting her off plus she enjoys watching me sucking on her cock

and to be completely honest I'm enjoying it to .

I never would imagine that I would be sucking on a my wifes strapon cock but I am and I'm loving every minute of it the feeling of a cock sliding down my throat is pretty arousing plus. She will alternate from sliding her cock down my throat and smothering my face with her wet pussy .

what else can somebody ask for .

My experiences with women are limited and when I was much younger and inexperienced. I suspect my oral was as inept as theirs at the time. Plus the fact that a vagina just really doesn't do it for me ladies. I think it comes down to understanding how your partner really feels from personal experience.

I like to suck mam off think man on man is better