How do you feel about yourself, and your "perversions" ?

I feel great about myself and my many and varied experiences both sexual and adventures. I have been having sexual activities by myself and with others since I was 12 years old - 65 years ago! I treasure all of my memories, and am still making them, with women and men. I have never hurt anyone, or done anything that was no consensual. Some things I won't do a again since they were not pleasurable - but if I didn't try, I wouldn't know. Some things I won't do again when I evaluated the risks, some things I enjoyed like sounding, but hesitate now. I'm glad of all my experiences.

Normal is a useless term for activities that are done in private. Look at the number of so-called moral examples like preachers and priests who preached one thing and did the things they preached about. I don't preach, but I do explore and look for my limits. And am happy to help other consenting adults to explore their's.

Well I wish I didn't like to be spanked. My wife doesn't like it. She won't do it so it leaves me with an unfillable void that can't be filled. I don’t like that part of my kink too much.

Ive always felt guilty after the exam but don’t care about it so much

Thoughout my life, I have had a strong rectal temperature fetish.

As a teenager, I used to associate masturbation and rectal temperature and, if I knew all boys masturbated, I was sûre I was the only one to do it with a thermometer in my butt.

I have had a few girlfriend in my life. They had différent views concerning my fetish. Some, like my first girlfriend, were absolutly shocked by my fetish, she allways refused to let me take her ( rectal ) temperature or to take mine. Later, on the contrary, my second girlfriend was very much into medfet and she had decided that everytime we were to have sex, she would give me a comprehensive medical exam which allways ended with a rectai temperature taking on her lap.

Recently, I had for several years a girlfriend who shared my fetish for rectal temperature. We used to take eachover's temperature every day, with the COVID crisis as an ''excuse'' for it .

As I grow older, I fell less and less ashamed about my rectal temperature fetish, but I still keep it as my ''private garden''. No one in my familly or among my friends knows about it.

And the final question is: ''Is rectal temperature fetish a perversion ? ‘’

Why flagellate yourself for your desires, perverted or otherwise? Unless you’re into that! lol.

Seriously, it took me a long time to become comfortable with my proclivities, having come from a sexually repressed Catholic upbringing. But, once I became an adult and experienced what goes on in the world, I realized that there are a wide variety of sexual desires and practices. Now while I don’t advertise my kinks, I am completely comfortable in who I am. I’ve also found that the ones who denounce sexual proclivities the loudest, are probably the ones who are into some seriously deep seated perverted shit!🤣

I think everyone has their own perversions and fantasies and I find it okay to feel good about it. Of course I have to take into account that not everyone I know as friends, family, partner can like it as much. Fortunately I am in a community where we do not hide and we have the opportunity to share and appreciate our fantasies.

I feel great about my perversions otherwise i wouldn't have them.

In my own mind I am content with my perversions, however i am dissapointed that i've never been able to really indulge in them by not being good at social interactions, and now my age , and I have also irrationally had a worry on what others would think of my paraphanalia when the time comes