That one time special experience with someone you never expected to enjoy.

I have made no bones about being a Lesbian and I am not the slightest interested in men. At least up until about eighteen months ago when I met a certain individual that turned my thinking somewhat. He is loud and brash and not what you would expect for a kink and I do mean kink. I thought he would be a laugh and a nice dinner once when he traveled down to California to visit myself and my Life Partner. He was supposedly on Business.

Well it turned out he was just that a real laugh and a great host as we toured L.A.'s hot spots dinning and dancing the weekend away. He managed without much persuasion to coerce the two of us into a group sexual encounter. Well hot shit if this kink was not the best thing that ever grew a mouth and a penchant for oral sex. Both my Life Partner and I time and time again had head crushing orgasms at the mercy of this man's oral skills. We both serviced his needs and did partake in his kink several times we could not in good conscience leave him hanging as such. The weekend ended and he loaded up and flew off home leaving both of us questioning our own sexuality.

My question, have you ever had a sexual experience with someone or with some technique that has left you in question of your own sexual preferences?

This is a very good question . I have asked myself about sexual things that I have done . It has nothing to do with preference , it has to do with you . Do you feel good or bad with what you have done . If everyone is legal and agree , you owe that pleasure to yourself . Life is short , try your best to enjoy it and grab all you can . Good luck Karma for you !

Sexuality isn't an either or. What does it really matter? You and your partner had a wonderful time. Don't get hung up on labels.

. . . . My question, have you ever had a sexual experience with someone or with some technique that has left you in question of your own sexual preferences?

No. I like both, but if I had to pick just one, it would be men. I would say 99% of my sexual activity is with my husband. When I was younger, I saw a few more women. Now, once in a great while, I find a spectacular woman who turns me on and I act on it.

My husband is 100% completely straight, and while he will engage in sexual activity in a group and do S&M activities in front of a mixed group, he won't do anything involving sexually touching another man (a three-way with another woman is OK with him, but not with another man). On the other hand, I might avail myself of a good time with another woman if I find her spectacular in some regard like Madonna, Suze Orman, Tammy Lynn Michaels, Eleanor Roosevelt (I know, she's dead) even though I prefer to have sex with men.

I do like your tastes in women Susie. I too am like your Husband and just can't do the man thing. I have a gay friend and he is a very good friend that has many times tried to convince me to walk on the dark side with him but I just can't do it.

Wow, It was the late 70's at a girl friends house as we were laying in bed, her roommate came in all mad about her boyfriend. I was just trying to stay under the covers when she striped off her clothing and jumped into bed with us. My GF started laughing as I was really taken by surprise. This girl was a real goody two shoes or at least had been towards me. As usual, soon as the blood rushed from the big head to the little head in her mouth I was on cloud nine. I was glad to help teach her boyfriend a lesson but sad that I had to go to work that night. I had no idea the two of them were BI.

Being totally BI-Sexual with out all the social hangups, I no longer question the feelings that at one time would cause me pain. I guess with age a person reaches a point when you have to live each week as your last. If it feels good and is not illegal (too much) "go for it" What I mean by "not too illegal", Florida still has a sodomy law on the books.

I don't see some guy on the street and suddenly go after him BUT if the setting is correct and the vibes are there, it just seems to happen.. I Dearly love 4 somes when everyone clicks but sadly they are few and far between... Always practice safe sex (& I don't mean give them a fake name)

When I was sixteen I prayed to find the women who would change my mind. Never happened. Hopelessly and happily gay.