How do you feel about yourself, and your "perversions" ?

I'm of the belief that "Nothing is perverted if you admit it."

Quite a few folks have said that they don't consider their kinks a perversion. I would agree with what I think they are trying to say, but you don't get very far into the definition of perversion till you see a phrase like"departing from what is considered normal." If that definition sounds correct, you would have to agree that around the Zity community, _not_ taking or giving enemas for sexual pleasure is a perversion.

Since I enjoy enemas , in a community of folks that enjoy enemas, it seems that activity can't be a perversion. Many of our users have expressed the idea that till discovering Zity, (or a similar site), they felt that their preferences made them abnormal. ...perhaps so abnormal that they might be the only person to enjoy such a repulsive behavior? I know I felt that way.

Soo... today I feel OK about what I consider enjoyable. I'm pretty sure that no one else is harmed by what I like or do, but I still don't want the activity to be revealed to the general public, or even to family members that don't share the same viewpoint. Somehow there is a difference between enjoying your body via "normal" sex, and enjoying your body via (horrors!) an enema.

I don't think mine are perversions as long as I don't impose them on anyone else.

I guess pre internet days things got called perversion as it was always so secret, but is it a lot of things are now a lot more normalised? It also a thing now where its wrong to kink shame people.

The term “perverted,” means different things to different people. A religious person would view things in a very negative way, and a mainstream individual would see it as just part of life.

Fifty years ago, I felt guilty about my interest in enemas and all things anal. It was a few years into our marriage before I was brave enough to approach my wife about my kinks to see if she would accommodate them in our sex life.

Many years ago, I felt like a dirty old man for liking my kinks. My wife always reassured me that having kinks did not make me a dirty old man.

My wife and I feel that anything we both are comfortable with is not a perversion and should be embraced and enjoyed.

While my wife does not share my love for enemas nor my interest in enemas, she is fine with me enjoying them. In 45 years, I have given her a grand total of about 12 enemas in hopes that she would continue them either to help with her bowels or because she enjoyed them. Alas, they neither helped her bowels nor did she enjoy them. I doubt she will ever have another, but she is fine with me having enemas. In fact. she knows that I regularly give myself enemas and, of course, I need to clean myself out before she plays with my bottom.

And, speaking of playing with my bottom, (glad you brought that up) my wife knows I love everything anal and she happily plays with my bottom by inserting just about anything that is insertable.

While my wife is pretty vanilla when it comes to sex, she introduced spanking into our sexual repertoire. About 10 years ago, she playfully whacked me on the bottom. When I liked it, she grabbed a ruler and whacked me on my bottom some more, and I liked that. The next day, somehow, without me knowing, when I got home, I had several heavy duty rulers with me. I don't know where they came from, but she used them on my bottom and I liked it -- a lot. It wasn’t long before we had a rather extensive collection of paddles and other spanking implements for her to whack my bottom.

Now, if only she would have some interest in letting me whack her bottom...even lightly...with just my bare hand. Alas, it is not to be. Of course, I can touch and fondle her cheeks and even put a lubricated finger up inside. Just no smacking her bottom.

Ah, but at least she happily whacks mine.

It's only kinky the first time.

I regret that I did not spend more time naked and kinky when I was younger.

I feel pretty great about them. Especially when they're going on. I've hidden a lot from my wife, but I've opened up more and more and it's gone well. I still don't know that she'll ever be ready to watch me take an enema or shove a stainless steel rod down my dick. Even with the hidden things, I don't feel bad about them. It's more of a turn on than anything.

I also do not see my interest in medical fetish as a perversion, and I am very comfortable with my Medical-Fetish (med-fet) likes & interests. This is because in all transparency my med-fet interest revolves around me the most authentically female transfeminine/female person I can be and hence, I know that women must need to be more involved in their overall health self-care & concerns than most normal males need to be. Though now being fully transparent, I have over the last couple of years branched off a bit and I have developed a parallel interest in adult diaper wearing, though I'm not anywhere fully into ABDL fetish. The hardest thing for me today is trying to find other Medical Fetish individuals, and especially providers who live here in Texas. Even the big cities do not seem to have any established med-fet providers, except for the for profit (e.g. $$$) Pro-Dommes. Being Male to Female (MtF) Transgendered it is especially hard in finding a med-fet provider for a MtF Transwoman like me. If there are any out there in south/central Texas or the DFW area, please feel free to contact me here.